Happy BirthDay To Ani!!!!

theres only one person that deserves to be celebrated this mothers day and its badboyhalo

little thought before bed

Ivan would have made it if he hadn’t gone back for Till. There is a rebellion somewhere. Find them. Neither of you have to die.

Well till went back for mizi. So if we was to go and be safe we would all have to go at the same time (as mizi probably wouldnt go without Ivan as they are close friends) which puts us at great risk of getting caught.

Lmfao as a religious trauma survivor and a product of Christian fundie indoctrination myself I am in full support of calling fandom wank "purity culture" and the use of the word "puriteen" as well actually.

It perfectly encompasses what purity culture was. It wasn't just about "no sex before marriage"; it policed every fucking thing you did and forced you to walk on eggshells your entire life so your Magical Sky Daddy didn't clutch His heavenly pearls at your naughty behaviours.

Holding hands with someone you weren't married to? Gateway to sin. Making eyes at someone of the opposite sex? Gateway to sin. Thinking "impure" thoughts about someone else? Thoughtcrime Gateway to sin. Wearing the "wrong" type of clothes? Listening to the "wrong" kind of music? Having the "wrong" sort of values? Enjoying the "wrong" kind of media? All of it was seen as a stepping stone toward being a sinful godless heathen (and to some people it was essentially just as bad).

And it wasn't enough to just avoid BadWrong Behaviours, either. In my ex-community you were expected to express your disapproval of it and be well versed in the theological how's and whys. Does any of that sound familiar?

Purity culture at its core is so much more than "wear this purity ring and pinky promise to Jesus that you'll never have sex until you're married" and if you didn't realise that while you were there you weren't paying attention.

a little animation practice huehue ;;3;;

Meowstery solved! Make sure your cat doesn’t hold any grudges! WEBTOON - INSTAGRAM

no one noticed

people have got to get normaler about systems