Desprite - Cause Of Death: Touch Starvation

i don’t want to do anything else but love you

~ Eleinte több energiát teszek a dolgokba. Kezdeményezek, ismerkedem, felkererem az illetőt, érdeklődöm, próbálkozom. DE! Ha nem kapok viszonzást, jelet arról, hogy érdekelném a másikat, nincs semmi beletett energia, erőfeszítés, akkor szépen lassan visszaveszek mindebből, majd végleg eltűnök.

Nem, nem azért tűnök el, és nem keresem a másikat többé, mert nem érdekel az illető vagy netán szemét alak lennék. Ha nincs kölcsönösség, akkor ez idő, figyelem és energia veszteség, amit másokra, vagy magamra fordíthatnék.

Örültem!🫡

/ Tiszteljük egymás idejét! /

In my mind, a true friend never relies on another's dream. The man who would be my friend must have his own reason for living, beyond me. And he should put his heart and soul into protecting his dream. He should never hesitate to defend it. Even against me.

Griffith, Berserk (1997), Episode 10: "Nobleman"

I don't know... I see a lot of people arguing about this meme. Some think that it is saying "male loneliness epidemic" is some made up word or that men in general are problematic and the cause of their own demise. On the other hand, some say that it is about certain types of toxic males. Some are arguing about context or lack of explanation. "It is clearly about..." vs. "It does not say it is clearly about..."

My take is that there are tons of shit people in both gender and loneliness is highest ever in general, not gender specific. I also think it is really oversimplified and shallow (really up to implication and interpretation). Anyway, contents like this mostly resonates with those - regardless of gender or identity - whom the post is about...

I will never understand those who rush from one love to another, not because their hearts are full, but because they are afraid of the emptiness. Is it love they seek, or only the feeling of being needed? Do they never believe in waiting, in trusting that the love meant for them will find its way, no matter how long the silence lasts?

Not every feeling has to have a label. Not every relationship has to be named. Some emotions aren't meant to be understood, they're just meant to be felt.

Myra S.

“I’ve reinvented myself once. And I can do it again.”

— Brandon Stanton, Humans of New York