Obsessed With To B With Love On AO3 By Triddlegrl

you have more degrees of freedom than you think

you can completely reinvent yourself in well under a year with sufficient commitment

you probably make at least one decision every day which will meaningfully alter the path you’re on if you change it

this is terrifying but it’s also maybe the best thing about being alive

as long as you’re breathing, there’s a chance

laurence philomene/x/meadows on flickr/maus on flickr/lisa trimm/ana mendieta/david de las heras/melania brescia/giuliano federico/don't you wonder, sometimes? by tracy k. smith

could you please share that quote about the grief being endless but love will find you again? i cant recall it exactly. i need to know this pain will be worth it someday and one day, i will be healed enough to love people properly and be loved in return

( @archbudzar)

Susanna Majuri (Finnish, b. 1978, Helsinki, Finland) - 1: Kaksoset (Gemini), 2009  2: Saviour, 2008  3: Untitled (Kalan), 2007  4: Prairie, 2008  Photography  

Mark Doty, "The Death of Antinoüs"

On grief and loss

1. Glennon Doyle Melton, Love Warrior/ 2. Andrew Garfield interview/ 3. Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix/ 4. Jamie Anderson/ 5. Fleabag/ 6. Anne Carson, Glass, irony and god / 7. Brokeback Mountain/ 8. Jandy Nelson, The Sky Is Everywhere/ 9. John Banville, The Sea/ 10. Wandavision

what’s meant for me will find me yes but I also have to meet it halfway and encourage it to happen so it does

btw you will miss this in 5 or 10 years. memory will smooth these circumstances down like a river stone, and you will find yourself longing for a shade of light or a moment of this particular innocence. you don't know about what happens next, and one day that will be the most alluring thing of all. don't leave it all for nostalgia. have a nice night now, whatever night it happens to be.

Brendan Burton