This Is Advice! Not A Question, And This Is Advice I Wish I Knew A While Back, Advice That I KNOW Someone

this is advice! not a question, and this is advice i wish i knew a while back, advice that i KNOW someone needs to hear, if u are trying to commit to the new story but you feel very sad towards the old story or there are some negative feelings towards the old story "holding" you back (usually feelings of anger, sadness, etc.) towards the old story, then this is for you. it's okay to be sad or angry towards something, that's so okay, we are humans we are supposed to feel feelings of all kinds, we don't have to feel happy and joyful all the time, it would be really boring if that were the case tbh. and it's okay if the old story bothers you, but the whole point of committing to the new story is to leave the old story behind, to break up with the old story and move on to the wonderful new story, but if there are feelings that u have towards the old story that you have the desire to feel but don't want to because u are trying to commit the the new story then im telling you right now that will do you more bad then good, because ur gonna be committing to the new story but the negative feelings for the old story will still be there and it will make ur life an absolute hell, so you need to get rid of those feelings, and how do you get rid of negative feelings? you feel them. mhm that's right, you feel them until they don't exist anymore. so cry, cry all you want, i know you want to, cry cry cry, let it all out! cry until there's no more tears if you have to, trust me when i say that after you've given yourself time to let out your feelings then you will feel SO much weight just get off your back, and living in the end + committing to the new story + persisting will be SOOOOO much easier, it'll be like a walk in the park because you won't feel so much resistance anymore, so entertain the old story, be sad or angry about it, take a break from the new story, a day or two, a week or two, whatever it is, but once ur done being sad about the old story and you felt all ur emotions, DONT EVER GO BACK TO THE OLD STORY, LEAVE THAT B!TCH ALONE, u don't need it anymore, the old story is just giving you a headache all the time, so just don't look back to it, don't give it any of your attention anymore, instead give your attention to the new story, because that's what will get you what you want! and just watch how easy it'll be now!

:O thank u anon !!