From The Amazing And Powerful Mistress Rane Lane. She's Been Like A Guide And Mentor To Me Over The Years.

From the amazing and powerful Mistress Rane Lane. She's been like a guide and mentor to me over the years.

"How submission will make a man more attractive.

I will try to explain what I mean by submission making a man more attractive to women. A lot of people in BDSM think that FLR will produce a man who is weak. They fear he'll sound like the Dickens character, Uriah Heep. (not the rock band.) This is not so. As I mentioned, Butler is no longer pretty, or strong, or rich, but women love him.

Some of his attractiveness is that he has been under my heel for over 17 years. All men have a tendency to say the wrong thing, miss a social cue, or be unintentionally rude. Butler had good social skills when I met him but he has been through the fire. I have refined him. He moves through the female world now much more like an older wiser diplomat. Women are charmed by him.

I started thinking about what he has that interests women. For one thing he listens to them. He will turn to a woman, look her in the eye, and completely give her his attention. That is rare. He doesn't interrupt except to ask a question to deepen his understanding of what she is telling him. He is genuinely interested. This makes him utterly disarming. Women tell him secrets.

Also, they see how he treats me. He is not obsequious, but he is always aware of me. If the wind starts blowing, he quietly produces a shawl. If my drink is getting low, a new one finds its way into my hand. Women notice these small gallantries. Also, he knows me. He remembers little things like how I like my coffee, how to order a meal for me if I'm late, etc. He pays attention.

Finally, women hear how he talks about me and they see how he looks at me. When he gazes at me, women see that he completely loves me. A lot of women want to be known and heard and looked at like Butler looks at me. Consequently, women like him.

FLR when it's done correctly makes a man better and more attractive. If I fall off of a cliff, Butler will have a lot of women knocking on his door to comfort him.

Besides, I don't really believe in the concept of beta and alpha males. Butler would be an alpha male in a wilderness survival setting but a complete beta in a video game. Setting often establishes dominance.

Nevertheless, to the extent the beta and alpha males exist, it is clear that while in the vanilla world alphas might enjoy sex with more women, betas enjoy more sex with the same woman. In the final tally underestimated betas often find themselves in more sexual circumstances than the misunderstood alphas. Butler lives in an erotic atmosphere that we have created for him as my servant. It is filled with sexual tension and kink. He lives in the world he wanted. How many alphas end up like that, especially in their latter years?

Submissive male life is wonderful."

From The Amazing And Powerful Mistress Rane Lane. She's Been Like A Guide And Mentor To Me Over The Years.

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The Crying Sessions

The Crying Sessions

“Oh ho, yes my lil crinkle butt, today will be quite the fun day, Nursey is all decked out. Aww, what’s the matter I’m not reached my gloved hand down to massage your diapee, I’m not putting the magic wand on the outside, and up nuh uh, not even what you say you “hate soooo much” your lil booty toy. Nope, no more sexual pleasure for you baby (well, at least for now, but he didn’t know that, he was supposed to believe it was permanent”) your nurse said. *Wait, NO!* you thought, you needed that release, especially from nursey, she was so cute, yet so in control. She had been milking you non stop for the past week. You NEEDED that release. “Ok sweetie!” Nursey said pulling out an ice cube and a chastity cage “let’s do an experiment and see how small we can get your lil pp before we shove it in the cage”. As she was about to do so, she muttered, “oh I almost forgot to turn on the light!”. Instantly the light began to flash on and off. Not so frequently, ot ate up your attention, but just enough to annoy you the more it dragged on. Especially with Nursey shoving your cock down to well below even it’s regular flaccid size. Once this was completed, Nursey began to edge you non stop, only letting a seemingly endless dribble of precum escape. Nursey had also taken away your pacifier. This had first led you to call her a bitch, met with a quick hard slap across the face. Then it led you to try and reason with her to let you out. Yet, Nursey never so much as batted an eye to your desperate complaints. That was until weeks had gone by before you finally had a enough and began kicking your arms and legs through the restraints, stomping down to accent your NO NO NO NO. This caught nursery’s attention as she turned her head to see you practically sobbing “IMMA BIG BOY”. Then it was too much, something snapped in your mind and you found yourself reverting to your most basic use of calling for comfort. You began to cry. At first a near muffled “p-p-pwease Nursey, l-l-let me have release!” Until it turned into you fully bawling your eyes out and blubbering your words. “Ah, I see baby is finally crying wike a good baby” she said reaching her hands towards your diaper and turning off the flashing light. “What do you want?” she asked. You yelled you wanted her to rub your diapee, but the Nurse instantly turned your the flashing lights, starting you to tear up, but then you realized that’s what she wanted and you blubbered your request instead. “That’s a gooood bwaby” Nursey said taking off your diaper and chastity.

The Strap On

One of the biggest kinks in a FLR is the strap on. There are many reasons why they’re so common and popular. They benefit both partners equally in different ways making it the perfect sex toy to have in your kinky collection.  However it goes beyond simply being a sex toy, as a strap on can have huge psychological effects as well as physical.  It can really enhance the D/s dynamic because its the perfect tool for role reversal. 

When a strap on is combined with chastity, some real magic can happen between partners.  The longer he is chaste, the more likely he is to crave some sort of anal play, as his prostate gets bigger and more sensitive, craving any kind of stimulation. Even if he doesn’t crave anal play, it is actually healthy for him to have the prostate stimulated, during long lock ups, so it’s for his own good anyway!  This is why a strap on can be so much fun.  He either craves it, or it is humiliating to him, or both!  

This is perfect for a domme as well, as she gets to discover the power of having a penis between her legs, and his moans of pleasure or discomfort, as she begins to thrust into him. This alone, can be an extremely high level of power exchange and very erotic for her. She can take him with her strap on until he is whimpering horny and deep in sub space. There are no concerns about him cumming from the strap on, because this generally requires a lot of time and concentrated effort and technique to achieve. It is possible, if that is what she wants, but she has full control over that. Leaving him horny, makes for an eager tongue after she is finished taking him with the strap on. A tongue in which, she is equally eager for!

The strap on is much more fun than simply just bending him over, there are many ways in which a strap on can be used, which can make it a symbol of her dominance over him.  Often, a strap on is bigger than his penis, and she can tease him about that, saying her cock is bigger than his, while taking him with it.  Or for even more fun, she could allow him to wear it over his cage, and allow him to have intercourse with her using it. Since its bigger than his own penis, she can tease and say how much better it feels.

She could even go so far as to name her cock, and have her sub respect it, by cleaning it after use. Or sucking it to lube it up. Just looking down into his eyes can give both partners a power exchange rush that creates a strong erotic charge.  She can also make him practice his sucking techniques, if she plans on bringing other males into the relationship at some point. Once she has named her strap on, her submissive will have to worship it in the same way he worships her body, because it’s her cock. The psychological effects this can have, can send him deep into subspace, and she can keep him there. 

The strap on can also come in very handy as a punishment. Sometimes a submissive just needs a good hard strap on session, ordering him to get the strap on, and bend over on command, can be a powerful technique. Taking him with it often, even when he’s not in the mood, will help him adjust his behavior to understand, it’s not his bum, it’s hers. His resistance to it, will soon drop away, and the strap on will become a symbol of her power. 

Perhaps eventually, it may be the only way he is allowed to cum.  This can be common if she likes to feminize him, he can literally become the female in the relationship, and cum from anal only, while still caged. There’s so many possibilities with the strap on, including attachments that can provide her stimulation while using it making it even more fun.  It’s just one more tool in the femdom box, that she can use to completely dominate and own her submissive in all the ways she’s always wanted.  It is all about her, after all.

Want to discover the wonderful benefits of a female led relationship? Check out my Practical FLR book series here!

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Babe It Was Never About Pleasuring Other Guys

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LISA IS A VERY GOOD PUPPY

And I’m sure Allison will give her all the treats and “Petting” she has earned

By being SUCH a good girl here ;D

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Buy Shock Collar (Bracelet) for his Balls - FLR (female led relationship)  😈👰

Review #1 - from Alicia I still love this shock-collar for Husband training. I have truly seen a positive attitude change in him. We all have times our significant other irritates us, but most Women don’t know how to stop it. Example, I was reading my book, and my Husband kept pestering me. I just looked up and turned on the Zapper. Then I told him to vacuum the upstairs, and not interrupt me until I summoned him. 

Once I finished reading I gave him an extra good zap to summon him to get me a glass of white wine. Now if you had known my man years ago, you would not believe how responsive he is to my needs and desires.

Review #2 - from Christine After purchasing this we made a rule that my husband would put the zapper around his scrotum just above his balls any time I ask him. It’s also is great on date night. Now when I need the pool scrubbed, I just ask him to put on the zapper. Once it is on, he works hard without any complaints. Then I might get him too clean the stairs. Once he is finished I get him to give me a shoulder and neck massage. I make him wear it 24x7. Even when he is in office. Believe it or not, its an amazing training device for husbands.

Review #3 - from Jenny We recently started using a remote shock puppy collar on my husband’s balls to ensure obedience. This particular model has six shock levels plus a vibrating signal. It’s amazing how effective it has been. 

Since we started our FLR, we had a rule that if I called him or gave him an order he must drop whatever he is doing and come to me or do what I told him to do. This used to work according to his mood, and while I of course had the right to punish him, I didn’t do it regularly because I’m lazy. Now I call him using the vibrating feature and he knows that if he doesn’t come immediately (or if he doesn’t obey an order immediately) his nuts will get zapped. He is so responsive and so fast now! When we go out I always make him wear the fully recharged zapper and he behaves like a gentleman, since he knows that I keep the remote with me at all times and that I’m not afraid to use (frankly, I like to use it – hahaha!). 

My sweet husband never argues with me anymore and shows proper respect at all times. Even when the zapper is not on, he knows that he will be wearing it before he goes to bed every night. That is a ritual we have since we got the device. Every night he asks me if I am happy with his behavior for the day. If I’m not, I give him shocks of varying intensity and duration depending on the infractions. I love to see the look on his face when he asks the question, especially on those days when he knows he’s been a bad boy, which are now becoming rare. I recommend this gadget to all dominant wives. You will never let any misbehavior go unpunished and he will become a new man, one you will like a lot!

Review #4 - from Me I instructed My husband to buy one of these Remote Shock Puppy for Me several months ago. Once this shock trainer arrived, I looked it over and ordered him to attach it to a locking bondage belt that I secured around his balls. I immediately started experimenting with the shock settings on this wicked little device. It has 16 levels of shock intensity. I discovered that level 3 or 4 are good to get his immediate attention or to summon him to My presence. I use levels 5 to 7 as for punishment for minor infractions, while higher levels are reserved for more severe discipline. Usually anything above level 8 is sufficient to drop him to his knees. I don’t think I have inflicted anything higher than level 11 on him which makes him beg for mercy! I keep My slave in his “shock trainer belt” nearly all the time (except when bathing and so forth). 

I really enjoy that I am able to discipline (shock) him when we are out in public like at a restaurant, shopping mall, and so forth. I usually shock him whenever I see is his attention wander from me, or he dares to glace a little too long at another woman. 

Queens & Ladies, take My advice and buy one of these shock trainers for your slave/husband. Using this shock trainer combined with the male chastity device of your choice will keep him under your complete control and help make living with him a real pleasure for you 24x7..!

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