Thank You!

Same!

im bisexual fight me

Sorry I haven’t really haven’t really been posting much. If you’ve noticed, I’ve, uh… I started writing again. I’m happy too, while I do it. And I know this isn’t my writing blog, but… I just wanted to share that, since I know that not everyone knows I’m a writer.

If you have been using my blog to doomscroll and self harm, please stop. I implore you, please stop. You cannot keep burying yourself in misery.

@multifanderwrites has plenty of stuff to look through.

Please don’t fall for this…

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

squishy soldier

Reminder to drink water.

Even if flavor water, still water at end of day.

Make it quick. I don’t have all day.

I guess I should introduce you to my team.

Bucky Barnes: @official-buckybarnes

Robert Reynolds/Sentry: @officialrobert-bobby-reynolds

Ava Starr: @avastarr-official @avastarr-theghost

Yelena Belova: @your-fav-russian-assassin @itsmeyelena

John Walker: @even-better-john-walker

Go on anon and talk to my muse as their child.

Bonus points for hinting the other parent. 

But sometimes you need to take care of yourself first before you can help others!

Should I go sleep? Hm…