"You Know What Really Turns Me On? Making Losers Cry.

Extraordinary Ordinary Women #6-24

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Wicked Mind-fuck Idea: Take a shy sweet bean who has trouble objectifying and masturbating to the thought of being with other women… and make them edge to sexy pics of women you select (with all your delicious cataloged knowledge about their types).  Control their masturbation and rhythm, tell them when to stop and coo about how close they are and how very naughty and filthy they are for touching themselves to others.  Taunt them for wanting to cum and weave fantasies for them about what they could do to these others.  Direct their pleasure and let them tingle from the feelings of taboo depravity and embarrassment.  Talk about how hot the people are in what specific ways and tempt them to agree with you.  Slowly take them deeper down the rabbit hole of corruption until with silken exquisite seduction you make them tell you what they like about the next fantasy person, and the next, and then… that they want to fuck them while you watch.  Then, deny your shy squirming needy pet and swallow the portion of their soul you just claimed.

Slaps and Kisses

This is one of the rituals that we perform in private to ensure our relationship remains unequal. Sure, slapping a submissive across the face is nothing new, but with us, there is a deeper meaning to it.

I don’t need to slap him hard, as it’s not the physical pain that counts, rather it’s the feeling of power and control I get when slapping his face, and the humility it forces upon him. A gentle backhand with only the flick of my wrist is sufficient. If I am wearing my leather gloves, I will remove one and lightly slap him with it.

When I slap him, I am conveying the message “I own you and can do whatever I damn well please to you”, and for a few months, I actually said the words out loud to him each time to drive that meaning into him with repetition. Now when I slap him, I don’t say it anymore, but in his mind, he hears the message loud and clear.

After slapping him, I hold my hand out to him. His part of the ritual is to feel the humiliation from the slap, and submit. To show his submission, he kisses the hand that slapped him conveying the message “ Yes Ma'am, you own me and I surrender to your control”. When I said my part out loud, he answered me out loud.

When I first created this ritual, I would slap him at random a few times a day just to remind both of us our roles and places in this relationship. It worked great and have expanded on it since.

When we first started, he would take my hand in his while kissing it, but now I have him clasp his wrists behind his back and hold them there instead as it’s a much more submissive and vulnerable pose. He must maintain eye contact with me while kissing the hand that beats him.

Every so often, I may feel that I don’t see enough submission in his eyes and slap him again. If I slap him a second time, he has to get down and kiss my bare feet, or lick the patent leather ballet slippers I tend to wear around the house, as they are comfortable and perfect for licking.

I now use it to control his speech as well. If he says something I find offensive, or is just boring me with what he is saying, a quick backhand across the face shuts him up immediately and he kisses my hand and remains silent until I allow him to speak again.

So, in summation, the ritual is quick, efficient, and gets the point across. I feel powerful as he experiences humility which helps to maintain the inequality we both feel is important in our female-led relationship.