As you stood awaiting the Mistress to finish her morning coffee, the huge vibrating plug invading your ass made you almost cry in tortured stimulation. The new, tiny cage you were wearing really didn’t help either.
If you’re suffering now, wait until she demands you sit down….that really will stretch you out.
This is only for those in advanced FLR's that prefer 24/7 power exchange and strict rules. It's only for those who know beyond a doubt it's all consensual and desired.
There are some women who prefer their submissive to be obedient at all times, without the associated sub-drop that comes with ejaculation. While there are easier methods to reduce this sub-drop duration, such as having him consume his own cum, there are ways of enforcing the mindset that even after he ejaculates, he will still obey.
It is well known, that once he ejaculates, his desire to submit, obey, please, or even be touched, drop off to a minimum. He is out of sub-space and waiting in the refractory period until his sexual energy slowly recharges over the course of the next day or two.
It varies per man, because it depends on how frequently he has had releases, as well as how well teased he was before ejaculation. Generally, the less frequent he ejaculates, the quicker the refractory period recovery time.
However, for the strict domme, it is during this refractory period, in which her dominance can truly shine and his obedience can be built. It's during this period, that punishments are the most effective. After he has ejaculated, his ego is at it's strongest point, and this is why this is meant for advanced FLR's only, because it's also when his feelings can be easily hurt and he can feel neglected. He should never feel abused, and it's not okay if he does.
Therefore, it's important to establish the foundation of the FLR long before attempting this type of domination technique. Also, she should never punish him when she's angry, and should always wait until she has cooled down, so she can punish him with a clear mind.
Ejaculation is often seen as the ultimate reward for a submissive, especially after having been locked in chastity for several days or weeks. In most FLR's it is something to look forward to, but in the more advanced FLR, she can turn his greatest pleasure, into her most sinister weapon.
The use of a whip or a cane generally hurts enough even when he is fully aroused, to make him regret any disobedience or misbehavior. The pain will often take him into sub-space relatively quick and wipe his ego out, and he will be thankful for the correction. However, if she really wants punish him, she can make him regret any transgression, by performing it after ejaculating him.
After ejaculation, the pain is far more intense and not at all enjoyable. He will never want this kind of punishment to happen again, but it is the ultimate display of her dominance, that she can, and will punish him, even when he feels at his least obedient.
She can take this further, into having him perform submissive acts after ejaculation, training him that his obedience to her is never allowed to drop in eagerness, and with the threat of punishment looming, he will quickly learn to remain obedient at all times.
Ejaculation is no longer the reward it once was, and he will quickly realize obedience is his only option, that her rule is absolute, and the best he can strive for is her mercy.
keep giving me drinks til im desperate, then force my legs apart while i sit on your lap n tell me to "be a good boy for me and hold it a little longer." when i squirm, trying to close my legs and whining that i just can't, you tell me youre not gonna let me up to go to the bathroom, and "poor thing, guess youre just gonna have to wet yourself then" in a fake-sympathetic voice 😳
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Real advice: Of course guys feel it’s important. But no. There’s no need. It’s ok.
My sister, LJ, came round earlier for a chat with me and her semi-regular mani-pedi from my multi-skilled p. She knows now that she can say anything in front of him and she has largely come to forget he is there, so we speak freely, as sisters do, about whatever's on our minds.
What was on her mind lately was that she hasn't had a bloke for a while and she is getting a bit lonely and a bit frustrated. Well, I can't get her a boyfriend, but I do have a means of relieving her frustration and I suggested it to her, as I did to K recently: why not use p and his talented tongue?
I was sure I saw the thought: "Wow, is that really an option?" flash briefly behind her eyes before she predictably dismissed the idea as totally outrageous and told me not to be silly; consequently, I declined to take that as an answer. It was a genuine offer and it made perfect sense to me, so I refused to be patronised.
"I'm serious", I insisted. "It's just another service to him. It's no different to giving you a pedi."
"It's totally different to giving me a pedi!" she replied. "It's sex. I'd be having a sexual relationship with your..." She struggled to find the word.
"Slave?" I suggested. "It wouldn't be a sexual relationship, just a sexual service. You're not going to have sex with him. Well, you could if you wanted, but I'd stick with oral if I were you."
She looked down at p - who was desperately trying to focus on clipping her toenails - and laughed.
"Does he get a say in this?"
"No. Anyway, it's not like he's going to refuse, is it?"
"Suppose he decides he fancies me, or vice-versa? How will you feel then?"
"He won't do anything apart from what I tell him. As for you, if you fancy him, f*ck him, I'm giving you permission."
She gave a sceptical look but didn't say anything. I knew I was wearing her down with my remorseless logic!
"Look, it will just be oral", I continued. "I'll make him wear his cage so he won't even be able to get a proper erection. You don't have to do anything for him, just lie back and think of England."
Her sceptical look gave way to a smile that said: actually, that does sound pretty good. I think she just wanted to be able to say I'd talked her into it.
"Come on, L, you know what he's like. He's not going to take advantage, is he?"
"I might!" she chuckled.
"Do it! It's okay! Do it now. Take him to my bedroom and do it now!"
No no no no no, she protested.
"Well at least think about it."
"Okay, I'll think about it, but I'm not doing anything now".
"Maybe when I send him round to do the garden. You'll have him all to yourself then. I don't suppose you want me around when you're doing it, do you?. And you know you can trust him".
I gave p a little kick.
"Hear that, slave? Next time you're round LJ's, if she wants to use you for oral, you do whatever she says, okay?"
"It would be my privilege", he said, like he was accepting a knighthood..
"You bet it would!" I laughed and LJ laughed with me, though I could see in her eyes she thought his reply was sweet. I've got a feeling that something nice is going to happen for both of them on his next visit to hers.
N x
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