Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Hello I'm Derek a 50 year old submissive and I'm getting married and we both are new to this lifestyle of FLR and she wants to control my masturbation problem and we can't find a chastity that works for me the mainstream ball trap devices doesn't work for me what's your advice on a truly inescapable chastity sir

Hello Derek. Feel free to message me privately if you like. I wear a piercing secured MaleChastityNow (MCN) device. We found a piercing shop at the Association of Professional Piercers website, and read through Elayne Angel’s The Piercing Bible website and book.

I was pierced in 2014 with an 10ga needle and immediately stretched to 8ga. I healed in 8ga jewelry and stretched to 4ga. The thicker jewelry feels better. I was too shy to say I’m using it for chastity, but I did say I wanted to stretch to heavier gauges, so the piercer set it further back.

If you like ball-traps but find them too easy to pull out, get a Contender. @female-led-couple has an active OnlyFans as well as some content here. She got him pierced and fitted in a Contender.

Small changes in base ring diameter and angle can make a big difference in comfort.

If you want a shaft-only device, get a GlansArmor2. That’s what I’ve been wearing most often.

This year there’s a “no piercing” option: it’s a glans-ring which traps you inside. That way you don’t need to be pierced. But I like my piercing, the commitment it represented to my wife, and the safe healthy method for security.

Mark at MCN uses 316 stainless steel and gives it a jewelry grade polish. He also uses narrower cage rods, which make for a lighter device. It’s about 56% lighter than his competitors.

As of 2020, he started offering a proprietary keyed fastener. The screws are custom made for his company, and are the best quality and security. The PA mount has the screw countersunk. There’s no way to loosen it without the keyed bit, and a driver to get some torque. The MCN Lock System is very secure.

I’ve worn MaleChastityNow cages for 13 weeks straight without removal, and for over 180 weeks so far. I have bought dozens of other devices. But I’m in my “dream home” now.

Good luck on your journey. Share it with your wife. Try to let her lead. Play safe and sane.

All the best to you both.

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