I See A Lot Of Posts Saying "teach Boys About Consent".

I see a lot of posts saying "teach boys about consent".

While that is true, a lot of parents will do that and fail to see how their own actions are the problem.

If you've spanked him, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've forced him to sit on Santa's lap, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've forced him to give hugs and kisses to family members, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've grabbed him in order to force him to sit still, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've labeled him as "too sensitive" for not wanting to be touched, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've assumed he's okay with something because he technically allowed it even though he felt pressured, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you're only going to criticize his actions but not your own, it won't work.

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11 months ago

Not only does Alison Weir state (as a historical fact) Bloody Mary was a contemporary name popular / commonly used during & shortly after Mary’s reign, but she also thinks Chapuys might have romantic feelings for Mary. I mean it’s fine to write fan fictions but writing it in details in a published historic novel is… really something else. The plot also seems to involve Mary knowing the feelings Chapuys have for her and feeling terrible for not being able to return it because it is forbidden. What makes it worse is the talk Weir gave blurred history and fiction therefore at the end some of the audience already seemed to believe this.


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2 years ago
Fuck’d Up Ship Idea From @sun-wukong-brain-rot Where Tripitaka Is Just Off His Shits 
Fuck’d Up Ship Idea From @sun-wukong-brain-rot Where Tripitaka Is Just Off His Shits 

fuck’d up ship idea from @sun-wukong-brain-rot where tripitaka is just off his shits 


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1 year ago

Tbh it seems to me tlog has both good and bad gay characters, but the lesbian and transgender characters are just lacking and flat. There is Pauline, but she also genuinely loves and marries Mickey and has a complex relationship with Ross. (I have more thoughts on her that need to be organized). So this actually reminds me how important it is to have representation in the creative industries.

Of course inside no 9 is not homophobic🙄. But I’m not so sure about transphobic, I’ve had concerns since the character Barbara in tlog.


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3 years ago

https://entertainment.ba.com/en/film/details/3248/episode/4192?bucketWidgetId=9999

https://entertainment.ba.com/en/film/details/3248/episode/4192?bucketWidgetId=9999

3 years ago

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离侯斯顿 山长与水远

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即使我如今一个漫游

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3 years ago

好喜欢这期眼球 跑马灯也有亮点

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