Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Spanko Nation

Happiness is having our bottoms bared in Spanko Nation

If you lick my heel I'll get you out of the cage.

When He Begs in Frustration...

There comes a point in every FLR where the male sub comes to a realization. While submitting to her is amazing, and he loves it, and can't get enough of it. When she starts really utilizing and asserting her power, he begins to realize that there really is no going back. That it's actually impossible to go back.

He's suddenly caught in a net, where he realizes that if he backed out due to being scared, and afraid to fully commit to her, he knows within a few hours, or days, he would regret pulling away, and come crawling back to her. So he knows any rebellion against her authority is completely and utterly hopeless. So instead, he begins to stew in his own frustration, fighting with himself, trying to hang on to whatever control he can, in his mind.

This makes him ache to the point of desperation, and since he is not allowed to relieve that desperation, he reaches a boiling point, where he suddenly breaks. He knows he's not allowed to beg for a release, but he will beg anyway. He will whimper, he may even cry. He will get on his knees and beg. This is a point where he will say, he will do anything for her.

It's important that she understands what he's going through. She is witnessing the breaking of his ego, his last desperate hope of clinging onto control. His last ounce of weakness, of resistance to her. Rather than punish him, she should completely and totally embrace him.

Make him feel safe. Cuddle with him, hold him close, and tell him it will be alright. This isn't the time to make him service you more, it's a time of bonding, intimacy, love, and loyalty. If he feels safe in his extreme vulnerability, he will finally come to the realization, that she is all he needs. That she will take care of him, and that it's okay for him to let her authority rule his life.

It's an incredible moment, and foundation of real solid trust is built here. It's the moment he dedicates himself in service to her, the moment she becomes the center of his world, and he will no longer resist her, all reservations, inhibitions, and hesitations will fall away. Obedience will become the only thing that matters. He will trust her judgement in decisions without back talking. He will defer to her all decisions and trust she knows best.

When he breaks down and begs, never let him have a release. This would reinforce his last remnants of control and he would think that begging is a weak spot for her, and he will use it again and again whenever he gets desperate. So no, never have mercy, never give in. Just hold him and tell him he will be okay, and that you're there for him.

Let him figure out that when he stops resisting her, his frustration will become more bearable, and more importantly, he will want to bear it. It's the greatest gift she could possibly receive, when he breaks down and begs in frustration, because it's a give away, it means, he finally understands his place at her feet.

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