˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚ 𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒖𝒑 𝒃𝒂𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒕𝒔 ˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚
First off, giving up an old bad habit is difficult, that I know; however, it is not impossible. I've had a lot of difficulties in my life where I repeated the same habit over and over again and I thought for me I would never overcome them. But you know what changed? trying. I tried my best every day and even if I failed, I slowly accepted that I am not perfect and I am only human. That is who we are, and that is why Allah the Almighty is so merciful, because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala himself knows we humans will slip up and fall. But listen, it's not impossible and as annoying as it is, as long as you keep trying, keep having that good intentions of becoming better and to do better; trust me those habits will be history.
Whenever we do something for the sake of our lord, everything works out, everything clicks together. These habits you have won't be vanished for one day of course, or a week, it's a process--a journey that we all need to accept. Think of it as a fitness journey, you won't get fit in one day. These things take time and after feeling so negative about myself I realized as long as you try, asking Allah for help, and doing the most you can--it is possible.
I hope these tips do help you, and everyone is different as everyone has different struggles and bad habits. These will either help you or guide you to overcome those habits in your own way. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy for us.
I have seen a video of someone asking a scholar why do I still commit these bad deeds/habits if I am performing my five daily prayers? and the answer to this was the quality of your namaz. Do you rush into prayer, are you zoning out, are you not on time for namaz, and etc.
There is of course a lot to this but the quality of your namaz and how much time you spend with our lord does affect our hearts.
One of many ways to re-connect with our lord to become better with our daily prayers are:
Performing your prayers on time (I understand how our laziness could get in the way or how we are so into whatever we were doing before and cannot detach ourselves from this but, a quote I read and did help me at times like this was "Put your time and effort to Allah, and Allah will put his time and effort to you too.")
Recite a dua/surah after your namaz (Ayetel kursi, a repentance dua, La ilaha illallah, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul hamdu, yuhyi wa yumitu, wa huwa ala kulli shay'in qadir, and etc.)
Perform your wudhu 15-10 minutes earlier (Let me tell you when I did this it was so effective. When you perform wudhu earlier, you are in a clear-minded state and are purified. Along with you being on time for namaz, this additionally helps you become more focused during namaz)
Perform Dhikr (Subhanallah, Alhamdullilah, Astaghfirullah, La illaha illallah, Allahu Akbar)
Learn the meaning of what you are reciting (When you learn and understand the meaning of the surah/dua's you are reciting, being focused becomes easier and the connection becomes stronger)
Create distractions for yourself to not commit those deeds/habits!
Do what you love and enjoy (Go back to those hobbies you used to enjoy! or hang out with your friends and family.)
Educate yourself (Look up interesting things; Learn something new; Watch an islamic podcast)
Get to work (If you have any outstanding work or homework, get straight to it.)
Learn a new surah (Let's say you REALLY have nothing else to do, then what better way to spend that time in something worthy--learning a surah!)
Go outside and enjoy nature!
Along with giving up those bad habits, create new good habits to incorporate in your day-to-day life!
Each day, add something in your routine--even if its small! For instance, get back to that skin care routine you were so lazy to do; or go on that walk you kept saying later to; or even folding your clothes and organizing your closet. Each time you add a good habit to do, you become distracted to those bad habits, have less time do commit them, and on the long run you are creating habits for a better difference!
With this in mind, please do not do everything at once. To prevent a negative on-going cycle, just like that book "Atomic Habits" said, that "If you can get 1% better each day for one year, you'll end up with 37 times better by the time you're done."
A habit to always include and progress even more is repentance! Recite and repeat Astaghfirullah; Ya Gaffar and Ya Gafoor; as well as the repentance surah's! Before doing anything, always say Bismillah and whether you're doing chores or scrolling on your phone, always say Astaghfirullah. This helps you be more aware of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala!
And lastly, remember you can do it!
: ̗̀➛ Allahumma musarrifal-qulubi, sarrif qulubana 'ala ta'atika
O Allah! Controller of the hearts, direct our hearts to Your obedience.
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Hey so your routine is to do psych-k while listening to sub before bed, then lie in bed and count to 100-1 while focusing on the darkness behind your eyes?
Yes EXACTLY
can you simplify the concept of the void state for me pls? I wanna forget everything and start from a clean slate
HOLY SHIT FUCK YEAH.
okay.
Void = a place where your awareness exists only.
What's awareness?:
Something that is tethered to your body, keeps you "aware" of everything around you and whatever that will happen around you, it goes out of our body during some occasions.
When does the awareness becomes something different from the body?:
During quite a lot of things.
Sleep = awareness exists alone, but body and mind is not aware of it and is asleep.
Dissociation = awareness is slightly tethered from the body, yet mind is asleep and body is actually awake.
Void = awareness exists alone, and body is asleep but the mind is wide awake.
These are some examples, now, you have a pretty easy good idea that the void is something we always go into, right? But in another term called "sleep"
Now so many people complicate this so much, like- no the void is not magical, nor is it something so special no one can enter, the awareness is literally in you and you can just make your mind awake whenever your awareness slips off.
You see, it's just like the questions kids ask when they are curious "what happens when we sleep?"
You know when you're dozing off and suddenly your body feels heavy or far away? That’s your awareness slipping.
could make the concept click faster right???
Our awareness gets tethered away from the body, and your mind and body shut down.
You just gotta keep your mind aware of the fact that your awareness is slipped off the body.
That's.
Literally.
All.
LIKE SEE HOW EASY IT IS???? people make it sound something so big when you can have access to anytime seriously, it's nothing hard, nothing that requires time literally nothing, people make it a big deal because nothing exists there hence manifestation is immediate.
Which manifesting was always immediate.
Being from Gaza, Palestine is so different.
I tell people I'm from Gaza and I get pity, I get the "oh... do you have family there?" and I have to act tough, I am tough, it runs in my veins. Being from Gaza is expecting that reaction, the sorrow, it's dealing with dumbass people everyday, it's getting the "can you go there?" question. (No i cant btw).
I am from Gaza, I feel emotions just like everyone else, I feel anger and hurt and longing for a place I cant visit, I feel love and comfort and right now I feel alone and like im yelling at the world to pay attention and NO ONE CARES.
I am from Gaza, my thoughts belong to Gaza, my heart, my skin color, the way I speak, the way I say words a bit differently than the rest of the Palestinians, the way I wish I was a filmmaker to share my culture with the world.
I am from Gaza, i am aware of how different my people are, i am aware that i grew up differently, I am aware I grew up looking at the news from my grandparents television with my aunt waiting for news about her family, I am aware that I have trauma in my veins, I am aware that my culture is taken over and that I can't really speak about it, I am aware that not everyone experiences your aunt screaming that her brother died and yelling "He's apart of my soul, my soul died"
I am from Gaza, I hurt, I feel, I love, I care and my heart, soul and mind all belong to my beautiful land and its people.
VOID STATE SUCCESS STORY
I finally after 1 and a half year entered the void state aware it was pink it was so beautiful and I know I did since I affirmed I always enter the void state aware instantly and manifested clear skin when I woke up I got the clear skin now I will enter it tonight and manifest my dream life (I have a list it 70+ pages long )
I did it by counting down from 100 to 0 a lit of time till I was sure I was relaxed and then I affirmed I'm a pure consciousness and I'm aware I'm in the void state
I wanna thank @gorgeouslypink @voidprincessblog @gloriousrunwayninja @thedoona and more
U didn't live in the end?
This is such good news to me 😭😭 I live in am abusive household with a mom who needs to make my life a living hell so it's so hard to live in the end
Yup I didn't live in the end. What I've noticed that is a major difference between the subliminal community and loa/void tumblr community is that subliminal community thinks that you should just know that your desire is coming and rest easy in knowing it is done whereas tumblr community thinks you need to believe you already have your desire and act as if/live in the end. I think the reasoning is that if you live in the end your mind will be reprogrammed as someone who has the desire and also you will achieve that knowingness that it is done but personally that is a bit hard to do in reality.
Just listen to subs and know they will work, you will be reprogramming your mind and if you believe in them, you will achieve that same knowingness.
Also sorry to hear about your mom, try listening to this:
Listen to it only twice and without headphones because it is powerful. It should help with your mom. It helped my situation with my parents before too and I started using it whenever I was going to deal with annoying people
♡ i’m completely detached from the 3d
♡ even if my affirmations don’t feel natural at first, or even if they feel uncomfortable because “i’m lying to myself”, i persist
♡ i’m able to remain positive and persist even when i see things in the 3d that affect me
♡ i know for a fact that being sad sometimes or having doubts won’t hinder my manifestations
♡ i honor my feelings and emotions and then let go and allow the old story to die
♡ creation is finished
♡ my assumptions will harden into facts, it’s the law
♡ i don’t have to wait for my desires to manifest, it’s already done
♡ my desires have no choice but to materialize, it’s the law
♡ i entered the void and manifested my dream life months ago
i'm on break so i've been passing time on Tumblr, when did ppl on here go crazy it's like reading inside of a crazy philosopher's head y'all are on the verge of losing your mind
since we are in a new year, it means that we are also embodying a new way of living. me, for the most part, would like my life to go in a different path this year.
i love hyping myself up, thinking and analyzing what i truly deserve as a person, i have been a wonderful friend, girlfriend and daughter, i can’t settle for less. i literally don’t care about the people who call me a narcissist for putting myself on top of most of the things -which is truly important by the way-
without self love you can’t move around in life. how are you gonna convince yourself that you’re worthy of things when you can’t even agree that you deserve them? yes, of course we can manifest stuff in our lives without having a perfect mindset but also sometimes we need to fix it for ourselves and not because of our manifestations and the void only.
i’m a person who overthinks and it’s negative as hell from time to time, like some of you too. i struggle, like a lot of people do. i’m not a special human being, i was made the same way that you were made too. i love talking, i love talking my thoughts and emotions out. i love identifying with people here, i love when people tag me in their journey and manifestation path, i love my anons and their cute appreciation messages weekly, it really makes my day, and i’m also very grateful to you guys for always being there for me even though i’m not the most active person in this community but if i can’t provide a new post for you, i make sure to reblog my whole timeline so you don’t miss out as well!!
i just wanted to post this so i can come back to this whenever i feel down, to remind myself that the year just started and that everything that i want will be mine, i’m worthy of good things and so are you.
i wanna manifest everything that i couldnt last year, everything that i postponed, repay the months that i spent rotting on my bed feeling like a failure, replace my bad and negative thoughts with joyful and happier ones. being even more helpful for all of you who follow me, i might not be a super blogger but i need to assure that everything i do, i do it with intention and a pure heart.
i’m starting a new journey, the old story will end up being ashes and something new will eventually happen. cause i’ve been supporting everyone since my first day here and i love to see how all of you are growing up, especially changing your mentality and i wanna congratulate all those anons who got out of toxic relationships, toxic environments and the ones who have succeeded in their main goals and made all their wishes come true.
don’t let anything or anyone disturb you or take the focus away from your journey. we are all deserving of our desires, don’t feel guilty.
To any suicidal followers I may have: This is a sign to not kill yourself. You are loved and the world is special because you are in it. Keep holding on.
-PLEASE REBLOG THIS YOU MAYBE ARE SAVING SOMEONES LIFE
You are special and amazing , If you need to talk or some help send me a dm and I will talk to you.