Sex With An Ex

A bit of a change of pace from usual posts. I’ve had a couple open relationships where I’ve fucked my g/f with other women and men.  I wasn’t a cuck, we just had an agreement and enjoyed each other and other people sexually.

It’s actually tough to find attractive people in a swinging/sharing lifestyle. Maybe I’m an asshole for thinking about it that way, but I don’t care. I remember her asking me to go with her to a party to keep an eye on her to keep her safe. I did and throughout the night, I watched a number of guys fuck her. I was there and I fucked a few of the women, but I really just had to keep my head on a swivel to look out for her to make sure guys didn’t do anything stupid.

Experienced: With both of you in bed. Your dick makes me wet 💦 His dick makes me moan 😉

Some of my hottest memories include women (even random women) talking to or texting their man while I fuck them.

Valentine’s Day Repeat

The Valentine’s Day fuck came back for more.  She’s been sexting me since we first hooked up.  Friday night after going out, she texted me and was down to fuck.  She spent the night and enjoyed round two in the morning.  Again, she’s single, so no taboo there.

Addiction feels like a curse sometimes.  On one hand, I absolutely love the taste and touch of a new woman.  Feeling her excitement pour into me and just drink that raw energy.  On the other hand, the desire for it consumes so much of my thoughts and time as I pursue it!

Date night

Last night I went on a date with my mid-20s, single slut that I’ve been fucking.  Ton of energy and a cool-ass personality.  We’ve been fucking a lot lately and I declined her invite for me to be her NYE date with all of her friends.  It was a strong girlfriend-signal that I didn’t want to get into.  Anyway it’s hot because as we kiss and engage in foreplay, we share stories about our adventures.  She has a gorgeous girl-next-door face, big and unreasonably (and real) perky D tits, and petite frame despite her strong, dancer thighs.  She loves sex too much to not fuck guys after a date or two, so she has had trouble with guys only using her for sex.  Kind of like me, I guess.  We do more than just fuck, so maybe not like me.  Who knows.

Anyway, she shared stories as well as some pictures and videos of her sexual adventures.  Very hot and I showed her some of my own media, mostly of cheating wives.  Her hottest story was from two years ago when 7 guys fucked her as part of a bachelor party.  She went to a strip club with a group of friends, chatted up some guys, exchanged numbers with one of the guys, and instead of going home, she went to the hotel where the guys were staying.  Super risky since she was by herself, but she ended up making out with and playing just-the-tip with the bachelor.  The guys watched and cheered them on and she said fuck it, and sat on his cock down to the hilt.  Again, super risky, no condom and since she was on the pill, she let him cum in her.  By the time the bachelor pulled out, another guy had his cock out, ready to take his place.  All 7 guys had a chance with either her mouth or pussy, 4 of them were married, and 5 came in her pussy and 2 in her mouth.

For the next almost-year after that, the guys reached out to her to party, be it for a birthday party or whatever, each time ending the night with a gangbang.  One guy got caught cheating with another woman and it freaked out the group of guys and all but one of them ghosted her.  Lucky guys while it lasted!  Most guys have to pay for those situations!  I told her she could have made some money!

Really the moral of the story is that she’s a slut, lots of fun, and clean after STI testing!  I’m the first guy she told that story to, because she has been terrified of guys judging her slutty behavior and not wanting anything to do with her.  She said it turned her on to tell me as we were fucking.

which is a more powerful experience for you: when the husband knows or when he doesn't?

When he doesn’t, especially if he is an asshole or abusive to her. The “I fucked your wife” power is strong.

What's the most humiliating thing that's happened to a guy whose girl you've been messing around with? A few examples would be appreciated.

Are you talking about guys that know and are into that lifestyle or guys that don’t know and are humiliated by their women when they find out?

I want to be clear - I am not turned on by humiliating guys.  I’m sure it is a power trip for some dudes, but that thought is alien to me.  Power over a guy unknowingly, sure.  If guys are into it and they want to be humiliated as a result of having me join in and fuck their wife, ok.  I’m down, but that’s not something I actively pursue.

I’ve gotten caught a few times, but survived.  Most of the guys are too cowardly to do anything.  As for specific examples there, I’m not turned on by it, so I’m not spending time regurgitating the moment.

As for guys that know.  I mean, some guys get caged or like it when their wife talks down to them.  That kind of stuff.  Being “forced” to eat my cum out if their wife.  At that point, the guy is into it, so I don’t know how humiliating it is for them.  If their entire world (friends, family, coworkers) KNEW that they were into that lifestyle, it would very likely be humiliating.  When you provide consent to have someone fuck your wife, it kind of takes the edge off...unless you’re just a weak dude that is terrified that she will leave you and you let her fuck, pretending it isn’t happening.  That’s happened.  I have guys reaching out to me for advice on it and I tell them to just up and leave her.  If you hate that she does it and try to turn a blind eye, leave her.  There’s nothing she can provide that another woman can’t.  Fucking stand up for yourselves.  Men AND women.  Pursue what you want.

In Chicago; Will travel

I have a lot of people reaching out to me about where I’m local to and if I travel.  I’m in the Chicagoland area and I travel all the time for work.  My travel includes mostly the domestic US and sometimes Canada (mostly Toronto or Montreal).  

-Yes, I’ve fucked married/taken women while traveling.  Often, to be honest.   -Yes, I’ve met couples and married women online to fuck.   -Yes, I’ve met women/couples online and during business trips in their area, fucked them (the women).   -Yes, I’ve fucked women/couples from Tumblr.

Guys

If you are reaching out and want me to fuck your wife - yes, I’ve done this before.  The vast majority of the time the setup includes her knowledge.  If you are expecting me to travel somewhere (or even as part of my own business trip) to just try to seduce her without her knowledge of the experience, then just know that those setups are hit or miss.  If she doesn’t know you are setting it up and has no idea that you are interested in it, she will very likely *not* engage with me if you are around.  Sometimes these situations require some cultivation over time, which can be difficult remotely.  Have I done it before?  Yes.  Many times; but mostly with couples/women local to me where I have the ability to be local and cultivate that connection for seduction.

If your wife knows that you want to set this up then its important to know if I would be a first for her.  Basically it depends how experienced the couple is in cuckolding, sharing (vixen/stag), etc.  I will *NOT* meet any couple quickly and without getting to know them.  I’ve had a lot of my time wasted in the past or strange situations where the guy is a lying about the situation, the woman isn’t really into it or she doesn’t know what is going on.  I will *NOT* meet any couple where I’m not very physically attracted to the wife. I know, I’m an asshole, but I own it.  I enjoy fucking married women, but I don’t just fuck anyone.  I need to be very attracted to them.  They wouldn’t waste their time with me if they weren’t very attracted to me, right?  HOWEVER, regardless of attraction, I’m happy to talk with couples about the situation and provide recommendations on how to go about things.  Everyone can use more friends; right?

I am not into anything sexual with men.  You can watch, you can clean up after me, your wife and I can talk dirty to you; whatever.  I’ve had men try to ask me in the heat of the moment to do something with them and the answer will always be, respectfully, no.

Ladies

Thanks for reaching out and continue to do so.  I love hearing your stories and the different walks of life or situations that you are in.  Like men/couples above, I will not meet you quickly.  I need to get to know someone before I meet, single, taken, married or whatever.  I’m happy with one night stands when traveling, but when I meet someone off the internet, there needs to be more there because there is so much that can be hidden as we connect only online.  I am 100% discreet and am not looking for any connection other than friendship and sex.

That’s really it.  I love talking to and meeting new people, so continue to reach out.

Unless they honestly never cheated before, I assume that the chance for the opportunity is the primary reason why women that travel shave their pussies.

Where are you from?

The Chicago(land) area.