Dealing With The Worst Case Scenario

So I just saw a post by a random personal blog that said “don’t follow me if we never even had a conversation before” and?????? Not to be rude but literally what the fuck??????????

I’ve had people (non-pornbots) try to strike conversation out of nowhere in my DMs recently, and now I’m wondering if they were doing that because they wanted to follow me and thought they needed to interact first. I feel compelled to say, just in case, that it’s totally okay to follow this blog (or my side blog, for that matter) even if we’ve never talked before.

Also, I’m legit confused. Is this how follow culture works right now? It was worded like it’s common sense but is that really a thing?

GIVE ME YOUR IDEAS .NF

would you like me to write something else for Azul, something possibly longer 💀 -@thegayestmferintown

HOLY OH MY GOD YES??? IF YOURE WILLING TO WRITE SOMETHING FOR HIM I WOULD BE DELIGHTED TO READ IT ‼️‼️

dont ever hesitate. reblog this.

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Out of Touch

here’s a little comparison for people who say engagement hasn’t gotten that bad and anyone who complains is ungrateful.

these are two posts from my first go round on tumblr circa 2014-2017, my most popular gifset of all time

& a text post

notice how the ratio is about even on likes to reblogs?

here’s from this go around, my most popular gifset

and my most popular fic

do you see how that’s discouraging?

i love being on this site. i love the little community i’ve found and the people who follow me and the mutuals i’ve made friendships with and the mutuals that i’m still getting to know. i love it. but at a certain point it’s hard to justify spending so much time on works that get bad engagement.

reblog, comment, send asks. without them, this site doesn’t work.

things to update after a legal name change!

Social security card

Driver’s license

Passport

Birth certificate

Employer HR

Bank account

Credit card company

Car insurance

Health insurance

Utilities

Cell phone account

Voter registration

Your school

Professional organizations (for nursing, bar, teaching, etc.)

Doctor’s office & other health specialists

TV & internet

Paypal

*Please add to this list if you can think of anything else!!!

happy Thursday the 20th

GRRR THE CREATIVE JUICES ARE FLOWING 😈😈😈

Unfollow me if you follow @/Marilynfuse

Hi everyone. This post is going to be different from my other ones. I try to keep other matters off of this blog and reblog deactivated content from the twst fandom on here. But there’s been one blog on the twst fandom that I do not wish to be associated with in any way.

Do NOT follow me if you follow @/Marilynfuse

@/Marilynfuse is a Zionist.

Israel has never been held accountable for a single war crime they’ve committed in the last 75 years. But we’re now finally calling them out on their genocidal incense while the rest of the world ignores it.

There are so many revolting images of murdered Palestinians in Gaza. And if you are a Zionist Jew denying the death toll or okay with saying Palestinians are collateral damage in the name of Israel, then you are no better than an oppressor.

I am very disappointed to see someone in the twst fandom pushing this on their blog. Especially since I used to follow and interact with their works.

Free Palestine

Free Sudan

Free Haiti

Free Congo