Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

What do dominants get out of chastity?

This has been asked so many times I’ll just put it out there once again. The below are my personal thoughts about chastity using a device:

When I put a man in chastity, during the situation / scene I get off on the fact he can’t get an erection. His body will try hard but it’s physically not possible. That’s very similar to other predicament bondage - like a body fighting the ropes, his cock will fight the bars of the cage.

He will be so turnt on, at the same time so frustrated. I get off on the sweet frustration, I’m weird like that. I like teasing, showing and telling him what he could have if it weren’t for the fact that he’s caged. I love licking and kissing his flesh through the metal bars. 
Outside of the situation, I simply find it extremely flattering that he is wearing a cage for me. It is something that to a degree is a limiting factor in his normal life, but he copes with it, for me, because he likes to please me more than he likes the easy life without cage. 
I like that the cage is an almost constant reminder of me, it cradles his cock like a grip of my hand, and the fact that being chaste and not cumming over a period of time means I’m on his mind almost constantly.

Most of all I love the fact that a man willingly gives up what most think defines him as a man - his cock. He gives up the ability to erect, to masturbate, to fuck, to cum, because I’m more important to him than his carnal desire.

And in exchange I make sure that the quantity of orgasms he’s giving up is outweighed by the quality of the orgasms I grant him.

Of course she does.....we just exist to serve her in whatever way gives her greatest pleasure or profit

Ruined weekend

I was so excited. My girlfriend Tanith and I were going to go to the movies, then dinner, and then almost certainly some physical intimacy would follow. We were going to have a great weekend, she had said, and I was really looking forward to it as I drove home to her.

When I arrived, I found her sitting in a provocative pose, but I also knew, this pose meant trouble for me. She only showed her feet like this when I was to be punished.

“Oh no,” I said. “What did I do?”

“It’s good you’ve already accepted you’re at fault,” Tanith told me. “Get over here and kiss my feet while I explain to you why you’re being punished.”

I started to move toward her, but her eyes flashed. “Naked, little boy!”

I halted, and stripped. I sank to my knees beside the table and put my lips to the lowest part of her. She actually caressed my head as I obeyed, my hands behind my back - no touching while I was kissing her feet.

“Do you remember your morning line assignment?” Tanith asked.

“Yes, Mistress,” I said. “I wrote ‘I will behave myself this weekend for Miss Tanith,’ 100 times.”

“Hmmm,” she said. “That was your assignment. But you actually only wrote the line 99 times. That, to me, is a direct challenge to my authority and position as your Lady. Now, you will have to be severely punished.”

“It was just an oversight,” I said, stammering, between kisses of her magnificent feet. “I just made a mistake.”

“You aren’t allowed to make mistakes,” Tanith said. “And you know it. So, when I am happy with what you’re doing to my feet, you will be tied up. Then, over my lap for a long spanking, followed by a hogtie. While you stay here, hogtied and helpless, I will go to the movies and dinner with my friends. When I come back, you will be spanked again, and then put to bed in your cage. You will remain naked and bound all weekend, and you will be spanked at least twice a day.”

She paused. “Oh, and I’m going to lock you in chastity for the weekend as well. No enjoying your domination, little boy.”

A tear formed in my eye as I kissed her feet. “Yes, Miss Tanith.”

“Good boy for accepting your sentence so well. Now, if you don’t take your spanking like a good boy, I won’t be coming back alone from my girls’ night. The girls will be with me. So if you don’t want an audience for your second spanking, you’d better behave yourself.”

Well this would just terrify me ...

Good choice on the bikini, the strawberries and whip cream are a nice touch too.  Our neighbor should like your efforts.  I can see you’re excited too the way that little cage is twitching.  Try to focus on your chores while I’m having fun with our new neighbor, remember your release depends on it, I would hate to extend it for another month.  Especially the way you leak all the time.