“The more he submits to you, and you reward him for it, the more he will want you to dominate, rule and control him. The more he strives to make your endeavors more enjoyable, the more you will naturally desire to “play” tease and torture him in the bedroom. Realize he needs that D&S interaction daily to keep him motivated. Encourage him to communicate his venerating affirmation to you routinely. Gently, Lovingly and Sensuously remind him how much he fundamentally needs that interaction with you. His persistent focus needs to be on meeting Your Needs both inside and outside the bedroom. The more he does this, the more natural it will become to him and the more you will naturally expect and demand it from him. He should get up each morning and mediate on how he can serve you his Queen and how He can Devote himself to you and please you. If you train and program him relentlessly to do this, the rest will take care of itself.”
I just wanted to see how long I could “Keep You" Right on the Edge Studmiffin, I actually Had No Intention of Allowing You to Cum Tonight… We’re Just Cuddling…
Good Boy… You Know - That I Know, Whats BEST for Our Relationship.
He defines it brilliantly here, beautiful.
Happy husband here, I’ll try to make sense of it. First off, we’re very sexual and sorta kinky people in the first place. So we’re already open minded. Don’t misunderstand our relationship dynamic as a one size fits all, that is far from the truth. Every couple has their own wants, needs, rules, etc with their relationship. This may sound selfish and it can be at time. Here is the pleasure I get from it. I love the feeling of allowing our relationship to be open. It’s like giving her the gift of exploring her sexual freedom with others. I have a grand imagination and I get extremely turned on by the thought of her with another man (or woman) I’ve always loved watching her fuck. With that being said I don’t need to always be there to watch her. In many cases I prefer not to. I enjoy the anticipation of her coming home. And that is when the most intense intimacy begins. Her coming home with that sly smile. The way she looks at me. I know she got what she wanted and liked it. The way she lays next to me or on top of me kissing me and massaging me. She begins telling me the story of her night. The more details she gives me and how much she enjoyed it the better. She tells me how big his cock was and how much she loved being fucked by it. The more she enjoyed her tryst, the more I love it, the more intense the electricity is between us. It becomes a moment in a vacuum where nothing exists except the two of us. It’s so personal and direct just between us. The fact she fucked another person is only a catalyst to our passion for each other. Although she enjoyed her time with another man, it’s really about that time when she comes home to me. She’s told me that when she’s fucking someone else, the thought of me being frustrated waiting for her to come home or imagining me jerking off to the thought of her fucking on her date, makes her cum the hardest. This isn’t for everyone and not everyone can understand what a husband gets from it. It’s a feeling of power and helplessness, it’s frustration and anticipation, it’s yearning and release of the most intense kind. It’s sex and it’s love. Hope that helps a little and thanks for the ask! -Be curious not judgmental.
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“Edging” Your Man, Ladies, is a wonderfully effective way to get Total Control over your Favorite Plaything (while you surreptitiously reform and condition his vulnerable receptive psyche). “Edging” Your Man - Interminably ; Powerfully combines pleasure and torture in a perfect ratio, and it can be combined with so many other female empowering activities and forms of play, like sensual erotic hypnosis…
Dopamine plays a major role in the Male (Neurochemical) Brain Circuitry that is Responsible for His Reward-Driven Learning…Pavlovian Conditioning…
Rules For A “Perfect” Ruined Ejaculation:
1. Call it what it is: Ejaculation. There are Very Few Blissful Orgasms for Him.
2. Minimize / Harness / Govern his orgasmic pleasure incessantly. Stimulate his straining “desperate” penis slowly and gently - and only just barely enough to take him right up to the edge… Do not overstimulate…
3. The male should be habitually, routinely and hypnotically instructed and reminded to relax as much as possible - and not to tense up - as this only increases his pleasure and may cause an overstimulation “Accident”…
4. Cease ALL stimulation the moment the ejaculatory reflex is barely triggered… If he is “tense” the timing of this may be difficult to detect; so it is important that he remain relaxed (and it’s why you take your Sweet Time). It’s better to STOP all stimulation 30 seconds too early, that 5 seconds Too Late!!! Semen should slowly flow (or “ooze) from the desperate straining erect penis like a miniature river, without spurting… If his nerves fire, and he erupts ropes of cum with any force at all, you have overstimulated him…
5. Do not touch or caress the traumatized hypersensitive penis in any way (including cleaning) until his enthralled erection has completely subsided, in order to ensure a Total Loss of Pleasurable Sensation…
Remember that this is Not about his pleasure, but simply the gentle release of his pent up, pressurized semen! You do not want his sexual nerves Detonating!
Exquisitely, His Libido, Lust and Subordination Will (Helplessly) AMPLIFY…
have this while I’m struggling with transitions