He defines it brilliantly here, beautiful.
Happy husband here, I’ll try to make sense of it. First off, we’re very sexual and sorta kinky people in the first place. So we’re already open minded. Don’t misunderstand our relationship dynamic as a one size fits all, that is far from the truth. Every couple has their own wants, needs, rules, etc with their relationship. This may sound selfish and it can be at time. Here is the pleasure I get from it. I love the feeling of allowing our relationship to be open. It’s like giving her the gift of exploring her sexual freedom with others. I have a grand imagination and I get extremely turned on by the thought of her with another man (or woman) I’ve always loved watching her fuck. With that being said I don’t need to always be there to watch her. In many cases I prefer not to. I enjoy the anticipation of her coming home. And that is when the most intense intimacy begins. Her coming home with that sly smile. The way she looks at me. I know she got what she wanted and liked it. The way she lays next to me or on top of me kissing me and massaging me. She begins telling me the story of her night. The more details she gives me and how much she enjoyed it the better. She tells me how big his cock was and how much she loved being fucked by it. The more she enjoyed her tryst, the more I love it, the more intense the electricity is between us. It becomes a moment in a vacuum where nothing exists except the two of us. It’s so personal and direct just between us. The fact she fucked another person is only a catalyst to our passion for each other. Although she enjoyed her time with another man, it’s really about that time when she comes home to me. She’s told me that when she’s fucking someone else, the thought of me being frustrated waiting for her to come home or imagining me jerking off to the thought of her fucking on her date, makes her cum the hardest. This isn’t for everyone and not everyone can understand what a husband gets from it. It’s a feeling of power and helplessness, it’s frustration and anticipation, it’s yearning and release of the most intense kind. It’s sex and it’s love. Hope that helps a little and thanks for the ask! -Be curious not judgmental.
What’s going through her mind while she stands there waiting for her surprise… how wet would you be?
With Habitual / Routine Edging and Karezza ”Training” – Males Just Get Hornier - More Subordinate … Subservient…, and Amenable !!!
Program Him Daily (Subliminally), That His Function and Biological “Design" - Is For Your Feminine Exploitation, Gratification & Felicity !!!
Exploit How His Perpetual Virile “Arousal” Makes Him More and More - Servile and Obedient !!!
The Natural Feminine “Dominion” You Have Over Him, Will Grow Stronger Each Day, While you Powerfully Condition & Train His Vulnerable Receptive Psyche…
HWRP #5 Start carrying a condom in your purse. Of course you don’t use them with your husband, so why else would you need condoms? After you put a condom in your purse, ask him to get something from your purse for you. He will see it. Maybe he says something maybe he doesn’t. Periodically take the condom out or replace it with a different brand. Again have him get something from your purse. He will will go looking for it this time. After a few times you will not have to ask him to go into your purse, he’ll sneak a peak when your not looking.
So your husband has confessed his desire for you to explore sex outside of your marriage. You’re not sure how you feel about that. You can still have some fun with it even if you have not made the decision to open your marriage. There are some fun ways to explore the fantasy without inviting another person in. This can also be a good way to test the waters and make sure your husband is really on board with this. Have fun with it and drive him crazy with role play!