The Problem With Not Giving A Fuck About What People Think Of You And Not Firing Within The Gender Binary

The problem with not giving a fuck about what people think of you and not firing within the gender binary is it just makes humiliation and shame so much less effective. Or rather changes how it affects me.

I'm a slut, a whore? Yes, yes I am. And damn proud.

Being feminized? I worship a goddess. I'm being elevated closer to what I worship? Hell yeah!

Kiss your boots? Bowing before you and showing my submission to you so directly is amazing.

I'm a cuckold? Oh you mean, I'm not claiming ownership of my partner's sexuality!

But the changes meaning becomes centered so much in the context of your dominant. It can be:

Pride: I'm your slut, your whore? Oh yes I am. I crave you so much I'll do whatever it takes to please you.

Surrender: you want to feminize me? Of course! I'm yours and happy to serve as your doll.

Acceptance: Kiss your boots? I'm your submissive and will happily show my devotion however you want it to be seen.

Trust: I'm a cuckold? I can't satisfy you sexually but I want you to be satisfied regardless. You may be getting fucked properly now, but no one can replace me in your heart.

Don't get me wrong, as a lover of being in chastity, there's something so hot and humiliating about knowing that you can't satisfy your partner. But it's not because that's what the world expects, it's between the two of us.