Be Happy When Actually Spanking

To become a true domme, one first needs to experience true submission.

The kiss is the final test. Despite everything we put them through, when they willingly kiss back, we know they are ready.

[Plaits, high ponytail, cuffs, catsuit]

Gah, I submitted a post instead of AMA. Ok here goes: My dominant isn't too keen on chastity devices since she wants access to me at all times (we use the honor system and I'm a very good boy). After reading your blog though I've noticed one of the big differences is I can get hard while a device I can't. Am I missing out on some mental aspects of chastity because of it? Also, any part 2 of "Will chastity ruin my boy? (My experience)"?

The short answer is yes, you are missing out on some aspects of chastity by not using a cage. The more nuanced answer is that there are pluses and minuses to each of the three forms of chastity and no matter which one you pick, you’ll miss out on something. Here are a few of the benefits of using a cage:

5) The inability get erections. It’s a total mind trip when you want to get hard but can’t. When a cage stops your erection it feels very tight, as if you are erect, but at the same time you can tell you haven’t fully unrolled the hose. It’s a unique sensation.

4) The weight of the metal as a cool reminder throughout the day. I’m told it feels very good to feel your encased balls swinging like a pendulum from time to time.

3) The ring behind the balls feels like your mistresses’ smooth but firm hand. I’ve found that sliding a ring back there instantly calms boys.

2) The inability to feel your cock or feel anything through your cock. You can grip that cage all day and the sensation will never equal gripping your bare shaft. It’s almost like it’s not there. Over time, without the friction of underwear, the skin gets more and more sensitive so that when you are released you feel every tiny caress. It can restore some sensitivity from years of over masturbation.

1) The loss of control. This is the best aspect of having a cage. The feeling of knowing that there is nothing you can do to escape, the feeling of being conquered, the feeling of having no choice and no freedom. It’s simultaneously highly exciting and strangely relaxing and reassuring.

Hypnosis chastity can offer this last benefit, with benefits of its own. Plus, the keyholder has full access to the goods should she want to use them.

There are many more small benefits from cage chastity that caged boys will probably add in the comments. Right boys?

Best of luck to you and your wonderful keyholder!

PS I really do need to give you guys part 2. I’ll get around to it. Promise. ;)

Be Happy For your Owner’s Good Fortune.

Even though I had a gun, the SWAT agent was very confident: "my colleagues are surrounding the building, what do you think will happen if you do anything to me? They'll raid in here and you will be killed. I am the only one willing to let you out of this alive, so you should better surrender to me and obey my orders"

I knew she was right, and it wasn't worth dying for this, so I dropped my gun and raised my hands "I will do as you say". Still confidently smiling, she ordered "Good. Now get on your knees." Surprised, I hesitated for a second, but she repeated in a stricter tone "I said: on your knees. Now." I obeyed, and let her cuff me. I was then paraded back out of the building, the entire SWAT unit seeing her walking me back to a police car and throwing me inside