Well, the year is coming to an end, so it’s time for this year’s top 5 book list.
Starting with the five MMF romance books I enjoyed most.
Sugar Daddies – Jade West
Swept - Alyssa Turner
Stitches - Sam Mariano
Three to Play – Lee Swift
Roll against trust – Allyson Lindt
Yes
Tell me about your hotwife #
That would be So Hot to sit back and watch with the rest of the crowd knowing it’s your wife up there as another guy fucks her pussy for the whole crowd to see. She’s screaming while having a massive orgasm from his cock, meanwhile the crowd keeps looking at me because they know I’m her husband and they’re wanting to see my reaction. 
Easier for you.
Triple Oh! (2024)
I love how you try to appear faithful, how your eyes reveal the battle between duty and desire. How you hold your breath for a moment, as if hoping to resist, but the fire within you has already begun to burn uncontrollably. How your thoughts still seek justification, yet your body surrenders to instinct. You try to remain loyal to your husband, but the passion coursing through you always prevails.I love how you give yourself to this moment, breaking every chain, as if each touch liberates you from shame. How you beg me to take you to the edge, forgetting everything else — even your vows. You captivate me with this struggle, where what you truly desire always triumphs — me.
Yes, that's exactly how my husband tells me that I'm his fantasy and that without me this hotwife fantasy wouldn't exist. I believe him because he showed me this and I love him a lot for what he does for me.
As she stood in front of him, feeling the sticky mess between her legs, she knew she needed to get cleaned up. The idea of a shower came to mind, but then a different idea formed in her head. Looking at him with a mischievous grin, she suggested he take care of her in a different way.
Despite his initial thoughts of using water to clean her up, she insisted on a more intimate approach. With a slight hesitation, he found himself kneeling before her, ready to fulfill her desires with his mouth and tongue. She guided him, pushing his head towards her most intimate area and commanding him to take care of her needs.
The scent in the air was intoxicating, a mix of her arousal and his own desire to please her. It was a scent that drove him wild, making him eager to satisfy her in any way possible. And as he obediently followed her instructions, she couldn't help but feel a wave of pleasure wash over her, knowing that he was willing to go to great lengths to please her.
In that moment, he was the perfect submissive, a man who was eager to please his dominant partner. And as he continued to indulge her every whim, she couldn't help but feel a sense of power and satisfaction wash over her. It was a kinky game they were playing, one that pushed the boundaries of their desires and explored the depths of their connection.
Yes, he was her good, kinky boy, obedient and eager to please. And as he continued to lick and taste her, she couldn't help but feel a surge of desire for him, thankful that he was willing to go to such lengths to satisfy her every whim. In that moment, they were connected in a way that only true lovers could understand, exploring the depths of their desires and connecting on a level that went beyond the physical.
I get a lot of questions about how to approach the lifestyle. Here's some suggestions that should work for everyone.
Encouraging your wife to sleep with other men, especially if it involves introducing a consensual non-monogamy or hotwife dynamic, requires careful thought, empathy, and open communication. It’s essential to prioritize her comfort and desires while ensuring that both partners are fully on board with the idea. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to approach this conversation and encourage her without making her feel pressured:
1. Self-Reflection: Understand Your Own Motives
Before initiating the conversation with your wife, it’s important to be clear about your own motivations. Ask yourself:
Why does this dynamic appeal to you?
Is it something that excites you emotionally and sexually, or is there a deeper need you are trying to fulfill?
How do you feel it will affect your relationship, and what are your expectations?
Being clear about your own feelings will help you communicate more effectively and address any concerns she might have.
2. Create a Safe Space for Open Communication
The key to encouraging your wife to explore something like sleeping with other men is ensuring she feels safe to express her thoughts and emotions without judgment. Set up a time to talk openly about your desires, but do so in a way that allows her to explore her feelings too. When you bring it up:
Choose a time when both of you are relaxed and not distracted.
Frame the conversation around mutual exploration, not an obligation or expectation.
For example, you could say, “I’ve been thinking about ways we can continue to explore our sexual connection and fantasies together. I was wondering how you feel about exploring the idea of being with other men, but only if it excites you and feels right for you.”
3. Frame It as a Joint Exploration of Pleasure
Focus on the idea of mutual pleasure, not just your own. Emphasize that this isn’t solely about your fantasy, but about exploring her sexuality and desires in a way that excites both of you. You can say something like:
“I want us to find new ways to enhance our connection and discover what turns you on. If being with other men is something you’d like to explore, I’d love to support you in that.”
Highlight that the dynamic should be fun, pleasurable, and something she has full control over.
4. Gauge Her Comfort Level and Listen Attentively
After introducing the topic, give her space to express her thoughts. She might be intrigued, unsure, or even uncomfortable with the idea initially. It’s crucial to:
Listen actively to her reactions and concerns.
Reassure her that there’s no pressure to act on the idea unless it genuinely excites her.
Respect her boundaries if she’s hesitant or uninterested.
If she’s curious but unsure, suggest taking it slowly or discussing the idea over time rather than jumping into anything quickly.
5. Emphasize Her Autonomy and Comfort
Make sure she understands that this dynamic is about her having full control over her decisions. You can say:
“I want you to feel empowered and free in any decision you make. Whether we explore this or not, it’s important to me that you feel completely comfortable and in control.”
This reassurance will help her feel more comfortable considering the idea, knowing that she can explore at her own pace.
6. Start with Fantasy or Hypothetical Scenarios
If she’s open to the idea but uncertain about taking immediate steps, you can begin by exploring the concept through fantasy or role-play. Engaging in hypothetical discussions or erotic scenarios might help her feel more comfortable with the idea before it becomes a reality.
Role-playing or dirty talk about being with another man could be a first step in gauging her level of interest.
Erotica or films: Watching content together that explores non-monogamy or hotwife themes might help her envision the experience in a safe, fictional setting.
7. Take Baby Steps, Respecting Her Pace
If she’s willing to explore, it’s important to take things slowly and respect her pace. You could suggest:
Flirting or chatting with other men without any pressure to take it further.
Attending social events where she might receive attention, but without the expectation of anything sexual happening.
This gradual approach allows her to dip her toes in and see how she feels about the dynamic without any pressure to jump in all at once.
8. Discuss Boundaries and Expectations Together
Once she’s comfortable with the idea, it’s crucial to have a clear discussion about boundaries, expectations, and how both of you will handle emotions like jealousy. Some topics to cover include:
Emotional boundaries: How much involvement or emotional connection is allowed with other men? Is it purely physical or is deeper connection acceptable?
Level of involvement: How much would you like to be involved? Would you prefer to hear about the encounters afterward, or even be present?
Communication: Make sure there’s open and honest communication before and after any encounters to ensure both of you feel secure and understood.
Establishing boundaries will help ensure that both of you feel respected and emotionally safe during the process.
9. Reinforce Her Emotional Security
Consistently reassure her that your relationship’s foundation is strong and that exploring this dynamic won’t change the emotional connection between you. Let her know that her happiness, comfort, and security are your top priorities. You can say:
“No matter what we explore, my love and commitment to you remain unchanged. I want this to bring us closer, not create any distance between us.”
10. Be Prepared for Ongoing Discussions
As you explore this dynamic together, understand that feelings might evolve. Be ready for ongoing conversations about how things are going, whether any boundaries need adjusting, and how both of you are feeling about the situation. Encourage regular check-ins to make sure she’s still comfortable, excited, and enjoying the experience.
If at any point she expresses discomfort or unease, respect her feelings and be open to pausing or stopping the exploration entirely.
Conclusion:
The key to encouraging your wife to sleep with other men is fostering an environment of trust, communication, and mutual pleasure. It’s important to make sure she feels empowered, respected, and free to make her own decisions. Always approach the conversation with care, prioritize her comfort, and allow her to set the pace. By keeping the lines of communication open and focusing on mutual fulfillment, you can explore this dynamic in a way that strengthens your relationship and enhances your connection.