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Punishment Ideas

In power exchange dynamics, punishment refers to an action the Dom takes, usually negative reinforcement, to deter the submissive from breaking rules or from forgetting expectations.

But… what do you to for punishments? Have no fear. I’ve compiled a list, broken down into non-physical and physical punishments, to use as inspiration for your dynamic.

PHYSICAL PUNISHMENTS

- Spanking

- Caning

- Bastinado

- Figging

- Paddling

- Predicament bondage

- Kneeling in rice

- Holding hands in ice water

- Holding ice

- Forced cold shower / bath

- Tickling

- Clips and clamps

- Nipple / genital weights

- Walking on rice, pebbles or leggos  

- Coconut rope

- Tightrope bondage

- Slapping

NON-PHYSICAL PUNISHMENTS

- Writing lines

- Lecture

- Corner time

- Time-out in room

- Loss of privileges (phone, internet, video games)

- Loss of privileges (bathroom, utensil or hand use)

- Writing essay related to the transgression

- Being gagged

- Mouth soaping

- Being reduced to human furniture

- Being made to hold an uncomfortable pose 

- Being ignored / loss of speaking privileges

- Being locked in a cage or closet 

- Orgasm denial

- Orgasm torture

- Using a chilled or heated dildo

- Being made to sleep on the floor 

- Loss of furniture use

- Wearing humiliating or ill-fitting clothing

- Humiliating body writing

- Holding tongue

- Boot-licking

- Household chores (laundry, cleaning, dishes)

- Earlier bedtime

- Being made to scrub bathroom with tongue or toothbrush

- Being forced to perform a boring task (counting marbles, picking up grains of rice) with no other stimulation

- Being blindfolded and forced to listen to hated music / movie / show

- Hold coins against the wall without letting them slip

- No junk food

- Food denial for a day

- Being forced to walk on tiptoes

- Being made to wear uncomfortable shoes

All punishments should be negotiated, and within the limits / boundaries of all parties involved.

A note on masochists: Masochists are not impossible to punish. You just need to be smart about it! Not all masochists like all kinds of pain. Use that. If they like sting, save thuddy toys for correction. But if all else fails, there are dozens of non-physical punishments you can use to discipline them without encouraging them to act out to get their masochistic needs fed.

Come one, sweetie. Let’s get these plastic pants on over your diaper… There we go! Awww, they’re so cute and crinkly!

What’s that, baby? You want disposables instead of cloth? Hahaha! Before the matriarchy took over, did you ever imagine you’d be begging your girlfriend to let you wear disposable diapers instead of cloth ones with plastic pants? I’m so glad the government took away men’s rights and demoted you all to little babies! You’re so much better like this. But the answer is no, sweetie.

Yes, I know they’re more bulky, baby. And they feel yuckier because they don’t whisk away your wee-wee straight away, do they? But that’s exactly why I prefer you in them, silly! I want you waddling around like a toddler with a great big diaper bulge under your pants, crinkling loudly wherever you go so nobody is ever in any doubt about what you’re wearing. Looking ridiculous is an important part of being a man, honey. It will keep that silly male attitude of yours in check!

Don’t you wish it was you?

I am thinking about getting a PA Pearson and just wanted to ask if it hurt?

Sure it hurts- I’m not going to bullshit you and say it doesn’t. It’s an intense experience having a needle pushed through the most sensitive part of your penis. But it’s over in a few seconds.

And getting the piercing established and stretched out is a little uncomfortable too.

But if you crave truly escape proof chastity this is the path. The day you look down and see a steel ring through the head of your penis you will quiver inside knowing your chastity just got real. A little discomfort is well worth it.

Here is a link to my blog about the day I was pierced:

http://doasyouretold2.tumblr.com/post/173057674544/pierced-owned

“I really don’t think this is a high price to pay, Nicholas. After all, if your Mother finds out you were sniffing her panties like a degenerate, the punishment would be most severe. Now, take that disgusting little worm out of your trousers and hold it against my boot heel. Show Aunty what a sorry boy you are.”

"You've got something stuck to your face, toilet boy. Let me see if I can wash that off for you..."