Suggestive Dirty Talk Options

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie playing. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.

Hotwife Quotes to Fire Up Your Relationship and Spice Things Up!

Hotwife quotes provide a unique perspective on relationships, marriage and love. They offer insight into the minds of those who are in committed relationships where one partner is allowed to explore sexual experiences outside the relationship. Hotwife quotes can be inspiring for couples looking to spice up their marriage or for individuals seeking an alternative lifestyle.

1. “There’s something about being a hotwife that just feels so naughty and fun!”

2. “A hotwife is a woman who enjoys the attention of other men, but stays loyal to her husband.”

3. “If you’re not married, don’t try to be a hotwife. You need permission from the husband first!”

4. “I like to think of myself as a modern-day hotwife!”

5. “Hotwives are wild and free, but always remain faithful to their husbands!”

6. “It takes two people in an open marriage to make it work—and lots of trust!”

7. “Sharing my wife with other men is an exciting and liberating experience!”

8. “The most important thing about being a hotwife is to keep the trust between husband and wife.”

9. “A hotwife can really spice up a relationship—for both parties!”

10. “My hotwife has been a great way for us to explore our own sexual desires in new ways.”

11. “It’s not just about sex, it’s also about trust and mutual respect between two partners.”

12. “When I see my hotwife looking so beautiful, it fills me with pride that she chose me as her partner.”

13. “We don’t have to be conventional; there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships!”

14. “Every day is a new adventure with my hotwife.”

15. “Having a hotwife is an amazing opportunity to explore our sexuality and discover new heights of pleasure!”

16. “Being the husband of a hotwife has been the most liberating experience I’ve ever had.”

17. “The thought of sharing my wife is thrilling and really turns me on!”

18. “My hotwife and I have been able to build a strong relationship that allows freedom but also loyalty.”

19. “There’s nothing like watching your hotwife get her groove on with another man!”

20. “Exploring the world of hotwifing can be a journey of discovery for both partners.”

21. “The key to having a successful hotwife relationship is communication and understanding each other’s boundaries.”

22. “My wife and I have found that being open about our feelings has helped to strengthen our marriage.”

23. “It takes confidence and courage to be a hotwife, but the rewards are worth it!”

24. “There’s something exciting and mysterious about being a hotwife that keeps me coming back for more!”

25. “As long as my wife and I are on the same page, we can explore this lifestyle to our heart’s content!”

26. “Being a hotwife means you can enjoy all that life has to offer without compromising your commitment to each other.”

27. “My wife is an amazing hotwife; she knows how to have fun while respecting my boundaries.”

28. “We make sure that we take time for ourselves as individuals in order for our relationship as a hotwife couple to thrive.”

29. “Our hotwifing journey has been extremely rewarding, discovering new levels of intimacy within our marriage.”

30. “The trust between us is stronger than ever since introducing the hotwife lifestyle!”

31. “The number one rule for being a hotwife is to be honest and open about your feelings with your partner.”

32. “It’s all about having fun, but also making sure that everyone feels safe and respected.”

33. “Having the support of my husband has allowed me to explore my wilder side as a hotwife!”

34. “My wife and I have found that our relationship has become even more connected as we experiment with this lifestyle.”

35. “Being a hotwife gives us both the freedom to express our true desires in a secure environment.”

36. “It can be nerve-wracking at first, but with trust and communication it can be an incredibly rewarding experience!”

37. “My husband and I have found that the hotwife lifestyle has only brought us closer together.”

38. “The key to a successful hotwifing relationship is mutual respect and understanding between partners.”

39. “We may explore different kinds of activities, but we will always remain faithful to each other!”

40. “I’m proud to be a part of this amazing journey as my wife’s loving and supportive husband!”

41. “My hotwife and I have been able to explore each other’s limits while respecting our boundaries.”

42. “We don’t take ourselves too seriously; it’s all about having fun and expanding our horizons as a couple!”

43. “We feel empowered by the fact that we can both be adventurous in our marriage without fear of judgement or criticism.”

44. “The more we explore the hotwife lifestyle, the more we learn about ourselves and each other!”

45. “My wife is my biggest inspiration, pushing me to reach new heights of pleasure and connection through this journey.”

46. “Our relationship has grown stronger since introducing the hotwife lifestyle, and I couldn’t be prouder!”

47. “The hotwife lifestyle is a beautiful experience that I would recommend to any couple looking to take their relationship to the next level!”

48. “My wife and I are making memories together that will last us a lifetime.”

49. “We can both express our deepest desires in an environment of trust and understanding – all thanks to the hotwife lifestyle.”

50. “My wife is my everything, and being able to share her with others has been an incredible journey for the both of us!”

Hotwife quotes can be a great source of inspiration and motivation for any couple who is looking to spice up their relationship. Whether you’re just starting out or have been in the lifestyle for years, these words from experienced hotwives are sure to provide insight into what it takes to make your marriage thrive.

Take time to reflect on each quote and apply its wisdom directly to your own life, you may find that it helps bring more passion and connection than ever before! With the right attitude and approach, being part of an open marriage can be incredibly rewarding both emotionally and physically. So don’t hesitate start exploring today!

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Ground Rules

Another day of Hotwifing advice and of course..your questions and stories is upon us. Today I am going to address the topic of Ground Rules.

I have heard some major horror stories in the lifestyle from couples who swing and from couples who Hotwife and all due to this one most important topic. Due to the fact that there are 2 people involved in both lifestyles, you have to remember that feelings and emotions matter not just with you, but also with your partner. Without solid ground rules that address the feelings of both partners, this lifestyle can and does destroy marriages and relationships.

As a Hotwife myself, my goal in the lifestyle is not just to fuck other men, but to enhance my marriage with my husband. In fact, the latter is priority number one! And if you don’t do the same, then you are not Hotwifing….you are just dating and playing the field.

To avoid the tragedy, ..set ground rules….both of you! My Stag and I do not have many ground rules now but we started off with a ton of them. And if you are just starting off in this lifestyle, I can recommend a few to use on your own. Experiment with them. Use them if you like. Add to them if you like. Delete a couple if you like. It really is all about what works best for you both as a couple.

A good one to start with is to set the ground rule of ..You do not message or contact men without your Stags approval. And you do not agree to meet anyone without his approval. This will eliminate the possibility of jealousy.

Another good one is that you will not have a playdate without your Stag being present. The truth of this one is that your Stag most likely really will demand this anyway for safety sake.

Another is that there is no kissing (I can’t do this one at all and my Stag has never laid down this rule but there are those who are serious about this one)

Couples who are ok with the wife playing alone, some set a rule for the Hotwife to take pics and video each and every time they have a playdate. (This is one of my Stags rules).

Another good one for beginners is to always include the Stag, whether that be by the sex itself or the constant eye contact or touching. This is used to assure the partner that you are his always and it also helps show affection in a very intimate setting.

Some Stags require their Hotwife to dress super sexy. But I think this is a given anyway!

Another very good one for beginners is to set the rule that anytime one of you is feeling uncomfortable with anything, that you immediately stop and talk about it until you come to an agreement and set the boundary or draw a line in the sand.

Remember you can set whatever ground rules that you like. And also remember that this isnt just about you. Do not get into this lifestyle thinking that your needs are to be met only. That doesnt work. This lifestyle is for you both. Keep each other in mind at all times and you will have a great time!

This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and stories of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions or stories today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ♂️♀️♂️ ~LillybGoddess

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