Life Wouldn’t Be Quite As Amazing If We Hadn’t And Didn’t Continue To Do So Now.

True…

This! 💋

Well I’ll be, somehow I never knew this, except for the QOS of course. I once half-jokingly asked my wife if she’d get a queen of spades or bbc tattoo (not that she’s actually earned one, not yet at least), she said no way. To the tattoo that is.

QOH and QOD have been well and truly earned though, I wonder what she’d think about them for a suggestion, a nice pair of red queens somewhere near her bikini line perhaps.

Insecurities?

This whole thing is a bit of a jumble in my head, I hope I can make some sense of it here. I’ll start with something brief about Louise, especially about the Louise of a few years past. Whilst you could never describe her as a prude (obviously), it might surprise to say that Louise has a very strong conservative, or reserved, streak. Whilst there’s always been a private (mainly in bedroom) wild girl in there, it was never an outward thing. She has always dressed very conservatively, as an example getting her to show off some of her ample and sexy cleavage has always been a challenge. I have always tried to encourage her to let the sexy out but, equally, have always tried to respect her choices in the matter. That’s not to say we haven’t talked about it, we certainly have, at length. But, I suppose, I did not do a very good job of letting her know how I felt, not from the perspective of just how sexy she is to me nor from getting her to truly understand how big a turn on it is, for me, when she has done her sexy things.

I’m no psychologist, and I don’t intend to try to be on here, but I will share a couple of thoughts. Louise had a pretty conservative upbringing, there was lots of church, lots of “conditioning” about being a lady, all that stuff like sex before marriage being sinful and so on. Not that there was anything wrong with it, then or looking back now. I love her dear mom to death in fact, it is simply just part of her reality. Then there was her partner before me. He was a super jealous type, he wanted her to look pretty, and even sexy, but she was never “allowed” to wear dresses as short as she should have. The good old cleavage was totally out of the question too. She was “allowed” to wear bikinis at the beach, but they had to be conservative ones. She had even told me a story about how she wanted to get more of a tan and had bought her first skimpy-ish bikini, thinking he might be ok with it once he saw it. Well, he wasn’t but, good for her, it didn’t stop her wearing it a few times when he wasn’t around.

It is totally different with me. I desperately want her to wear little bikinis, see through ones too. Short dresses, cleavage, sexy underwear - all fantasy stuff. Of course she knew all of that, I have written about some games about dares we’ve messed with, and loads of them were based on such things. I have written the whole story about one of the most adventurous times, an especially naughty and one, and it’s fair to say that every now and then she would surprise me with something sexy. Not often as sexy or naughty as that day, nowhere near it in fact, but still more than enough to stir my pulse up a ton. We do go to the nude beach a lot, she has done some sexy bend over type of stuff, just at the right time. She has worn some moderately see through dresses without underwear on occasion. Things like that. But, from my perspective, such exciting things have been few and far between.

But, as I said, she certainly is not a prude. To give the balance of it, I’d say she is like 90% shy and conservative, 10% sexy and wild thing. That’s now, a few years ago it would have been more like 95/5, when we first met it was probably 99/1. That’s in public of course, she was awkward quite wild in private, from the time we met. Well, as far as monogamous wild goes at least.

One afternoon, a few weeks before Christmas, we were talking about this kind of subject matter. I guess she was right, actually I don’t guess, I know she was. I’m not proud of it but I had gotten a bit surly, we went to the beach that particular morning and things didn’t pan out like spoiled me had anticipated. We’d shared a bottle of wine the night before, things had gotten sexy and she said she would wear one of her rather see through cover ups to the beach the next day. She was going to wear one of my favourite bikinis under it and had even accepted a little dare to walk back from the nude beach without the bikini bottom on under the cover up. I guess I got my hopes up a little too much and was disappointed when she didn’t go through with it the next day. She called me on my surliness, fair enough too, and asked me why it mattered so much to me. She actually said she didn’t understand why I would sulk just because my wife decided not to “show her arse and pussy to every man and his dog in the beach car park.” That was the gist of it, that and a fair bit more too. Deservedly.

Maybe I had never picked the right words before, maybe she just hadn’t heard them. More likely, I was too careful with what I had said, always trying to not overstep things. But, regardless of why, my true and naughty feelings about it came out that afternoon and I think she heard them. Fully.

Oh, duh, before I go on, there is another factor that held Louise back. Insecurity. We’re not exactly spring chickens anymore and Louise just does not (maybe did not, we’ll see) believe that a woman of her age should be flaunting anything more than a bit of leg. Mostly lower leg at that. Haha. Most of the time she just does not think she looks sexy, she doesn’t like a few things about her body and that seriously adds to her reluctance.

So, back to the conversation of that afternoon. I wouldn’t say it got heated but we did express ourselves with some animation. She called herself a “fucking old woman,” and said it would be ridiculous to run around in g-string bikinis and naked under see through dresses, especially looking the way she does.

Oh, somewhere during the conversation, she also asked if I’d be happier if I was married to some “fucking exhibitionist.”

At first I just tried to clarify that I had never asked for g-strings. I guess, in all fairness, I did comment a lot about her thong bikini. But I thought she knew what I liked and I really just meant a couple of bikinis that are a little bit cheeky in the back, and they show her boobs a bit better than the full cover wired up things. Then I got the guilts, I felt really bad for pushing her to do something she didn’t want to do. She said something about how she would love to if she still felt sexy and I told her I didn’t really understand that, I think she is still very sexy and I said how I have been proud of her every time she has shown off, a little or a lot. I said I am always proud to be with her and how lucky I still feel to have found her. I told her I am proud to be beside her when we go out, how I am proud to walk down the beach with her, in any bikini and how I’d be over the moon proud for her in her cheeky ones. Something like that.

She said she didn’t know that and she thanked me for saying those nice things. It got me a little bit frustrated again, to be honest. I have said it many times and, once again, I tried to tell her I wasn’t just saying it, I meant it and I do.

We were good though, we ended up nearly getting it on in the pool and had some very satisfying, loving sex that night. I thought that was the end of it.

Then I went out for a few beers one afternoon, a couple of days later, with a few mates. We ended up staying out way longer than I had expected, I didn’t get home until nearly midnight. I had texted Lou to tell her, no issues there, and my late night meant that she ended up talking to Tom.

I actually want to write the whole background story to Tom sometime, just to get it all out for myself really. For now though, he did something he also did for Louise quite a while go. He made her feel good and, while doing so, he totally reinforced the things I had been trying to tell her. She told me a good deal about their conversation, this is obviously third hand but I think I’d have it pretty close. They had gotten on to our conversation, she asked him to tell her what he truthfully thinks.

He told her yes and so what she if is her fifties. He told her most men wouldn’t believe if they knew. I think that is true by the way, and have said it myself, several times. He told her yes, she has a body that shows she has had children and, again, so what. He told her he thinks she is incredibly sexy (something he told her years ago too) and, best of all, he told her off. Well, sort of.

“Louise, how do you think he feels (me) when you don’t believe it when he says your sexy. Your husband is not only complimenting you, he is telling you that in his eyes you are the sexiest woman in the world. For fucks sake, from what has he said about what we do, your sexiness and your sexuality is all he thinks about.”

Something like that anyway, whatever the exact words were he nailed it. Haha, it proved that they talk more about me than I ever knew too.

He also said something like, “do you really think I would have tried to fuck you for years, that I’d still be want to fuck you all the time if you weren’t.”

Somewhere in the conversation they talked about a very cheeky red bikini she has and the only time she ever really wore it in public. It was at a resort pool a couple of years ago. I totally busted a guy, who was at least ten years younger than us, getting a really good look at her arse (in all fairness she was basically on her knees, in doggy position, adjusting her towel when he walked behind her, right as I got back from the bar). Anyway, I took photos of her in that bikini, and she hates them, she says her arse look huge, she hates her cellulite and so on.

But, that night, when they talked, she sent a couple of the photos to Tom. He can be a dirty bugger (something she loves) and he told her he was going to jerk off to them when they got off the phone. He actually texted her later and told her he should have sent a cab to pick her up, jerking off was good but he would have preferred the real thing. Well, lucky him, his talk got her quite hot and bothered and he did get some the next day, when I was too hungover to do much at all.

Oh yeah, she also got a happy new year message from Grant, one that also made her feel good. Now, I would not be surprised if our Tom put him up to it, or mentioned something but, either way, he did well. He told her “happy new year sexy” and that he missed her “hot arse.” The latter comment came after a few more texts that make me wonder if we might still see some more of Grant yet. I do hope so.

From there, things have changed, just a little bit at least. We had our Christmas away and she caught a really bad flu on the way home. But she is feeling better now, finally, and we’ve had some nice times around the pool over this last week. I an exciting development (for me), she has started wearing a couple of her tiny little, very see through “dresses” around the house (they’re barely big enough to be t-shirts). She knew they are my favourites and that I always wanted her to wear them more, even just for me at home. That’s really all that has happened with it but it has had my blood flowing southwards in a very nice way.

We haven’t been yet, but she also hinted she would be wearing a sexy, new bikini next time we go to the beach. I almost don’t want to go the nude beach, so that I can see her in it the whole time!

Then, we stood outside yesterday afternoon, out the front of our house while the dog went for a pee. She had on one of the little dresses and hugged me. I had my hand up her dress, on her arse, anyone who went past would have gotten a good look and she did not care at all. She even said maybe the guy across the street saw from his window and how she’d bet I liked that. She was right, my downstairs mate showed her just how much I liked it too.

Then, when we went to bed, she said she had not forgotten her six in six month promise she’d made (to do six out of ten dares in six months) and she also said she is still determined and confident. Even though three months have already flown by. This wasn’t the intent of this note but I feel like doing a check in, sorry.

1. Have sex with more guys since you've been married than you had sex with before. - She only needs one more and I am fairly sure something with J is just around the corner.

2. Give two guys just a blowjob only. - No idea how she could arrange this. They don’t have to be together but just finding two is tricky.

3. Have an MFF threesome. - I reckon almost no chance in my lifetime, let alone the next few months.

4. Let me watch her get an erotic massage. - This turned out to be easy, she arranged it the day after I had decided on my top ten list. It was quite simple really, it just required me to tag along for a visit to her regular masseur, some thing we already knew he was ok with. We did it a couple of days later and it was amazing).

5. Wear a bikini that goes see through when wet, then get wet. Or wear a very small or micro bikini. - I relented on this one a little, she has several cheeky bikinis with sexy tops and I said any of those will more that suffice. Her new one fits the bill perfectly.

6. Go braless in public while wearing something a bit see through - no chance, unfortunately.

7. Have someone cum on you and pic for hubby or give someone a blowjob and pic for hubby. - in her words - easy.

8. Have sex with a stranger. - This is something that would have been out of the question until very recently, now she is dirty talking about it and getting turned on by the thought. We just have to come across someone, at the right time, in the right moment, who meets her justifiably picky tastes. I think it will be difficult.

9. Let a guy feel your bare boobs - made more difficult by me qualifying that it has to be someone new and not someone she has sex with.

10. Answer the door bottomless - it’s just the silly old pizza dare and I don’t know why, but I have a hunch this might happen. It’s relatively easy, from a logistics perspective and there’s more chance of this than going braless I reckon.

Will, that’s it. My intent was really just to talk about her little insecurities and how the two guys, Tom especially, may well have helped her overcome them. I ended up adding more, as usual, including the dares stuff. But, seeing how I did mention it, one (number 4) from the targeted six isn’t her ideal score at the half way point. I’m almost certain she is going to get number 1 soon, with the guy J that she has been talking to. In fact, if she hadn’t got sick I reckon she would have been with him during my recent work trip away. I’d say 5 and 7 will be easy, can she get two more? Haha, all in all it doesn’t matter, it is all just a bit of fun and spice to add to the adventure we’re on. She is definitely feeling good about herself again, after a serious lull that I didn’t really see or understand and that is the best thing so far this year!

Footnote: we tried to make plans to head away for our January holiday weekend, we almost got there too, until she found she had to work until late today (the Friday). I am still sure she is up to something and I have a hunch the weekend had something to do with it. I’m not asking though. The surprise, when it comes, will be worth the almost agonising wait.

Unbelievable Pt 2

This is my third attempt at writing this little recount of what happened last Tuesday morning! My first and second attempts were really long and, in Louise’s words, had too much detail in them, especially given a lot was about other people. So, for the shorter version, I had a very interesting conversation, over a coffee, with Anna. I realised afterwards that she had been leading me down a path, with her questions and the story she slowly revealed. I think she was curious and, as it turned out, highly suspicious about something too.

It started about mid-morning, last Tuesday. I was out the front just doing a bit of watering when Anna pulled into their driveway. When she got out of the car she went to their mailbox and checked it, then looked back at me and said, “oh, hang on.”

Then she turned her back, lifted her t-shirt up a bit and wiggled her bum. She was wearing jeans so it was just a joke reference to the day before’s revealing little gesture. We both laughed and she continued the joke by asking if I was planning to go up on the roof again. Obviously, she was being a little flirty so I told her I might if it was going to be worth my while again.

“Well, Alan would really love that,” she replied, putting her hand over her mouth in a bit of a mock naughty girl way.

A playful conversation continued for a little longer before she said something like, ‘hey, do you feel like a coffee, I have a question for you?”

I accepted the invitation and followed her into their house. When we got inside she said she was going to change into something more comfortable and, at that moment, I honestly and actually believed it would be into something sexy and that she was looking to have sex with me. Fortunately, I got that very wrong, she came into their kitchen a few minutes later having just changed her jeans for a pair of shorts. I say fortunately because our understanding (mine and Louise’s) does not include any playing around on my behalf, it’s not what I want and Lou absolutely does not want to have anything to do with other women for me. I would not have cheated and I just got worried about how I would tell Anna no. It was worry for nothing though.

Cutting to the chase, over two coffees, lots of talking and questions, I found out a lot more about Anna and Alan. It turns out my naughty neighbours do a lot more than just a few sexy dares. It all started with some people who previously lived in the house we are in, their neighbours before us. Apparently they all got a little stoned one night and did some swapping. Then, not long after, another couple (who we know well) joined the four for quite an all in orgy. Again, being brief, since then Alan and Anna have done a fair bit of swinging and Anna has been with quite a few guys both with and without Alan there.

There’s one detail I do want to include, we have another Alan in our circle of friends, we call him Big Al, he must be about 6’4” tall I reckon, so the nickname fits well. Little did I know, until Anna told me, that there’s another very valid reason for him to be known by than name. Cutting to the chase, her revelation was about her Alan daring her to suck Big Al’s big dick and, then, how she ended up giving him a full on blowjob. Followed by much more on many occasions.

If I wasn’t wide eyed, with my chin on the floor, at some of the revelations, a couple of her questions had me pretty well stunned I guess. After a lot of conversation and questions, where she drew me out to admit that Louise and I had been involved in a threesome with another guy and, further, that I wasn’t an angry jealous kind of person, she asked what Louise and I think about Tom.

I probably should say, Alan and Anna’s kids go to the same school as ours went to. Anna’s best friend, the one she goes to Bali with (yes, I certainly have some questions to ask about that sometime) also has kids there and, obviously from my first story, so does Tom. Apparently, on the night of the school outing, Anna’s friend saw Louise and Tom get into the taxi together, the one they took back to his place for that first blowjob. Then they were noticed returning together, to meet the kids for the trip home.

She was still being very careful about it, saying it was probably nothing, we live nearby to each other after all, and more things like that. She was obviously still worried it was something I didn’t know about and she was visibly relieved when I told her that I knew all about it. Then I just thought fuck it, enough beating around the bush.

I’m sure my words were, “he didn’t fuck her though Anna.” Then I added, “not that night anyway.”

There was quite a bit of her shrieking laughter and lots of I knew its at that stage. I felt bad, in a way, but also quite excited to tell her more. Bad because I had not cleared it with Louise and excited because, frankly, it always turns me on to just write about it. Telling my neighbour everything was turning out to be an even bigger turn on.

I was confident Louise would be ok about so I told Anna all about that night, then the night they stayed in a hotel when I was away and how they had met up plenty of times since. She laughed loudly again when she asked how I feel about it, and I told her it turns me on just to talk about it, let alone anything else. Truth be known, I had a full blown hard on by then, just from talking about it all to someone else, especially to another woman I guess.

I now know that Alan is the same way. LOL.

That was pretty much it. Anna wanted to know more and, honestly, I would have loved to have said and heard much more. I figured I shouldn’t though, at one stage I was actually worried that I had said too much already.

But, thankfully, Louise was fine with it. I think she has welcomed the opportunity to talk about it all with someone else she regards as a friend (only her really good friend has know anything up to now). Anna and Louise caught up over the weekend. Anna now knows all about Grant as well as more details about Tom. Likewise, Louise knows loads more about Anna’s wild ways (there’s lots).

In turn, I just learnt something very new too. During their deep and meaningful conversation, Anna confessed that she finds Tom hot and would “jump his bones anytime.” That becomes especially interesting with a bit of other context.

Sometime ago, Tom told Louise that he has always wanted to have a threesome with two girls and he asked if, hypothetically, she would ever join him and the girl he ended up getting serious with. At the time, she said no way. Then he got serious with her and now they’ve broken up, so it’ll never happen. But, also, one of the things on the many, many lists of dares and sexual things to try was for her to do something, with another guy, that she has never done with me. There isn’t a lot of options and a two-girl threesome would be one of them, when Tom asked her the hypothetical question, I even said it could be her opportunity.

Louise can be a real tease sometimes, one of the parts of our dynamic she really enjoys is leading me on, teasing me big time, whether something is for real or not. For quite a while, there was actually two other guys that I thought she’d fucked. It turned out she hadn’t, she just said things that made me think that was what she meant.

Anyway, she has now said to me that she is going to ask Anna if she fancies giving Tom his dream fantasy, not in a girls getting it on together way though. She has actually used my own words against me with this, “what guy wouldn’t want a hot woman riding his face and another riding his dick.”

She asked if I think Tom would like that.

I think she is just teasing me but maybe not, I don’t want to push too hard for an answer either. I don’t want to ruin the game, if it is one.

Maybe I’ll find out soon enough?

This keeps popping up in my feed. I showed it to Louise this morning, she said it made her feel hot and asked me to send her a screenshot of it. Very interesting.

Imagine being strapped into a spreader bar by your wrists and ankles. Legs spread wide, bent over, unable to move.

Then imagine being placed on your back and having that spreader bar attached to a hook hanging from the ceiling. Your legs and arms in the air, unable to cover your naked body.

Imagine being left like that during a party. Open and exposed while everyone else is fully clothed. Walking by and staring at you like a peice of art.

People come by to grope you. They pinch your nipples, squeeze your ass, and take pictures of their favorite parts of you.

You become a party game. People take turns fucking you however they want. Fingering you, eating you out, fucking your face, and of course shoving dicks and dildos into you.

People cheer when someone makes you cum. They laugh at the sounds of your moans and wimpers. Everyone can see how aroused you are and they love it.

Imagine being a prop. A toy that everyone wants at their party. Constantly on display right next to the open bar.

I saw this and copied all the questions to send to my wife, asking her if she would answer as many as she felt like. She must have been awake for a while last night and here are some answers she sent back to me (my added comments are in brackets). As always, I learnt something new, or am going to learn something new perhaps (I don’t have any recollection about a policeman’s Harley).

5. You already know the answer to this one. (She gave a guy from her high school a very quick blowjob - he came nearly instantly - when she was 16. She says she got off to a bit of a slow start by the way, compared to her best friend at least).

6. As above. (She first had sex with her first serious boyfriend on her 17th birthday, she was shit scared she would get pregnant!).

7. Having my back massaged.

8. Smelly guys, bad body odour.

9. Rub my back, and my ass.

10. I guess it was the time I sat on the policeman’s Harley.

11. You know this. My back, my butt, my feet.

12. I told you at the beach (I will write about it).

13. I didn’t know it until I tried it but yes, I do like having two hard dicks, you were right all along. Our foursome was fun too, maybe I should try again and tell you all about it?

14. I like it when you send me the dick of the day pics (something I do when I’m away with work and will do more of after our talks). I don’t mind it when guys send them to me either. I don’t want to send nudes of myself though, you know why (she is terrified of them getting out and/or being recognised).

16. Swallow but I do like the look on your face when you’re watching and I let some cum run out of my mouth.

17. No preference. Foreskins are fun to play with though.

18. With you, a bit of both. With Tom, sensual. With Grant definitely rough.

22. I love teasing you if that counts.

23. Until Grant, I would have said I don’t want anything bigger than you babe. Now, I can’t imagine liking bigger than him.

26. Girls - boobs, closely followed by nice butts. Guys - always arms.

27. I still owe you this one don’t I? (Louise had sex on a beach, during the day, with her first real boyfriend. She had sex in a car, in a very high risk place, with her ex before me).

32. Apart from having sex with other guys and telling my husband all about it?

34. See question 12.

35. See question 12.

36. Huh? (She needs some more education, LOL).

38. Maybe, see question 12.

39. You know I do, especially on my neck and my nipples.

43. Three. I will leave the next 5 questions to your imagination except to say I do. (Sigh, more tease).

49. Yes.

50. Giving.

51. Sucking someone’s dick at the same time.

52. I try my best don’t I?

62. Yes.

63. Love (naughty girl, she does too).

64. You tell me (so good that I still wonder if she didn’t practice a lot before she met me).

65. Sometimes.

66. (She didn’t answer but she is always fully shaved).

67. I like you trimmed. I like it when Tom is fully waxed.

68. You still hold the record babe (13).

78. I believe I do (more teasing).

Sexual Questions.

Feel free to ask I'll answer any

1. First kiss?

2. First time masturbating?

3. First sex toy?

4. First kink tried?

5. First time doing oral?

6. First time having sex?


-Turn Ons

7. Biggest turn on?

8. Biggest turn off?

9. Quickest way to get horny?

10. Weirdest thing that ever turned you on?

11. Top 3 places to be touched?

12. Ultimate fantasy?

13. Do you like the idea of a three or moresome?

14. Do you send nudes? Do you like receiving them?


-Preferences

15. Sex or masturbation?

16. Spit or swallow?

17. Cut or uncut dicks?

18. Rough or sensual sex?

19. Oldest person you’d sleep with?

20. Loud or quiet partners?

21. How much foreplay do you like?

22. How much teasing do you like?

23. What is too big for you to take?

24. Do you do hookups or only sleep with a partner?

25. How much kissing do you like during sex?

26. What’s the most attractive part of the body?


-Location

27. Would you have sex in public?

28. Last place you had sex?

29. Where would you most like to have sex?

30. Do you like spontaneous sex, or do you need to be in the mood?

31. Could you go through with a hookup at a strangers house?


-Kinks

32. What’s your biggest kink?

33. Are you okay with name calling in bed?

34. Would you do any BDSM?

35. Do you prefer to tie somebody up or be tied up?

36. Do you like orgasm denial/forced orgasm?

37. Do you like overstimulation?

38. Do you like having pain involved?

39. Do you like biting/being bitten?

40. Have you ever been made to/made somebody beg for it?

41. Do you have any strange or extreme kinks?

42. Have any roleplaying preferences?


-Masturbation

43. Do you own sex toys? How many?

44. What do you masturbate to?

45. How often do you masturbate?

46. How often do you use sex toys to masturbate?

47. Do you masturbate with penetration?

48. Do you go for multiple rounds or settle at one or no orgasms?


-Oral

49. Do you enjoy giving oral?

50. Do you prefer giving or receiving oral?

51. What makes you orgasm the fastest when receiving oral?

53. Can you deepthroat?


54. Do you like playing with your clit? If so how do you prefer to do it?

55. What’s your breast size?

56. How often do you go braless?

57. Do you finger yourself?

58. How familiar are you with your g-spot?

59. Do you squirt?


-Sex

60. How often do you do unprotected sex?

61. How loud are you in bed?

62. Do you enjoy having nipples played with?

63. Do you like/dislike cum?

64. How good are you at dirty talk?

65. Do you get sleepy after an orgasm?


66. Do you trim, shave or leave pubic hair untouched?

67. How do you prefer partners pubic hair?

68. How many orgasms can you have in a day?

69. How many other people know your bra size?

70. What do you wear to bed?

71. Any funny sex stories?

72. What food if any would you use during sex?

73. Would you give somebody a sex toy as a gift?

74. What’s the weirdest porn you’ve ever seen?

75. Do you often get horny in public?

76. Ever used something that isn’t made for sex in the bedroom?

77. Have you ever walked in on somebody or been walked in on?

78. Do you have any friends you’d sleep with?

I do and it’s been a while now…