See, This Is A Problem Because I Don’t Remember If I Picked It Because It’s Sea-themed (long Story,

i honestly don't even care if ive already posted this. look at it again

sorry but if you think people saying curly should have done something to stop jimmy is "demonization" youre kind of pathetic

aaand you are unable to read? i said demonization, and gave no further context? i still think he’s shit, but what I mean is the people that treat him as worse or equal to jimmy or refuse to awknowledge him as an abuse victim because of it are demonizing him. the people that say he should have been disfigured and disabled (as karma or otherwise) are also demonizing him with further ableism added.

anyways i literally don’t care i know fuck all about the game, just that the fandom is the most disgusting ableist shitstain i’ve ever stepped into. lovely to know you care enough to do anon whimpering, literally just reply to my comment next time.

Are fedoras really that bad?

YES YES THEY ARE

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psst in finland this was a thing (enforced sterilisation). you needed it to legally change your gender and often also to get your diagnosis -> hormones. horrific doesn’t describe it well enough and i’m probably one of the first generations of (transgender) finns who wont need to be sterilised forcibly. it also enabled a friend of mine to change their passport marking as a minor without any of that. also, to get sterilised in finland you either need to be 30 or have 3 kids. so they really set that bar lower for us haha

To all the transfems that bring up forced sterilisation when a transmasc talks about forced impregnating and a loss of bodily autonomy: stop.

Transmascs also face forced and coerced sterilisation. In many places, it’s only recently that any trans person can change their legal gender without being sterilised. This is not a problem specific to transfems.

The issue is more complicated for trans people who can give birth (including some intersex transfems) because cis people want them to become baby machines so bad. This introduces more barriers when somebody wants to make certain legal and medical decisions for themselves!

All trans people are directly victimised by a restriction of reproductive autonomy. But the issue tends to be more central for trans people who can give birth, since giving birth is nearly a year-long process that can ruin your life and health. Being forcibly sterilised often is less focal in transmasc activism because, especially as people who might have dysphoria around getting pregnant, being forced to endure that for months, being forced to have permanent and sometimes harmful alterations to your body made, being forced to go through an incredibly painful process where they will almost certainly be repeatedly misgendered, being forced to produce a living being you never wanted to produce, etc., might seem like a worse fate than never being able to have kids in the first place.

This is not me saying one group or another has it worse! And I am not downplaying the pain of transfems (or trandmascs) who were forcibly sterilised. It is still a very serious issue that can cause a lot of pain for many.

But this is me saying that this specific issue is one that much more often impacts transmascs. And if it is not something you will ever be at risk of experiencing, then you have no business taking about how “bad” it would be or comparing the issue to some “equivalent” transfem problem.

Bigotry often does not have perfect equivalents. Transmisogyny and transandrophobia are distinct forces of oppression. Just because one group experience one type of problem doesn’t mean they’re More Oppressed or something. I say this as somebody who experiences both. It’s ridiculous to compare a trandandrophobia-specific problem to a general trans problem or a transmisogyny-specific problem because they just manifest differently. Neither is worse or better. They don’t have perfect equivalents. Don’t let your mind be tainted by oppositional sexism and give your fellow trans people room to discuss their fears and anxieties and experiences with issues that are unique to them.

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40 characters, 5 games

Remedy x Disco Elysium

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did anyone else have those magnet sets?? with balls and like, rods/sticks that you could build with?? no clue if its just a finnish thing or an european thing but did you have that as a child

transmascs have historically been erased by claims of them simply being women trying to escape oppression, and what is the discourse going on right now? oh that transmascs are actually just cis women trying to escape oppression, and being transmasc is somehow a more privileged position? thats interesting isnt it

rococo looking motherfucker for an event :) (might not get to keep them as such are myo events, but so worth it) still trying to name em and honestly it’s gonna be something dumb or ’eastbound’