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Have you ever been caught by a husband or boyfriend? Either caught in the act or just found out? If so, what happened? And what was the final outcome? Thanks in advance.

I’ve had guys find out that I’m fucking their women, for sure.  I’ve been physically caught before and lucky to be alive.  One guy saw us, left the room and cried while I finished fucking his wife.  She was obviously worried, but she just encouraged me to finish so she could do damage control.  Hah!  I’ve had women whose friends ratted them out.  Usually a woman only lets fellow cheating women know.  Birds that flock together and all.  It’s fun to fuck the group, but when one’s relationship fails and if jealousy gets into the mix, women do and say weird shit.  Nobody wants to face a woman going nuclear; a huge reason why I am very sensitive to my identity.  I’ve been caught by a roommate of the person I’m fucking.  Usually there’s damage control there to keep the person’s mouth shut.  I remember fucking a woman whose roommate came back for something after she was supposed to be gone for the weekend.  She caught me fucking her cheating roommate in the living room.  She just said that the woman I was fucking was disgusting and eventually told the boyfriend.  The guy forgave her (guys do stupid shit for pretty women) and despite promising to never do it again, I was fucking her a week later.

Men have found out mostly from women not being able to take the sneaking around anymore and needing to be honest with their men.  These women usually cut me off completely, but a surprising amount of them come back to fuck when they realize that it’s just a part of who they are.  Depending on what it does to the relationship they have, they either own it and he deals with it or they go their separate ways or she sneaks around and fucks me behind his back and keeps her mouth shut.

One woman got caught when the husband found a receipt for a pregnancy test.

I’ve had women tell me that their men started to get suspicious and that’s why I encourage ALL cheaters that I fuck to NOT take really stupid risks.  If they come over, they HAVE to turn location services off on their phones before coming over.  I learned the hard way from that.  Thankfully it wasn’t at my house so some guy could come find me, but at a hotel and the husband wanted to know why she was at a hotel when she was supposed to be shopping.  She weaseled her way out of that one.  Also, if I fuck someone bareback and cum in them, the woman clearly is taking a risk of the man finding out.  Overly soiled panties or tell-tale visible cum is a risk.  Messy clothes, makeup, and hair.  If she needs to take a shower at my place, she needs to be able to fix her makeup and hair before going home (if he would notice).  Take the necessary precautions.

I love when they do. That’s how I know who to approach...and they love that I don’t give a fuck.

Like when I fucked a girl I met at a music festival. Her boyfriend was a total douche. Ditched her once and passed the fuck out. Opportunities aplenty capitalized on to fuck her.

Would you tell hoe mean you van be to your sluts? You ever beat or even mark them?

What?

Beat them? Absolutely not. Spanking and BDSM is one thing, but I’m not looking for some catharsis from some wild trauma by being violent. People should seek therapy if they feel that the only way to feel normal is to really physically damage others.

The same goes with people that seek it. I get it that someone may feel the desire to be beaten, but that is a manifestation of trauma that needs to get worked out in a healthy way. Satisfying it in the physical will probably only make it go away temporarily while causing one to only engage in relationships that continue a toxic and traumatic cycle.

Great blog. How do you typically gage if a wife is open? Thanks

It depends.  Honestly, I go into it with the mindset of just meeting people, joking around, and pressing some flirty buttons to see how they reciprocate.  It’s all about a social dance to see how people respond and changing my approach to adapt.  The thing is, I talk to everyone; men and women.  Women I’m not even attracted to.  It’s disarming for women that think I am just focusing on them, plus, it takes any edge off any moment where I am only talking to a woman I am interested in.  If you’re talking to everyone and joking with everyone, then you’re the center of attention and pointed flirty comments don’t feel so aggressive to a woman and she likely feels more comfortable reciprocating.

which is a more powerful experience for you: when the husband knows or when he doesn't?

When he doesn’t, especially if he is an asshole or abusive to her. The “I fucked your wife” power is strong.

Updates through COVID

I haven’t been traveling that much and I likely will not be traveling for work through the end of the year.

I have, however, continued to find ways to invest in my sexual vices. It’s not something that is fun to blog about right now, when so many do not have the outlets, but I’ve been encouraged to, so I may.

Since things opened up more in Illinois, starting in May, there have been a number of single FWBs that reached out and wanted to get together again.  I resisted the urge at first, but eventually gave in. I met one and it became two, and the flood gates opened up and I was back on the rotation with single friends and a few married friends. Married friends had to deal with logistical issues if husbands were working from home as well.  It both sucked and was a little exciting to work around those sneaky moments.

At some point, online dating took off. Not so much in the sense of traditional dating or women looking for love, but new women became extremely willing to meet and fuck, now more than ever. The thirst was and still is real. Despite women having to work around husband logistics, there was an uptick in women on here and on cheating sites just wanting to act out in fantasy. A surprising number of “just chats” turned into finding pockets of time for local women to step out and fuck. I’ve also noticed a willingness of single and married women alike to introduce me to their friends, who were in a similar situation as them.

The short of it is that I’ve been having a great time, despite the shitty lockdown. The stress has added a wild element of demand for physical satisfaction. I’ll blog some more, since I’ve been encouraged to by a number of you and a recent married friend I met on here wants me to anonymously write about her.

Anything new going on lately?

Yes, actually.  I just haven’t posted much about my exploits in great detail.

Clingy Tinder Wife

My married friend from Tinder got clingy on me and we only recently met.  I had to push back and I could tell she was upset.

This is a huge reason why I have rules of engagement when I meet women online.  I’ve met way too many women, years ago, that would take careless risks for the sake of cheating.  It’s fine and fun, but make sure your risks are calculated.

It’s also easy to take calculated risks and push them away if you have options.  My option was a different, married bootycall that was happy to oblige me after work.  I made sure she made the most out of “working late.”

Holiday roundup

The Holidays have past and it’s back to business.  I travel often, as I’m in sales, so I don’t usually get a lot of down time in one place.  Corporate business is slow and sales don’t usually close toward the end of the year, so I found myself home often, with a lot of time on my hands.

Lots of down-time for me usually equates to lots of sex, as I call in a lot of black-book friends to meet up.  It’s been a fun few weeks, although it’s been slower in the new-lover department.  Most notably, I’ve been regularly fucking my friend’s wife (a friend that knows), my Facebook acquaintance, my neighbor, and an ex-g/f that was in town the week between Christmas and New Years.

One of the hottest moments was New Years.  I was at a party with my friend and his wife (again, the one that is ok with me fucking her).  I ended up going back to their place with them and he watched me fuck his wife.  She wouldn’t let him touch her while I was fucking her, but he was allowed to have my sloppy seconds  I left two loads in her and when I came the first time, he said he wanted a turn, but I kept going and took more time to cum the second time.  By that time, he was ripe for her and she taunted him, asking if he could feel his wife’s tight, used, cum-filled cunt dripping with my seed.  He came only after 3 minutes and her pussy was left a cum-filled mess.  Her made her cum by eating her out.  I’m not really into that, but it felt powerful knowing that I had that power over someone.

Anyway, the good news was over the last few weeks, it’s been slow for me and for the wives, especially the ones that travel, like my Facebook friend.  We’ve been regularly sexting and fucking.  I am her first cheat and she said she has since had opportunities to cheat while traveling (taking one from my book), but she didn’t because she was into more of a longer-term flirting connection.  She said she’s happy with one side lover and I’ve been capable at exhausting her lustful desires as her big-cocked bull.  Hah!  Anyway, she didn’t do much travel during the Holidays and worked from home, which was a recipe for us to get together during the weekdays, during work hours, and fuck.

My neighbor is in a similar situation.  Her work was slow, but since she’s closer, it is easy for her to sneak over during weird hours.  One weekday, her husband came home from a happy hour drunk and after he passed out, she came over to fuck.  Any time I was horny during the break, she was almost always available, if it wasn’t when her husband was home.

An ex-gf was in town between Christmas and New Years and reached out to catch up and fuck.  Her husband was hanging out with his old friends one day and she used the opportunity to meet up with me, since a lot of her friends were either not around or unavailable.  Anyway, she is an ex that knew I cheated on her all the time, but she accepted it (there was a lot of arguing and heartbreak at first, don’t get me wrong).  She said she liked how I was desired by other women, but it ended when it wasn’t something she wanted indefinitely out of her man.  We continued to fuck until she moved away and she’s reached out whenever she has been in town.  It was only a few hours, but it was fucking amazing.

Other sexcapades were with some other regulars, but nothing too notable.  The lion’s share of the adventure was with the four women I mentioned.  I’m usually the super-safe one when it comes to going bareback, but I went in raw with all four, but condoms with others.  The week after New Years was hot, but not as much as work and lives started to pick back up.