Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Making a Scene...for Fun

We didn't do much on Sunday that you'd be interested in, but there was one notable exception: an(other) incident of very public, in-your-face humiliation play.

We took a long walk in a different direction to our usual routes and ended up in an area neither of us knew. Before making the journey back, we stopped at a pub for drinks. It looked okay from outside, but we soon found that it didn't welcome strangers and the customers (mainly male) seemed to be largely snobs, bores and bigots.

"We're not coming here again" announced N, after 15 miserable minutes; then she had a brainwave. If we were never going to the place again, this was surely a good opportunity for some humiliation play. There were no kids about (we imagined that somebody would have complained) so our audience would be safely adult.

It would have to be brief, to avoid getting into conflict with the locals, N reasoned; and we would have to leave immediately afterwards, to avoid being thrown out; but we could get away with it. There were people just feet away (the pub was approaching half-full) but they would probably be too surprised to do anything, initially.

I have to say that I didn't want to do it. I am usually both anxious and excited in these situations, but this was one of those occasions when I just wasn't up for it at all. If there had been a specific reason, such as illness or a death in the family, N wouldn't have made me go through with it; but I just didn't feel like it.

In those circumstances, N's attitude is uncompromising: tough, you do as I tell you and you like it - and if I tell you to dance a little jig of joy afterwards, you do that too. I accept that because it's the price I have to pay for a real Mistress: sometimes you have to do what you don't want to do. Still, I felt a bit sick at the prospect.

N's plan was that, just before we finished up our drinks, she would feign a fit of temper, turn on me, then we would quickly exit with her berating me as we went. She didn't say exactly what she'd do as she wanted me to look genuinely surprised. I waited for her cue and just wanted to get it over with.

Mistress V had done something similar with me in a restaurant once - loudly accusing me of avoiding paying the bill - except that she didn't warn me at all and I thought she meant what she was saying . I was actually angry with her until she revealed what she had been doing; luckily, she acknowledged that she should have warned me first.

Suddenly, N started to raise her voice and noisily accuse me of bringing her to 'this rotten pub' for our 'anniversary treat' (!) Before I knew what was happening, she stood up, grabbed what was left of my pint of beer and threw it in my face, calling me a 'cheap bastard' then leaning across the table and spitting in my face.

I was stunned and unsure how she wanted me to react, but I started apologising. For some reason, I made no attempt to clean myself up. N (probably more conscious of the need to keep things moving) marched round the table and grabbed me by the collar of my shirt. I was vaguely aware of people staring, but focussed on her.

"Come on, we're leaving. How dare you bring me here!" she complained, virtually pulling me out of my seat.

I scrambled to my feet and N started to bundle me toward the door. You might expect me to say that people's laughter was ringing in my ears, but in fact, the pub was strangely quiet apart from N abusing me. As we reached the exit, she pushed me forward and I felt her kick me up the rear to encourage me out.

"You wait till I get you home, you little sh*t", she said as she stood in the doorway; then she turned her head back slightly and, raising her voice so no-one would miss her parting shot:

"I'M GOING TO PULL DOWN YOUR PANTS AND GiVE YOUR ARSE A BLOODY GOOD ROASTING!"

She slammed the pub door behind her and then hurried us both away, occasionally looking back (I never did). When we were safely out of view from the pub, she fell on me, laughing her head off; and although I was still feeling a bit sick and a bit shaken, I started to laugh with her.

"You cheap bastard", she chuckled, referring ironically to her earlier improvised tirade, "Taking us to a sh*thole like that!"

"I'm so sorry, N" I replied, joining in on the joke this time: "On our anniversary too!" She hugged me close and giggled into my shoulder and I started to feel a little better about what we had done. She had clearly enjoyed it very much and I was thrilled to have pleased her, at the expense of a little bit of pride.

I'm being factual rather than romantic when I say that, as she held me, our two hearts pounded in unison. I supposed it had been pretty exhilarating, on reflection. N recoiled slightly.

"I forgot you were all wet with spit and beer" she said, giving me a playful slap. She dug in her bag and got me some tissues to clean myself up with. She started talking about the reactions of the other customers to our little scene. She seemed to have been more aware of them than me.

"Did you hear that gasp when I gobbed on you?" On reflection, I had, but I hadn't processed it. I said how surprised I was no-one had laughed.

"They seemed more shocked than anything" she observed. "Maybe they started laughing after we left. Shall we go back and see?"

I shook my head vigorously. "I'm not going there again".

"Unless I say so", she corrected me.

"Unless you say so" I agreed and I was rewarded with a little squeeze of my hand.

You might imagine that we would have gone onto a BDSM session when we got home; oddly, we didn't. In fact, we just ate dinner, chatted and listened to music.

The only other BDSM related incident took place just before I left for home, when N locked me back in my (chastity) cage as she wants me to be wearing it when I go round LJ's later this week. Clasping my jaw with one hand, she told me that she was relying on me to be 110% loyal to her when I was with her sister.

"If she decides she wants oral, you give it to her and you make bloody sure you satisfy her; but that's it. Remember at all times that you belong to me. Can you do that for me?"

I assured her, quite sincerely, that that was something I would never, ever, forget. She grinned and gave my genitals a proprietorial squeeze.

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[Image from an internet search. Our version was not nearly so spectacular, even if it did silence a pub]

day 19 is where the horny really starts apparently! my balls are feeling so blue and heavy

If you are caged then depending on the type of chastity device I would recommend tugging on it. It is far more useful with a cage with metal bars as opposed to one that is plastic. If you are not caged then make sure to goon for at least a couple of hours each day. More on the weekend or days off if you work weekends.

In either situation make sure that you take a break and hold your cock and balls in position and tap or smack them lightly to a steady rhythm. Always best to go to the beat of the music if you are watching a PMV.

Yes this will hurt. Yes you will feel confusion and apprehension. Yes it will feel like torture but it has a purpose. It serves to slow your cock from throbbing, slow the blood flow and concentration in your cock and is an incredibly useful tool in reducing or eliminating blue balls.

This is of course with light to mild tapping and to a steady rhythm. Not slow and not fast. Otherwise it can become straight up painful and masochistic.

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NOTE: The following information is considered Public Domain Information. i do not know the name of the list compiler as i received this information via a mailing list. If You are the owner of this writing and wish to have it removed from this site, please send email indicating the article that you wish to have removed. Thank You. FEMDOMslave Here are some ideas on how to tease, humiliate, punish, and torment Your favorite male submissive. Have fun! This is a list of ideas and activities for Dominant Women to use on their submissive men. i’m posting this list because i hope people will continue to send comments and additions It could be used as a starting point for couples who would like some new ideas… As a basis for various games (a couple rolls of the dice to see where his future lies, spin the wheel… someone mentioned using the daily lottery numbers for determining the ‘punishment of the day’…) Please add Your ideas. Thank You very much. List of Teases: - Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You” - Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on. - Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet. - Have him address You as ‘Mistress’ - Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass. - Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth. - Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time. - Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes. - Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails! - Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please. - Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission. - Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum. -Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty. -Scratch him with Your finger nails. -Tickle him. Pinch his nipples. -Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg. -Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do. -Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises -Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again. - Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You. - Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach. - Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator. - Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it. - Make him lick the dildo clean. - Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience. - Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor. - Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)  

List of Humiliations:  Once he’ll “Do Anything to please You” here’s some ideas that will keep Your slave attentive and in his proper place, and will hopefully be entertaining for You. - Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid. - Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes. - Have him pamper You, have him: - give You a foot/back/full body massage - give You a pedicure/manicure, - paint Your finger/toe nails. - bathe You/shave your legs. - cook and serve You a nice dinner. - Make him hand wash Your panties and lingerie. - Make him polish Your shoes with his tongue. - Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog. - Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that. - Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes. - Ride him around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop? - Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!) - Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly. - Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him, punish him if he does. - Make him screw himself with a dildo. - Make him earn his rewards; for example: - Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done. - 1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours.  5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times.  Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum. - If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean. - Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want) - If he’s really horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time. - Always make him lick You clean after sex. - When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive. - Lock a padlock on his balls. - Give him a golden shower. - Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list) List of Punishments:  If he’s not performing to Your satisfaction, or You just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your slave. - Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…) - Tie him in an uncomfortable position. - Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them. - Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together) - Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists. - In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable. - Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. - Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage. - Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever. - Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on. - Enema. - Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels. - Deny him orgasms for a long period of time. - Have him lick You clean after you pee. - Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples. - Drip candle wax on him. - Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…) - Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie

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