in another universe, i was older, and you didn't hold back.
i want to cook her dinner so bad
j was driving out of school today as i was leaving because we had a short day and it was so sunny she was driving with the top down of her car . i love this woman
pliny the elder: who am i to deny any unverified and weird info about nature that crosses my pea brain
I see a lot of you guys upset because you and your tc’s aren’t close. But I have a few ideas, because I have gotten somewhat close with mine.
This is just excuses to talk to them pretty much.
Make small talk. Whatever it is, smile or wave in the hallway, come up and make small talk after class.
Go to extra help/tutoring. This was the main thing that got me closer with K. This is mainly if you have trouble in the area of the subject, but it’s great one on one. You can talk A LOT.
Emails. “My Tc Is ToO sErIoUs” STILL EMAIL THEM. Sometimes if you have a question, email them! Could even throw in a few friendly words.
Try to make them laugh. Even if it’s not direct. I once told a joke to another girl and I just hear this small chuckle from across the room. And there K is, snickering at my joke. So try that!
Almost forgot that some of you do online schooling! Not to worry, sometimes try to muster the smallest question up and pm them!
Here’s something I’ve done before: sometimes K makes us just do certain questions for homework, and I did an extra one, just to make small talk. If that works, do it!
Compliment them! I would mainly compliment their outfit, but don’t be too exaggerated about it.
If you email them, always start off with “Hey (tc), I hope you’re doing great.” That gives off “I’m being friendly” vibes to them, so they’ll be friendly too!
Ideas!
“Hey! I don’t understand (question). Can you explain it please?”
“*insert witty remark that would make them laugh*”
“Hi, I think I left my (item) in here. Have you seen it?”
“I like your (item of clothing)!”
Feel free to think of more!
Franz Kafka, Letters to Felice
I just wanna fall asleep on the couch watching documentaries with u or something. I just wanna be with you without being in class, I’m sorry, I know it’s weird. But something’s pulling me towards the person you are underneath all the teacher shit. I want you to see the person I am underneath all the student shit.
You probably don’t feel the same, I understand, but it still hurts nonetheless. I want it so much it hurts. Walking through the hallways, sitting in class, on the bus, it hurts.
ngl I think that one of the most stressful things about having a tc is that you really have to be the one to show that you’re friendly and interested in getting to know them to make the relationship grow. like yeah they can initiate a conversation with you every now and again but it’s really up to you to show that you’re not just another student taking their class to pass it, and having to be the one to make that initial connection is so weirdly difficult sometimes.
30/03
j recommended me a movie to watch called room in rome ?? and she was like oh it’s 18+ be careful and i replied IM 18 IM LEGAL so…. embarrassed 🫠🫠
but i looked this movie up and it’s literally just . lesbian sex WHAT DOES THIS MEAN
i’m 18 on monday this means i can legally get with her
Auguste Rodin - Eternal Springtime, 1884