The Illusion Of Choice. Just Say “no” To Make It Hotter When I Cum In Her Anyway.

Dating and open

I've been fucking/dating this divorced friend for some time and we have started referring to each other as the girlfriend/boyfriend. We still know it is not exclusive and she has really enjoyed time with me because of my open-mind when it comes to sexuality and her wanting to explore it for herself. She has gotten more dick since her divorce than before. I've helped her meet other guys and encouraged her to do so. I rubbed off on her with my vice for married women and she has gotten off by finding and fucking married men. We have played with some of her female friends and there is an understanding that I fuck them on the side if I want.

She joined me with some single women, but it wasn't until recently that a few married women I've been fucking have felt comfortable joining us. Typically they just want discretion and limiting who know they cheat in whatever circle. The hottest was fucking my friend's wife, who hit it off with her. I didn't blow my friend's wife's cover. She actually brought up sexual topics with my g/f and after my g/f confided in her about some sexual exploring, she picked up on how my friend's wife and I don't always get along in social settings (most people think we dislike each other), but she seemed interested in her. She put two and two together and asked her. I guess my friend's wife was stunned and her lack of answering was all the answer my g/f needed. Since then, we've found three times to get my friend's wife to get away from the fam, meet at my g/f's place and fuck.

I also fucked her with my neighbor, who was super interested in my g/f. The neighbor kept asking about her and when we admitted to a deeper level of dating, she insisted on meeting her. It's been a great adventure so far.

Once you start, you can’t stop.  The thrill of the cheat is intoxicating.  Sometimes it is a connection with one specific lover. Sometimes it is the variety of fucking new people that do not care about your marriage.  You just need that you can love your husband while also enjoying the attention and dominance from another man.  You can hide everything except impregnation, so be careful.

I can’t count on two hands the number of times that I’ve met couples and either had the woman by myself or with her man and I violated his no-creampie policy.  It’s funny because about half of the time, the rule is there as an exciting barrier that they secretly (not telling me) want broken. Whenever I’ve been with the wife by myself and I’ve cum in her, she’s either tempted me by talking dirty to me about it, begging for it despite the taboo, wrapped her legs around me so I can’t pull out, etc.

...also, you would be shocked at the number of cucks I’ve me that wanted me to cum in their unprotected wife. Although that is not really a turn-on for me, with the strange desperation.

Experienced: When he didn’t have any condoms and didn’t pull out 🥵

Open relationship

In my 20s I dated a woman who was a slut and I knew it. We had an open relationship and she gave me access to her g/fs, who used me as their token big-dick experience when they were bored or lonely. It was a lot of fun. When we fucked, we would share stories of what we did and what we still wanted to do. She is a total knockout and an ugly duckling that bloomed late enough to have a burning desire for attention from men in the wrong way. Her dad is a total asshole. Once I had her and two of her friends strip at a friend's bachelor party. I kicked things off and fucked her in front of everyone and then let the bachelor have a turn. Eventually all 12 other guys fucked her and 10 of them came in her. The other girls, one of which had an oblivious boyfriend, fucked the guys as well. We broke up when things got kind of boring for each other and when one of her friends left her b/f because she fell in love with me. I dated the friend for a bit, but regularly cheated on her. She want ok with me still loving that lifestyle and she wanted me all to herself. Anyway, my ex ended up married to this ugly rich guy, who she did NOT have an open relationship with. I continued to fuck her until they moved to Boston and regularly left my load in her pussy for him, which he never noticed. Her man never knew and she cheats on him to this day.

Last week’s adultery

Quick wrap up from this weekend.

Thursday, during the day, my neighbor worked from home and she came over in the morning to fuck while her husband was at work.  We shared stories of our recent conquests.  She recently met a married local guy and has been fucking him, but as her bull, I’m still the only guy she barebacks and I left my cum deep inside her.  She texted me later that night and said she fucked her husband and he had no clue he was feeling or tasting my cum in her.

Saturday my Facebook friend came over to fuck.  She’s still only been flirting with other guys, but I’m he only one she’s fucked.  She enjoys her time with me and doesn’t want to introduce more risk by making things more complicated for her.  The unfortunate side effect of this is that she wants to spend more time with me and fuck more often.  Thankfully my schedule keeps her from getting too clingy.

I couldn’t find any time to overlap and meet up with the wife I met from Tumblr, unfortunately.  Hopefully this week.

I fucking love lingerie like this. I have a collection I've invested in for women over time and I love it!

Facebook Acquaintance

I finally fucked a Facebook acquaintance that I’ve been flirting with since early-summer. I met her at a golf outing that she ran (vendor-side) for my company.  She added me on Linkedin and eventually on FB.  I saw, in early summer, that she posted a few sexy bikini pics of herself on vacation with her husband.  I sent her a PM, complimenting her, and we sort of flirted on and off.  I thought it was a dead lead, but once in a while we would joke around and reconnect.  Anyway, she posted some pics on FB this last weekend from a Halloween party that she went to as a sexy mermaid.  I reached out with a private message again and the flirting resumed.

On Monday, she was on a business trip and she sent me a pic of her getting dressed for her meeting and asked if she still looked good out of costume.  She did, but I just teased her with non-committing answers.  Eventually I told her that I’d have to save that picture for later.  She asked why and I didn’t respond to let her think about it.

Later that evening, she drunkenly sent me a pic of herself in her bra and panties and told me that I should use that pic instead.  I said it was too late.  She immediately Facetimed me and wanted to know what I meant.  I told her that I already jerked off to her other pic as well as her other pics that she posted on Facebook.  She said at least I’d have that recent pic for the future then.  She told me it was a shame I already jerked off and then she slowly pulled her tits out of her bra.  I pulled my cock out and let her see as it came to attention.  She was very interested...I jerked off and she played with her pussy as we played show-and-tell while talking dirty to each other.

She told me to not tell anyone and that her husband couldn’t ever find out.  I told her it wasn’t a problem and that I never fuck and tell.  She said, “But we didn’t fuck!”  I told her, “Not yet, but I’m going to fuck you soon.”  She asked how I could be so sure.  I told her to deny that she wanted it; she couldn’t.

We made plans to get together after she got back from her trip on Tuesday afternoon.  Her flight got in a little after noon and she came over with time to space before her husband got off of work.  We started making out the second she walked in the door...

What's the most humiliating thing that's happened to a guy whose girl you've been messing around with? A few examples would be appreciated.

Are you talking about guys that know and are into that lifestyle or guys that don’t know and are humiliated by their women when they find out?

I want to be clear - I am not turned on by humiliating guys.  I’m sure it is a power trip for some dudes, but that thought is alien to me.  Power over a guy unknowingly, sure.  If guys are into it and they want to be humiliated as a result of having me join in and fuck their wife, ok.  I’m down, but that’s not something I actively pursue.

I’ve gotten caught a few times, but survived.  Most of the guys are too cowardly to do anything.  As for specific examples there, I’m not turned on by it, so I’m not spending time regurgitating the moment.

As for guys that know.  I mean, some guys get caged or like it when their wife talks down to them.  That kind of stuff.  Being “forced” to eat my cum out if their wife.  At that point, the guy is into it, so I don’t know how humiliating it is for them.  If their entire world (friends, family, coworkers) KNEW that they were into that lifestyle, it would very likely be humiliating.  When you provide consent to have someone fuck your wife, it kind of takes the edge off...unless you’re just a weak dude that is terrified that she will leave you and you let her fuck, pretending it isn’t happening.  That’s happened.  I have guys reaching out to me for advice on it and I tell them to just up and leave her.  If you hate that she does it and try to turn a blind eye, leave her.  There’s nothing she can provide that another woman can’t.  Fucking stand up for yourselves.  Men AND women.  Pursue what you want.

There are safe words.  She can absolutely say no, but she doesn’t.  It’s an amazing feeling, getting swept away by that passion and letting your ID drive.

Maybe I am in the minority, but it works for me as well as a guy. I love when a woman knows how to flirt and talk dirty to keep the conversation going.

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