PAT and PRAN in BAD BUDDY (2021)
i really like the moment when pran holds out his hand to pat and says "i'm done adjusting". initially he's so caught in his own anxious worries that he immediately rejects the handholding but after a second of taking a step back and thinking abt it he's like 'you know what actually i'm okay with this rn' and that's such an important message about intimacy. because yes sometimes stepping closer (esp in public) can be scary but after the initial surprise you might find that you're actually okay with it (and pran holds pat's hand behind pa's back later too). and pran knows that pat would respect it if he's not ready and that makes it easier for pran to 'adjust' i.e. be open about the fact that he does want to hold pat's hand in the corridor outside his apartment. intimacy and getting closer to someone are not linear progresses and often move forward step by step. and i love how we see this in pran especially: he acts subconsciously and then makes an effort to show how he feels consciously about pat and their relationship.
‘Looks like you cried a lot… From now on, don’t drink alone, call me whenever you feel like crying and need someone to talk to.’
KAOUP x POSHMAGAZINE
Me, an asexual: This actor on this TV show has a really beautiful face. It’s amazing how pretty it is.
Friend: That was the most asexual way you could’ve complimented his appearance.
Me: Certainly not. I could’ve said “He makes me thirsty… thirsty for coffee whilst sitting across from him staring at his glorious face :) ”
Friend: That was actually clever; I’ll give you that one.
Just a random day missing Pat & Pran
BAD BUDDY (2021-2022) | insp by @miscellar
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