This is only for those in advanced FLR's that prefer 24/7 power exchange and strict rules. It's only for those who know beyond a doubt it's all consensual and desired.
There are some women who prefer their submissive to be obedient at all times, without the associated sub-drop that comes with ejaculation. While there are easier methods to reduce this sub-drop duration, such as having him consume his own cum, there are ways of enforcing the mindset that even after he ejaculates, he will still obey.
It is well known, that once he ejaculates, his desire to submit, obey, please, or even be touched, drop off to a minimum. He is out of sub-space and waiting in the refractory period until his sexual energy slowly recharges over the course of the next day or two.
It varies per man, because it depends on how frequently he has had releases, as well as how well teased he was before ejaculation. Generally, the less frequent he ejaculates, the quicker the refractory period recovery time.
However, for the strict domme, it is during this refractory period, in which her dominance can truly shine and his obedience can be built. It's during this period, that punishments are the most effective. After he has ejaculated, his ego is at it's strongest point, and this is why this is meant for advanced FLR's only, because it's also when his feelings can be easily hurt and he can feel neglected. He should never feel abused, and it's not okay if he does.
Therefore, it's important to establish the foundation of the FLR long before attempting this type of domination technique. Also, she should never punish him when she's angry, and should always wait until she has cooled down, so she can punish him with a clear mind.
Ejaculation is often seen as the ultimate reward for a submissive, especially after having been locked in chastity for several days or weeks. In most FLR's it is something to look forward to, but in the more advanced FLR, she can turn his greatest pleasure, into her most sinister weapon.
The use of a whip or a cane generally hurts enough even when he is fully aroused, to make him regret any disobedience or misbehavior. The pain will often take him into sub-space relatively quick and wipe his ego out, and he will be thankful for the correction. However, if she really wants punish him, she can make him regret any transgression, by performing it after ejaculating him.
After ejaculation, the pain is far more intense and not at all enjoyable. He will never want this kind of punishment to happen again, but it is the ultimate display of her dominance, that she can, and will punish him, even when he feels at his least obedient.
She can take this further, into having him perform submissive acts after ejaculation, training him that his obedience to her is never allowed to drop in eagerness, and with the threat of punishment looming, he will quickly learn to remain obedient at all times.
Ejaculation is no longer the reward it once was, and he will quickly realize obedience is his only option, that her rule is absolute, and the best he can strive for is her mercy.
The young Domme found that her chunky boot soles provided a far more interesting challenge for her boot loving cucks……
While they’re labouring to please, she’s relaxing with a nice drink.
Fifi this is the perfect dress you picked for my date with Mark, I can tell you approve, your silly little clitty is dripping from that little cage, While i’m gone work on your chore list, my sister might stop by to check on you and you know how funny she finds it to extend that release date. Well come over and kiss my shoes to wish me luck, behave little Fifi. Ciao
Look at you darling, you’re a sweet mess, aren’t you? Lips kiss bitten red, eyes glazed and dazed. What do you want sweetheart? Want to grind against my thigh until you cum, moaning and begging like the sweet little slut you always are for me? Do you want me to wrap my fingers around your throat and hold you down until everything’s woozy and you’re right in the cusp of cumming?
Oh, do you think you deserve that baby boy? You think you deserve to cum like that, cum for me? Yes? Well then, prove it darling. Show me what you want, talk me through it, and don’t leave anything out. I want to hear everything, baby boy.
The carrot or the stick. Which do you prefer?
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