Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Having an intellectual conversation with someone knowing they’re also dirty asf is such a turn on

How to manipulate men to become obsessed with you -

Toxic psychology edition with tangible steps #1

First of all try to identify your targets attachment style early on; this will give you a simple shortcut to his triggers and wounds to be used against him.

Easiest way to initially attract them is being bubbly, sunny and open - this demonstrates warmth and vulnerability which will allow them to lower their guard and allow you to observe personal information easily while he will associate happiness with you because it's contagious.

Listen very closely to what his values are and what he's looking for in life in general - this will allow you to morph into taylored dream girl of his fantasies (he won't listen to yours so just be ambiguous, it's your body language he remembers)

Ask who his favorite actor is. 95% of the time they will name an actress which can tell a lot about their preferences about female aesthetics, if you additionally ask what his favorite work by her is you'll have a movie where he finds her most attractive which will tell you potentially a lot about him, but what's most important is that he will respond positively when seeing similarities in you due to emotion driven association.

He's also likely to drop hints consciously or subconsciously of what type of women he prefers in general, never ask, just observe and implement.

Now is your time to neurohack him by attacking his conditioning, dreams and wounds. Patch up scenarios of his future dreams and insert you in there. Talk to him subtly about them in lighthearted manner. Planting these little images of potential future will grow and bloom in his subconsciousness like a seed. Make sure it's stuff he's really already dreamt of and not just told you to love bomb you.

Now start intermittent reinforcement. Be charming and excited, make what he talks about look like the most interesting, funny and important thing while smiling and laughing like you're in love with life. Then ghost out of nowhere right after good times or middle of a good texting conversation. He will be obsessively thinking what he's done wrong and the more he starts analyzing you the more space you have in his head and more neural pathways will be created around you.

Be a little ambiguous and mysterious about why you ghosted/went cold, preferably make up something completely absurd about him to make him question his own sanity but once you come back after a day or few make sure to be as sunny and dreamy as before, repeat this and you will successfully lock him in a dopamine-adrenaline loop where you will become his source of happy chemicals. When you're not there his stress hormones spike and he's ready to do anything to get his fix of you to make everything better again. Congratulations, you now have him under notable power & you can ask him for what you want and hurt his self esteem by gaslighting him into behaving correct to avoid the painful punishment cycle you've lured him into and he will want to please you.

Know that he will try to manipulate you as well and nothing he says can be taken as truth, instead when you recognize the manipulation play along with it to make him think he has some control over you with his little tricks - when these suddenly lose their power because you were simply acting he will lose peace from the stability he thought he had and be more desperate for you.

Lastly do not act like you're super interested in him, simply be energetic & charismatic and acknowledge him. Only show personal care towards him when he opens up about something vulnerable. He will need to feel like you're not necessarily available or into him. Don't tell too much about yourself, let his imagination fill the gaps with romanticized fantasies. Leave him confused to occupy his brain.

Happy hunting babes ♡

One of my biggest fetishes has always been uniforms. When I was young, it was primarily focused on maid uniforms. I love everything about maid uniforms whether it's me wearing one or someone else.

I think one of my biggest fantasies would be serving someone who works a service level job. Those kinds of jobs are very difficult and draining, and they don't always pay well.

The idea of my Goddess coming home after a long day of work, tired, feet arching, and knowing she has a sub waiting to take some of that pressure off would make me happy.

Like, she just spent her whole day waiting on the needs and desires of others, but now she's home. The place where she is truly treated like a queen.

I could massage her feet, run her a bath, wait on her needs and help her to relax. As a service sub, the idea of that just fills me with joy and happiness.

The uniform would just make it better because seeing a beautiful girl in a plain looking uniform is literally one of the hottest images.

Idk why, but nurse scrubs, an old fashioned waitress outfit, or a vintage style or hotel style maid uniform is more arousing to me than a bikini. Lol my brain is broken.

It'd be even hotter if, knowing how much uniforms drive me wild, I was denied from seeing her in it except on rare occasions or if I beg well enough to make her happy. Everyone in the world gets to see her in uniform, except me.

But just to be clear, I'd need a strong bond with a goddess to have something like this fantasy. I'm not just gonna be going out and trying to submit to anyone in uniform.

I mean… I may still gag you anyways just because it’s quite funny looking at that horrified look in your eyes when I leave the room with you tied and gagged with a sore asshole

So…. This is a true story, I have been in the femdom lifestyle since I was in my teens, 40 years ago. So when I moved from the UK to a large city in Texas I dove in with both feet… this is in the four years before I met my Wife, my Goddess. The love of my life. So, I met a lot of people on line, and started going to monthly play parties, which were fun. But to cut a long story short, I ended up as the slave of a professional Domme for a while. Her apprentice would get to help torment and torture me and I would stock and clean the play house and serve Her at local PEP meetings and play parties. One such party was at the home of a lawyer, the owner of my friend. I was to be naked all night and chained to the boots of my Mistress… as was the custom, nobody talked to me without Her permission and nobody made eye contact, I was an object for Her use, a toy. I spent the night, being “inspected” fondled, and flogged by my mistress and Her friends… and then it became time to provide entertainment. I was hooded, and could see nothing and hear a little, raised to my feet and my hands bound above my head and my legs tied apart. I felt the slickness of lube run down my ass cheeks and a latex, gloved hand lube my asshole. This was way before I’d experienced chastity, so I was incredibly hard, I heard my female friend’s voice telling me to relax as I felt the strap on enter me, to the laughs and jeers of the other guests. She fucked me deeply, starting slowly and becoming more frenzied as She grabbed my shoulders for leverage. I felt a pair of silky panties wrap around my hard cock, and my Mistresses hand start pumping me. “Do it, you nasty beast, do it in the crotch of My panties, let everyone see what a dirty animal you are” and after a while, I did, I came, and came and came, She expertly pumped me into her panties and pulled Her hand away, leaving me to dribble, bereft of the comfort of Her grip. When my friend pulled out, a large butt plug was inserted and my Mistress’s panties removed from my cock and shoved in my mouth. “Suck them clean you dirty little whore” She said and I did as I hung there for I don’t know how long.

I don’t know if you’ll find this interesting, but I wanted to share…. And if anyone is wondering, I’m much happier with my Wife, our relationship is closer and deeper, with a lot of love on both sides. But I have had an interesting life 💋