"I am allowed to say 'no' to anything that would make me feel uncomfortable, even if it might disappoint people. My feelings, wishes and needs have the same value as everyone elses. Therefore I have the right to say 'no' without feeling bad or guilty towards others."
— excerpted from my recovery-journal ♡
“A fierce madness, a wildness… That’s the mark of an artist, actually, that they are very rebellious. And I was one of them myself.”
— Georg Baselitz
“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.”
— Ursula K. Le Guin, The Lathe of Heaven
Space in between, the space around, the space in the mind.
Me and the other.
Le Guin forever
« I think what you mostly do when you find you really are alone is to panic. You rush to the opposite extreme and pack yourself into groups - clubs, teams, societies, types. You suddenly start dressing exactly like the others. It’s a way of being invisible. The way you sew the patches on the holes in your blue jeans becomes incredibly important. If you do it wrong you’re not with it. That’s a peculiar phrase, you know? With it. With what? With them. With the others. All together. Safety in numbers. I’m not me. […] I’m a popular kid. I’m my friend’s friend. […] I’m a member. […] You can’t see me, all you can see is us. We’re safe. And if We see You standing alone by yourself, if you’re lucky we’ll ignore you. If you’re not lucky, we might throw rocks. Because we don’t like people standing there with the wrong kind of patches on their jeans reminding us that we’re each alone and none of us is safe. »
— Ursula K. Le Guin, Very Far Away from Anywhere Else
“The greatest gift of friendship is the love that warms you up inside because you are a part of someone’s happiness.”
— Juansen Dizon
miss le guin wrote an antiwar, anti-fear, anticapitalist book about physically inuit-coded agender space beings with a black man scientist protag who narrates in first person and falls in gay love with the most noble interesting 4-dimensional alien.. in 1969
no excuses from those who write fantasy in 2018
My new fibre optic colour changing lamp 😍 It’s so stimmy and calming!!
“The Edge of Space” Is the NASA Astronomy Picture of the Day of today, July 24, 2021
“A Perseid Meteor and the Milky Way ” Is the NASA Astronomy Picture of the Day of today, August 03, 2021
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