It may sound cruel, but it's really not. It's necessary.
In order to shift to serving her, the way she wants him to serve her, all of his resistance to her authority must be removed.
Every time he has resistance, hesitation, or questions her, this is his ego rearing up and interrupting the flow of power exchange.
It's a deterrent to her truly feeling the fullness of her authority. His ego must be broken if he truly wishes to become hers.
Every woman is different, which means, this process needs to occur, even if he's been trained in the past.
It's a deeply psychological process, in which he learns to let go of any control, and develop and complete level of trust in her.
It's beyond his control if he's to be hers, this process must happen. It usually ends in tears, especially the first time, as he lets go of all his illusion of how his service is meant to be, and adapts to her version only.
When he cries, it's tears of surrender, of recognition, that he belongs to her now.
All his fantasies are left behind, and are only entertained if she decides to entertain them.
Otherwise it's pure service to her.
She gets to explore and direct the relationship, where she wants it to go, her way, and with no male ego to stop her, but rather, a male that 100% supports her.
No more hesitations or topping from the bottom. No more subtle hints of his " ulterior motives" for rewards for submission.
Submission is the reward.
Once his ego is broken, she will feel completely different, and completely in charge.
She will cherish him from that point forward.
She will recognize the value in his submission. She will understand that he needs her loving authority, to fulfill his purpose of serving her as her loyal and dedicated slave.
It's a stronger bond than marriage.
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You are not going anywhere babe. Those cuffs have you perfectly immobilized and I intend to keep you that way. As you lie there staring at the ceiling bound and gagged, remember that your dear wife is freely living it up at the party. Don’t wait up for me tonight darling. Bye bye now. *satisfied laugh*
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