Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

don't get me wrong, i think it's adorable when subs are shy

but there's something so tantalizing about a pretty boy who's normally shy being bold and taking the initiative to ask me to wreck them

a boy quivering like a baby deer, red up to his ears while he describes the dirty fantasies he's been having about me

a boy who's become such a perfect toy for me that his desire to be dominated by me outweighs his natural shyness.

he's so needy for me that the shame burning inside him from begging for such filthy things doesn't hold a candle to the way it makes his cock leak. his mind going too fuzzy with pleasure to care about how pathetic he sounds, mindlessly babbling and begging beneath me.

just.... corrupting a shy boy <3

Thoughts for the Poor Boys in Chastity -

I'm writing to express my feelings for you poor, poor boys whose Wives, Girlfriends or Mistresses make you wear those wicked chastity devices to prevent you from obtaining an erection or any sexual relief. How terribly frustrating it must be for you, with your horny penis throbbing and straining in it’s tight, little cage longing to be sucked and stroked until a nice big hot load of creamy cum explodes. But all you can do is throb and throb and strain with no relief in sight as the pressure builds up in your balls. Your poor little nuts must be aching from holding in all that pent-up cum, I wish I could give them both a nice wet kiss right now.

I'll bet your well-teased cock is dripping constant streams of pre-cum. My heart really goes out to you. It's so cruel that your Mistress makes you suffer like that. It's not fair that she gets to cum any time she wants to while you never get to cum at all, especially since it's you who so eagerly makes her cum with your well-trained tongue. I know you must eat pussy very well, passionately licking that sweet wet little puss-puss that you long to slide your swollen cock into. It's so mean of her to laugh at your moaning, begging and squirming as she delights in your frustration.

If only I could do something to ease your suffering. I would make you cum sooooo good if only I could unlock your poor, trapped penis. I can imagine uncaging it and watching it quickly rise to full, throbbing erection. It would feel so good, wouldn't it, to free your long-denied cock from its tiny prison and let it stretch to its full length. I can imagine it all red and stiff as it pulsates with urgent need, your cum-laden balls dangling heavily. I'd love to feel their weight in the palm of my hand and squeeze them as my tongue extends to lick the little pearl of pre-cum oozing from the tip of your twitching dick.

I'm sooo wet just thinking about how good it would be to feel that stiff dick of yours throbbing between my soft round titties and rubbing it's slippery purple head in little circles around my rigid nipples until hot jets of semen splash them, thick streams of cum running down my body and trickling over my hot little clit, which I'm playing with right now. My fingers are so slick with pussy juice I can hardly type! I suck the juice from my fingers, pretending it's your cum. Can you imagine feeling my moist warm breath on your sensitive cock-flesh?

Mmmmm, I'm licking my lips in anticipation of slowly wrapping them around your juicy tube-steak and sucking it until the thick jets of cum explode into my mouth. I love getting down on my knees, sucking your hard rod into my hot juicy mouth and being rewarded with a big load of sweet cream like I know you have stored up in your plump balls right now. Imagine how good my hungry lips would feel engulfing your untouched cock and milking it nice and slow to prolong your long-denied pleasure. It's a shame we can only imagine, isn't it?

I wish I could really suck you off, but I can't, because your cruel Mistress makes you wear that mean old chastity belt. It's just not fair! You can't even masturbate, like I know a lot of naughty boys who are reading this are probably doing right now. Imagine that, they get so horny fantasizing about being tortured like you that they can't help but jack themselves off when the fantasy gets too intense. They just don't understand how terrible it is to really have to endure the frustration and humiliation you must endure for your Mistress's amusement.

Well, I hope my sympathy made you feel better. I just wanted you to know I really do care about you. Perhaps it will console you to know that I came four times just thinking of you as I wrote this little note. I plan to cum four more times later tonight with a vibrator sliding in and out of my tight, warm, wet little puss-puss, imagining how unbearably horny I made you, how you will be squirming and moaning in your sleep tonight, dreaming of me making you cum. If you're lucky, maybe you'll have a wet dream! I certainly hope so!

With warm, wet licks and kisses,

Miss Lilly xoxo….!!!

Bark for your mistress

Better stay composed, sissy…

Husband's Behavior Modification ...

The Dominant Wife and submissive husband

A primary reinforcer is any reward your husband will work to get, and which will increase or maintain a behavior. Of all the rewards that you could offer your husband, sex is far and away the most powerful. Sex, therefore, serves as the core, primary reinforcer. Simply put, under the right circumstances, your husband will do virtually anything to have sex with you. A secondary reinforcer, or a conditioned reinforcer, is any previously neutral stimulus that acquires reinforcing properties through an association with a primary reinforcer over a period of time. Lingerie a secondary reinforcer, albeit one that he has almost certainly already associated with sex. As a practical matter, you cannot use sex to reward your husband for every good deed. Secondary reinforcers are therefore critical to an effective training program. There are two types of behavioral conditioning: respondent conditioning and operant conditioning. In respondent conditioning, a neutral stimulus, such as words of praise, is paired with a primary reinforcer, such as sex. Through a repetition of the pairing, the neutral stimulus takes on the ability to elicit the response, it becomes a secondary reinforcer. Note that a secondary reinforcer may be paired with still another neutral stimulus to create a tertiary reinforcer but such a reinforcer will tend to be weaker than one paired with a primary reinforcer. It is therefore always better to associate new secondary reinforcers with your primary reinforcer, sex. Note that operant conditioning refers to behaviors that are not under your husband’s control. Your husband is naturally aroused by sex. Use the secondary reinforcer to mark the exact instant of behavior for which your husband is going to be rewarded. If, for example, you pair sex with words of praise then the words of praise will come to arouse your husband by themselves. When your husband learns that words of praise are always followed by sex, the words of praise are said to be conditioned. Operant conditioning is the process in which the frequency of occurrence of a behavior is modified by the consequences of the behavior. It is the process by which you modify a behavior under your husband’s control by manipulating and controlling the consequences to him of the behavior. If positively reinforced, the likelihood of the behavior being repeated increases. If punished, the likelihood of the behavior being repeated decreases. Once your husband has learned a behavior well, you will want to start rewarding intermittently. Not knowing when the reward will come, what the reward will be or how big the reward will be strengthens the behavior. Think of it like rolling a single six-sided die. The number you would get would be variable. Example: You might want to reward a behavior after 2 times, 6 times, 4 times, 1 time, etc. You might want to offer sex one time, words of praise the next time, a wet kiss the next time, a flash of your nipple another time. Note: it is very discouraging to your husband if you simply make it harder and harder to get a reward. Random variability, not rising expectations, is critical. Your husband’s penis is the most sensitive area of his body. It not entirely without exaggeration that we say that a man thinks with his penis. Think of your husband’s penis as a magic button you can press at virtually any time and deliver pure pleasure to him. The one obvious exception is that your husband’s sex drive will fall off entirely immediately after he has achieved an orgasm. Depending on his age and physical condition, it may take minutes, hours, or days for him to recover his sex drive. While husbands enjoy intercourse immensely, it is not the most practical way to deliver stimulation and reinforcement. Intercourse, whatever the position, is generally too distracting for you. And if your husband is on top, he, not you, will tend to control it. You should reserve intercourse as a final reward and the end of the training session and for constructing secondary reinforcers. At the same time, you should be developing secondary reinforcers. As and when you stimulate his penis, deliver additional stimulations. These additional stimulations may be sight, smell, touch, and sound. Some such stimulants will necessarily be more precise than others but all will acquire a positive association with the stimulation of his penis. The sight of your breasts is an example of a visual stimulation. You can add a smell stimulant by wearing a special perfume during your training sessions. He will come to associate the smell of the perfume with sex. Touch is a more precise stimulation. As you stimulate his penis, you can touch him in other, non-sexual ways. For example, you might give him a quick double-pat on his thigh. Similarly, you can add sound stimulation by delivering specific words or phrases along with the stimulation of his penis. For example, “very good” or “what a wonderful husband you are.” You can take it further by using a unique, i.e. sexy, tone of voice. In addition to such training sessions in bed, you should begin to reward his behavior out of bed. For example, if he does the dishes, you should reward him. Your primary reinforcement is sex. So rewarding him for doing the dishes with your primary reinforcer would involve inviting him, then and there, to go to the bedroom with you to make love. Obviously, this is not a very practical course of action. Instead, this is where you introduce your secondary reinforcers. If, for example, he washes the dishes, you give him a double-tap on his thigh or whisper in his ear, “what a wonderful husband you are” in your special, sexy voice or flash your bare breast. If he has made a big effort to prepare dinner for you, you can go and put on special perfume for dinner. In the beginning, you should consistently reinforce your husband for the desired behavior. Once you have trained your husband to perform a desired behavior on a regular basis, though, you should switch to a random reinforcement. While true randomness is ideal, it should be adequate to simply vary the reinforcement according to your whim. It is crucial, though, not to otherwise raise the bar. You can teach him to do new things for you but you should not reduce the reinforcement over time. You must maintain at least a random reinforcement of each desired behavior or the behavior will become extinguished. Interestingly, while doing chores is a behavior that you are encouraging through positive reinforcement, it may also happen that certain aspects of doing the chores will become secondary reinforcers themselves. For example, as you train your husband to wash the dishes, and reinforce that behavior, your husband may come to indirectly associate the experience of washing the dishes with sex. The more consistent and powerful the reinforcement, the more likely and strongly will be that association. Your husband may actually become aroused by washing the dishes. Thus, over time, washing the dishes may become its own reward. Once such an association is made between a chore and sex, you can use the chore as a reinforcer. For example, if your husband fails to do the dishes and he discovers you doing them, this will be a punishment. By doing the dishes you are depriving him of something which gives him sexual pleasure. I often find I have become sexually excited at the darnest times. I may be ironing her clothes, cleaning the bathrooms, preparing dinner, washing dishes – you name it. And I realize I have an erection. I get excited every time I think about her. I get excited sometimes when I am doing the most mundane of chores for her. She may not even be at home and yet I have become excited just knowing I am serving her in some fashion. Similarly, you can create an association between general submissive behavior and sex so that he becomes aroused by his own expressions of submission to you. Unless your husband is a complete moron, he will figure out what you are up to sooner or later. But the training, of course, is very pleasant for your husband. If you are careful to match the pace of training to his receptivity, it is most likely that your husband will cooperate in his training. Simply back off when he objects. Press ahead when he is enthusiastic. What is most intriguing about these training techniques is that they work even if your husband is entirely aware of what you are doing. The behavior modification techniques will affect him at a deep, subconscious level. You will fundamentally change the way he thinks about doing the chores. Indeed, some husbands have likened it to creating an addiction. As the training progresses, the husband becomes addicted to the reward system such that, even though he understands, intellectually, why he craves to do the chores, and even though he is entirely aware that you have used sex to train him, still, he will feel a deep, irrefutable craving to do the chores for you. Doing the chores becomes an enjoyable experience for him. You are, in effect, rewiring his brain to enjoy doing the chores for you. Your husband might initially be willing to make the personal sacrifice to do the chores for you. But as the training progresses, doing the chores will become less a personal sacrifice and more a self indulgence. A wise husband who has committed to serving you will therefore eagerly cooperate in the training.

I’m so hungry for a shy boy in bed… I want to tie his hands to my bed posts, strip him off his pants and see him turn crimson red in the face when I look at his body like it’s the most delicious meal I’ve ever seen. I want him to moan and squirm when I touch his hard cock the first time… begging me to stop but his body language will tell me otherwise.. slight thrust against my palm and later in my mouth. I want him to whimper and sigh, be noisy and desperate. I’m hungry for the look on his face when I slide his throbbing cock inside my pussy and feel him all the way in. When he tries to hide his face or bites his lips to muffle the moans I just part his lips with two fingers and force his mouth open, make him unable to suppress all the sweet sounds he makes while I ride him. What I want is a boy stripped off all the worries and thoughts that make him think he has to act cool. Act ‘manly’. I want him to lose a fight against boundaries and give in to the pleasure I cause. And I want to hear him cry my name as he cums.