(originally @domina-valeer)

How do you handle releases for boys you personally lock? Do you observe and relock them immediately or give them the key and tell them to call you when they want back in the cage? Do they ever get weeks off or is it always back to back chastity?

Back to back.

Well, in the first days and weeks there are very few rules. Getting the right fit trumps everything else. It’s a pain because you’d like to just jump in with both feet and say, “I’ve got you now, my pretty!” but the reality is that it just takes time to get it right.

But when the game is afoot then the goal is to keep the libido high. That means he gets ONE orgasm upon release. (Two if he’s really good.) If you let him wank until his prostate is utterly empty you’re essentially rolling back all your control over him to zero. The prostate can hold something like four or five ejaculations. You want that topped off as soon as possible so he gets back up to full arousal within a couple days. If you give him weeks off you’re risking losing him.

Yes, if I’m personally locking and the boy is local, I supervise the releases. It’s not so much a security thing as an enjoyment thing. That’s one of my favorite parts. Seeing the desperation on his face turn to anticipation then ultimate bliss. Then seeing his relaxed dopamine-drenched mind suddenly realize the cage is sliding back on before the orgasm glow has fully subsided. It’s emotional whiplash and it’s very exciting.

Never ever princess.

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by AlexanderK