Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

[Caption from Barscubed - these aren't Mistress N's 'rules']

Mistress kindly granted me release last night and also allowed me to write about it this morning.

It happened quite late in the evening. She started work late due to Thursday's heavy night and therefore finished late too. She was also quite tired, so she took a nap after dinner. I tried not to think about release, but Mistress had already implied that it was likely to happen that night, so it was difficult to dismiss the idea all together.

She woke up quite refreshed and, dressed in just a tee shirt, she was soon instructing me to strip naked and put my collar on. She told me to fetch her dildo and strap it on her, then had me kneel down before her and "worship her cock". I licked and sucked the dildo as she rammed it into my mouth and rubbed it into my face.

When she was ready, Mistress had me kneel up on the bed, lubricated my anus and her "cock" and gave me an energetic pegging, starting slow but building to a literally eye-watering climax. I was left sore, red-faced and chastened, while Mistress glowed, with a wild and triumphant look in her eyes.

The circumstances of my release were different from most previous ones, in that Mistress opted to squat down on my face while I masturbated. I was not permitted to speak, so I was unable to ask for permission to release when I felt I was approaching completion; I just had to wait for her to grant it without any prompting.

This meant that there was a greater than usual risk of me coming without permission; to mitigate that risk, I had to "ease off" whenever I felt myself getting to the point of no return. Effectively, I was being forced to "edge". Given how much I wanted to ejaculate once I began to masturbate, that wasn't easy.

Mistress made me keep this up for what seemed like quite a long time, all the while taunting me, asking me why I had slowed down and encouraging me to go faster; at the same time, she kept pinching and scratching my chest and nipples and shifting her bottom around on my face, making it hard to breathe at times.

Eventually, permission was given and I rapidly brought myself off. To me, it felt like opening up a high-powered hose, but Mistress found it far less impressive.

"Is that all you've got?" she teased. "W*nker! I don't know what all the fuss was about..."

Nevertheless, a wave of relief passed over me as I lay there with my heartbeat slowly dancing back to normal. Mistress rose, padded across the room and fetched a tissue, which she threw down at me with an order to clean myself up; then went and sat on the end of the bed.

When I had finished and disposed of the tissue, she told me to get back down on my hands and knees before her. I obeyed, bowing my head as I did so, but she put her finger under my chin to make me look up at her. She looked deep into my eyes.

"What do you say?" she asked, softly but firmly.

"Thank you, Mistress" I said, almost in a whisper. Those moments can be overwhelming.

"Goddess," she corrected me. "I want to be a Goddess tonight".

"Thank you, Goddess," I said, making sure the last word was very clear. She smiled, a self-satisfied smile.

"Okay, you may kiss my feet."

I ducked down and pressed my lips firmly to her warm, slightly perspiring, slightly "beddy" feet. I would stop when she told me. Then it would all be over, for at least another month.

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I'm not sure if Mistress will want to add anything to this or not. I hope so, though she is a little busy today.

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You cannot take your chastity belt anymore? Oh wow, what a surprise… It was your idea and I warned you more than once before I finally locked you up. I offered you a safe word, you refused. I offered you a trial period, you wanted the real thing. And look at you now, here you are, begging for release.

Guess what, I have one final offer to make. For every minute I fuck you with this rubber cock I will reduce one single day from your chastity time. Every time the rubber balls slap against your ass you will scream: “You were right and I was wrong!”

Maybe that will teach you that one should be careful what to wish for!

40 Ways to Control Your Sub Partner Outside of the Bedroom

Always exercise caution and negotiate what form of control you want someone to have over you. Please do not rush into something that makes you uncomfortable.

Many of these forms of control are more extreme and appropriate only for those in trusting, long term commitments. Absent of consent these things are not appropriate and even when consensual may only appeal to a specific set of masochistic subs that crave such forms of controlling and seemingly abusive behavior.

1) Use apps to keep control of their location

2) Require them to keep a food log and report to you what they eat

3) Make them share their email, Facebook, Tumblr, or other social media account passwords with you. Set up the security questions and recovery email so that only you can reset them.

4) Keep a safe where you can lock up some of personal items as punishment

5) Plan their outfits for them. Budget what money they can spend on clothes or just do the shopping for them so they never wear clothes they pick for themselves.

6. Gain admin access to their bank account so you can track their spending.

7. Set up a protocol for their behavior in public: how they should address you, when to speak to others, what sort of eye contact they should make. Punish them in private for breaking protocol.

8. Make them wear a fitness device so you can track their activity and sleep schedule and hold them accountable to it. Set a bedtime for them.

9. Keep them locked up in a chastity device.

10. Pick out their barber or hairstylist for them. Make them groom themselves to your liking.

11. If they work outside the home, have them set up their paychecks for direct deposit into YOUR bank account. Transfer a small stipend to them to restrict their spending.

12. Keep tabs on who their friends are and what relatives they speak to on a regular basis. Intervene when there’s a relationship that isn’t to your liking.

13. Use “parental” controls whenever necessary to limit their access to pornography so they will channel their attention to You alone.

14. Set up a protocol for punishment when you’re in a public area. One code word could mean they must get to a private area like a restroom for a spanking or lecture. Another code word could mean they’ll get punished later at home.

15. Find other submissives in the BDSM community that can befriend your sub and then report back to you on their private conversations. Use them as spies to find out how your sub REALLY feels.

16. Make your sub keep a diary that you have access to so you can read their personal thoughts.

17. Order for them when you go out to eat at restaurants.

18. Say things that subtly demean then when you’re with other people, like “he can’t ever think straight” or “they’re not very good at math.” You can also tell embarrassing stories. This will make them feel flustered and keep your power dynamic balanced properly.

19. If you decide to not be monogamous, create an arrangement where only you can decide who will fuck them and when.

20. Make them wear fetish or bondage gear under their clothes when they’re in public.

21. Make them check in with you at specific times when you’re apart.

22. Control the amount of water they drink and when they get to pee. Have fun watching them squirm when you’re out in public together. If they wet themselves- laugh, pretend you don’t know them, and leave them to find a ride home on their own.

23. Make them recite mantras to themselves throughout the day such as “I am property. I will serve my owner. My body belongs to Master.”

24. Enroll them in classes such as cooking or massage therapy so that they can serve you more fully.

25. Set up a protocol for how they will refer to themselves in public and in private. They might have a different protocol for each. Make them change their name or use a nickname if you wish when in public.

26. Give them a strict daily schedule. When they wake up. When they fix you breakfast. When they exercise. When they leave for work, etc.

27. Restrict what type of access they have to transportation. For example, if they can get to work by bus, make them sell their car and not renew their driver’s license to affect their ease of getting places without your permission.

28. Find a place where you can keep them chained up, such as a basement or closet space, when they won’t be fully necessary.

29. Use punishments accordingly to control their behavior. Some subs may require physical discipline while others may just require a lecture or restriction of privileges.

30. Try hypnosis as a means of reprogramming your sub’s mind to fully surrender to you.

31. Install surveillance cameras in your home that only you have access to. Even if you don’t regularly rewatch the footage, this will be enough for fuck with your sub’s mind.

32. Keep food and other household items locked up so that the sub can only access them with your permission.

33. Try to strike feelings of jealousy in your sub when they’re slacking. Pull up Grindr and scroll through it in front of him of find another sub to fuck and tell them how AMAZING the sex was.

34. Marry them so you will be in a legally binding agreement and cement their commitment to you. Find ways to arrange the pre-nup so they’ll be at an extreme disadvantage to leave the relationship.

35. Teach them to be very complementary and respectful to you while around other people. Reward them when they sing your praises and describe what an incredible partner you’ve been to them.

36. Give them incentive and appreciation for the service they’ve done for you. This will provide extra motivation for them.

37. Tattoo or pierce them if you wish.

38. Be the head of the household who decides any major financial decisions or if you decide to move homes. Consider the sub’s input but veto it if necessary.

39. Find ways the sub can make extra money on the side for you.

40. Remind the sub that you do these things because you love him.

Happy international women’s day