Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Gah, I submitted a post instead of AMA. Ok here goes: My dominant isn't too keen on chastity devices since she wants access to me at all times (we use the honor system and I'm a very good boy). After reading your blog though I've noticed one of the big differences is I can get hard while a device I can't. Am I missing out on some mental aspects of chastity because of it? Also, any part 2 of "Will chastity ruin my boy? (My experience)"?

The short answer is yes, you are missing out on some aspects of chastity by not using a cage. The more nuanced answer is that there are pluses and minuses to each of the three forms of chastity and no matter which one you pick, you’ll miss out on something. Here are a few of the benefits of using a cage:

5) The inability get erections. It’s a total mind trip when you want to get hard but can’t. When a cage stops your erection it feels very tight, as if you are erect, but at the same time you can tell you haven’t fully unrolled the hose. It’s a unique sensation.

4) The weight of the metal as a cool reminder throughout the day. I’m told it feels very good to feel your encased balls swinging like a pendulum from time to time.

3) The ring behind the balls feels like your mistresses’ smooth but firm hand. I’ve found that sliding a ring back there instantly calms boys.

2) The inability to feel your cock or feel anything through your cock. You can grip that cage all day and the sensation will never equal gripping your bare shaft. It’s almost like it’s not there. Over time, without the friction of underwear, the skin gets more and more sensitive so that when you are released you feel every tiny caress. It can restore some sensitivity from years of over masturbation.

1) The loss of control. This is the best aspect of having a cage. The feeling of knowing that there is nothing you can do to escape, the feeling of being conquered, the feeling of having no choice and no freedom. It’s simultaneously highly exciting and strangely relaxing and reassuring.

Hypnosis chastity can offer this last benefit, with benefits of its own. Plus, the keyholder has full access to the goods should she want to use them.

There are many more small benefits from cage chastity that caged boys will probably add in the comments. Right boys?

Best of luck to you and your wonderful keyholder!

PS I really do need to give you guys part 2. I’ll get around to it. Promise. ;)

Thinking about casual, domestic, disrespectful degradation:

Asking you about your day, then pulling your tits out while you’re talking

Having you cook my dinner, you only eat once I’ve finished

Jerking off beside you in bed, pushing your head down to swallow my cum without saying a word

Immediately groping you when I get home from work, shaming you for being desperate if you’re wet

You make our morning coffee, but I cum in yours instead of milk

While I’m at work leaving you a list of household chores and expecting them all done

Making you kneel by my feet while we have a conversation

Who wants to be my subby bf?

Boys, do you really want to deprive her of "the most amazing experience" of her life? Give your spouse or girlfriend the keys to you chastity and give her some time to figure things out, and soon both of you will be in "the most amazing experience" of your life together.

@myheartinherhands