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BDSM PSA

(I have a side blog for this but hey more people will see it here)

• BDSM does not always involve pain

• BD stands for bondage and discipline, DS stands for domination and submission, SM stands for sadism and masochism

• You don’t need all three categories for BDSM although they often overlap.

• BDSM is not always a sexual act. For example, you can tie someone up and not have sex with them before you untie them. BSDM can be like a stress relieving hobby

• Not all subs are masochists and not all dominants are sadists

• Although BDSM relationships can be abusive like any other, dominants are not inherently abusive.

• Submissive partners aren’t miserable during a scene although they might look that way

• BDSM scenes aren’t always serious. You can laugh or smile in a scene when you’re having fun. • Dominants take care of their subs. If a sub is crying and begging and looks like they’re in terrible pain, it’s only because the sub has chosen to be in that situation. They are not being abused.

• You can practice self-bondage, you don’t necessarily need a partner

• Aftercare is a thing. Picture a D/s pair cuddling and comforting each other after a scene where the D whipped the s. You always care for each other afterwards

• Dominants are not always cruel

• Basically BDSM isn’t the violent abusive thing it is often seen as

• But also don’t just jump into it. Before you try BDSM with a partner or alone, research safe words, different roles, red flags in a D/s relationship, signs your bondage is hurting you, and physical signs that mean your scene needs to stop immediately (like numb hands, blurry vision, etc)

• Google Safe, Sane and Consensual or Risk Aware Consensual Kink for more info on how BDSM can be a healthy thing that doesn’t hurt anyone

Hope this helps some people better understand BDSM!

Carpooling

When there’s 3 involved

Always show love❤️❤️❤️

BUT COMPETE AT THE SAME TIME 😤😤

Mad 😠