This Is Actually True And Is Why Writers Tend To Be Emotional Wrecks.

This is important. Do not trash yourself too hard. Be clear on your flaws, but know what those flaws exactly are and don't say you are vaguely bad. That doesn't help. Remember why you write. What you enjoy about writing, and keep it in mind.

Things to say about your writing instead of “this is so bad”

My writing doesn’t have to be perfect all the time

The dialogue in this scene feels stale (or another adjective), but I can revise that later

The descriptions lack specificity (or another issue), but I can revise that later

The [another specific craft element] isn’t working the way I’d hoped, but I can revise that later

I don’t feel like I can objectively judge my work at this current moment

I’m not happy with my writing right now, but that doesn’t mean I’ll feel this way forever

I’ll reread this writing at a later time and move on for now

This scene isn’t turning out how I’d pictured in my head, but I can accept that for now and tweak it later

I trust myself to edit this in the future

I’m afraid people are going to judge my work, but I’ll accept that I can’t control the reactions of other people—my reaction matters most

This scene/subplot/character/etc is overwhelming me.

I’ll take my time through this scene/chapter/subplot as more time may allow me to immerse more in the draft.

I’ll write this scene/chapter/subplot as quickly as I can—I would like to get through this part ASAP.

It’s okay to make mistakes in my writing.

I’m not feeling very confident in my craft right now, but I know this will pass

This scene might be bad, and that’s okay. Sometimes I write gems, and sometimes my writing needs a bit more work (that’s normal)

This scene relies on [certain skill] that I’m still honing. I understand to get better at something, I have to practice and practicing requires mistakes.

I’m not excited about this scene right now

I had high expectations for this scene, and unfortunately, I don’t feel like I’m hitting them. However, it’s okay for expectations to change.

I’m disappointed with how my writing is turning out. That’s normal, even though it sucks.

I’m going to remind myself what I DO like about my writing because this feels bad, though I know this feeling won’t last forever.

Sometimes writers need to say “my writing is so bad,” and that’s fine too! Sometimes though, it’s good to note what is specifically wrong in case you need an extra boost forward! <3

This is in mind a far healthier way to look at this kind of thing than the usual humiliated cuck. Your girl is beautiful to you, and that beauty doesn't go away when she fucks other guys or girls. People love porn stars, and yet decry the same slutting they idolize. You want your wife to fuck and be fucked because she is gorgeous to you and seeing her happy makes you happy.

A warning, don't abuse trust. If your a girl who's hot wifing, don't forget this is fun and not an excuse to hurt your husband. If your a guy who's convincing your girl to hot wife, don't push her boundaries too far and be prepared to hear her concerns and limit your fantasies. Work together slowly.

Her lips sealed around his cock, her throat struggling, her eyes desperate. She looks up at him, not wanting this, but you pushed her to it. You told her how good it would make her feel, of how much it would prove her love by being the slut you want. Her face shifts, going from shame like pain to pleasure. She starts to suck on it, throating his dick with new eagerness. He jabs his dick in and out of her mouth like a dagger, thrusting and pulling, only to stab back in. When he creams on her tongue, he holds it until her cheeks are full and than slowly pulls out. Sperm connects to her lips, she licks at it as she swirls around his load. In her mouth she tastes his seed, forced to drown her tongue in it. She pulls her head back, sallowes down everything like a good girl. It's not to him she turns now. It's to you. Her face blushing, her finger tracing her lips, her nipples hard like iron spears as they pierce the fabric of her bra. She looks at you for approval, and you smile and kiss her neck. You give her to others, you let her be used, but you never let go of her. She's yours, and that's what makes ruining her good. Serious Talk: I honestly find it better to have the partner in any relationship be they straight or gay or lesiban or of a trans sexuality to look for their partner's approval in having sex with others and having it viewed by them. I know people like the cuckhold thing, but don't feel pressured into that. If you are not into the humiliation aspect of being a cuck, don't embrace what isn't you. Share approval and acceptance with your partner, and again people. Do not force your lover to fuck other people if that is not okay with them. Sexy roleplay talk of being emotionally manipulative and real life controlling them should not be the same.

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The title of my name does say Fantasy and Smut. Let's get some fantasy in here. This guy? This guy gets it. Don't just have your Warlock patron be a source of power. Have them be a source of storylines. Tests for more dark knowledge, trials of loyalty, explore the bond between the Warlock and Patron. Don't limit yourself to only evil. Have a Devil or Demon that is morally grey and have the Warlock question the nature of the cosmos because of the unique character of their Patron and other outerplanar beings like them.

At first she argued with you about how she had a career, ambitions outside of her body and moans. You showed her you make more money than she could want. Built a palace out of silk and pillows and blankets, garbed her in lingerie and shackled them in dainty beautiful things. Slowly you touched her more and more, casually stroking your hands over her side and thigh and breasts, feeling her nipples and skin stiffen and respond to your touch. When she asks what she can do for you, with her breasts hanging out, more perfect every day as you mould them, you cup one in your hand and bite it and tell her she can be pliant and accepting of her purpose. She asks what the purpose is, and you pet near her legs and command her to open them, and with your fingers you spread the gates of her womanhood wide and you set your fingers crawling inside her and say this is her purpose. She protests with a whimper, says she is smart and ambitious, and you tell her she is a woman. And she is a breeder and a sexual work and she only needs to focus on the signs of her fertility and beauty, and her protests dwindle as you explore her, and explain to her what she will be. Serious Talk: It's okay to have one partner be the wage earner, but don't force your girlfriend or wife out of a job.

Ah, sexual fantasy. The thumping, arousing, primal fire of desire which courses like violence through our veins. All you guys and lesibans out there want girls to be this free with their body don't ya? Wearing skimpy outfits to parties, dancing without a care in the world, shaking that ass and swinging those tits that you want to bite and grab. You know how you will get this? Confidence. Your girl needs to be confidant in her body, in her place by you, and in your respect for her. All these different smut stories and blogs about training the girls, really you need to train yourself. Complement, support, and reinforce committed respect. You want that woman to be a fucking horny slut bitch who's willing to show herself off like a trophy? Than prove tha your worth it, that you will listen, and that this is good shared fun. What does she want from you socially and emotionally for this kind of lewd behavior? Desire is a road going both ways. You need to see what steps you'll take before you have someone else walk.

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Let's have a talk on power and kink. This is outrageously hot as a fantasy. Breaking a girl's confidence in her mind, having her rely on her body to express herself, having her depend on you for thinking. It gets your blood boiling. Yet, this is a powerful lust that is fucked up to do in real life. I'm of mixed mind on this. If you have a girlfriend or wife who wants to be made dumb? Like, this is something that makes them happy, having their intelligence degraded by playing into logic traps? Convincing them their role is to be stupid? Than go for it. But, I can't stress this enough, be really sure that's what she wants and check on her outside of the persona to see if she's still fine with you forcing her to make mental mistakes and feel like an moron. Now that we have gone over the don't mix fucked up mind control fetish with how you treat a real person. Let's chat on fucked up mind control Fetish. Something I'd like to see more in Bimofication is tricking the Bimbo to be sexually publicized. Convincing her to suck cocks and lick pussy as a thank you, having her walk around with a plug up her ass and spreading it to be shown when people ask for it. Bending over to have her butt spanked by people who want to, telling her she should flash her nipples and roll her breasts around to tease people, inviting them to grab and crush them between their palms. If for a Bimbo sex is all they think about, have them act out sex with others. Reminder, for real people and not fictional stories, communicate and understand each others wants and concerns. For things like allowing strangers to touch your Bimbo partner, be crystal clear on what she likes, what she don't, what steps she's willing to take, and escape routes if things don't feel good. Honestly, do that shit with stories too

I feel agreement. Ultra femininity will take multiple forms, and the shape of the Bimbo's personality should reflect their inner slut. If a girl wants to be a Bimbo, the kind of Bimbo she should be is best if it comes from her interests in what she finds sexy. Bimbofication is about the perfection of beauty, and beauty is of many facets. Bimbos should explore what kind of body and appearance they want for their creativity and to get the most fun out of it if this is what they want.

You reblogged it a few times, but I feel a need to reiterate. The fact that bimbofication defaults to one type bugs me. I personally love the kink, but the fact that almost every bimbofication story results in the girl no longer being a tomboy/liking darker colors/whatever feels so samey. It's not even that it's bad, in and of itself, I just feel that more people should try different stuff, you know?

I do totally agree. Honestly, everyone has their preferences, and I think part of the popularity of bimbofication is the embracing of "traditionally feminine" interests, styles, etc. that in the past have been treated as embarrassing or stupid.

But I do totally agree that pastel pink bimbo isn't the only flavor; it is, admittedly, a popular one since it fits the molds of what many people are looking for in the kink. But ultimately, bimbo diversity is a good thing.

Kink shaming is always beneath people. No one should attack this person for their fantasies and i intend no insult to them. I would like to have a talk about these race and cuckhold fetishes with respectful intent. They are all weird. Like, really weird. Everything of them. WBC, BBC, the asian varient, they essentialize people into either submissive sex addicts who would betray their loved ones, or make the people who are the alpha race in whatever version of the kink the ones tearing apart romantic connections. It's arousing to imagine being the asshole who takes away someone's girlfriend or boyfriend based on a fundamental attribute like your race, but it's also a little toxic guys and gals. Then there is the cuck shit. How many of you have seen a Harem smut story where the guy fucks multiple girls but that doesn't cuck the other woman or main girl? Yet, if a girl fucks another guy, she has to shame her primary lover. He is called beta, but what kind of person would take a look at a girl being an asshole to her boyfriend and or husband and go yeah, I want to fuck that and make their partner feel like shit? This has bugged me about all the cuckhold stories. Why don't people just want to see their wife or girlfriend fucked because it's like a private porno film between the lovers? Its about her pleasure, her sexual joy, and sharing that moment together. If you got a boyfriend or husband who is okay with you fucking other guys, why is it always the girl has to be an asshole to him? I get it, people like being shamed as kink, it's not something I get and so for those who have fun with it, keep on doing what makes you happy.

But the sheer freaking quantity of this content seeping from between the interwebs is bloody strange. If you want to masturbate to your lover getting pounded and spray all over her, do so without feeling like that makes you a Beta male. If you want to fuck her after she's been fucked, do that. If you want to fuck her alongside other random dudes she's grabbed? Do that. Personally. I'd rather my partner complement me while having sex and they praise me. But hey, I'm a internet virgin. So no RL exp there.

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