Elleofthestars-blog - XOXO

I respect those that tell the truth, no matter how hard it is.

(via dopy)

Billie: People say to me “Well, essentially its all just selling your body for money.” Brooke: When you sit at a desk, you sell your mind, When you dig a hole in the ground, you’re selling the strength of your arms. We’re allowed to sell everything about ourselves. People have a problem with one aspect, and that’s sex. You’re even allowed to sell your womb, and have somebody else’s baby, to be a surrogate. That’s okay, people don’t condemn that to the level they condemn prostitution. 

Billie Piper Interviewing Dr. Brooke Magnanti (aka. Author: Belle De Jour)

http://www.youtube.com/embed/sou0LBba7p4?feature=oembed

My boyfriend is a cheater. Finally admitted to it last night.

I need no more convincing... Back to the sugar bowl!

Renaming HK. He’s now Mr. Gabs. He talked my ear off this weekend. I won’t see him now until September but he left me a little over 4K. I’m both sad and relieved he’s gone. He’s a bit clingy and needy but ultimately very sweet. Won’t say no to me for anything. Butttt I’m officially on a cleanse now after a weekend full of rich meals and no gym. Salads for days 😒 Mr. Positivity might fly me out either middle or end of this month or both. Kinda hoping the latter. That’d put me at 8K for the month of July..

Date these SDs

I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.

If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.

I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.

That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.

Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang. 

oh lord

A guy at work once told me, “I wish you didn’t know how hot you are”. I laughed and asked why. He said, “Because when girls like you know how sexy you are, you have all the power.”

Remember that, ladies.