Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Ordering your sub to go into the other room and fetch your strap-on is a strong move...

But, ordering your sub to go fetch your strap-on AND THEN making them put it on you while you casually lift each leg...that's a power move.

It also helps continuously build the tension of what's about to come.

Perfectly stated!!!

It may start out as curiosity or a kinky little game for him. He may even buy a cage for the two of you to try. The beauty is in doing so, he cannot comprehend the Pandora’s box he is unleashing upon himself. Ladies, he is literally giving you the keys to the greatest gift ever; his absolute devotion to you.

You will have to wait until the novelty wears off, perhaps a month or two, but it’s well worth the wait. You will know it’s your time to act once you notice he is no longer as interested in playing with chastity, or putting on his cage unprompted. When they day comes, plan a night out. Dress in your sexiest outfit and before leaving the house, hand him the cage and firmly tell him to put it on while you watch. Once he does so, have him hand you the key and tell him “this key is now mine,” and never give it back to him.

Go out for the night and enjoy the evening together. When you get home, tease and edge his cock, have him lick and finger you to an amazing orgasm, and thank him for a wonderful evening. When he asks about his own orgasm, tell him he will not be cumming for a while. He is going to be confused and frustrated, so give him love and assure him that he is not in trouble or being punished. Simply explain you have been reexamining chastity in your relationship, and have decided to take ownership of his cock and sexuality moving forward. **Ideally, you should already have a signed chastity contract from when you first decided to explore chastity play. This would be a good time to tell him you have simply decided to enforce the contract permanently. (If you do not have one, you need one.) 

At the end of your evening, basque in the afterglow of your orgasm and your victory. Enjoy the joy and comfort of his throbbing cage gently patting your ass as you fall to sleep.

I took it away for your own good! we don't need you spraying all over me or the floor now go get the strapon...