Who Doesn't Think So?

the suffering never ends

I’m really tired of seeing people broken up into labels of absolutes.

People are not just “good” or “bad”.

People are not a list of labels. 

People are complex, situations are complex.

I know, that makes it a lot harder when you want to just write off everything someone’s ever done as bad – but that’s not how people actually are, and it would do everyone good to stop pretending they are.

I am tired of hearing about the fear people have in putting themselves out there. And it is a scary thing! Putting yourself out there means subjecting yourself to people who want a really good reason to tear you down, who will jump at the first chance to feel “good” by labeling someone else as “bad”.

I reject this. I reject the idea that there should be fear in speaking up and talking about experiences and trying to reach an understanding of a situation.

I’m unhappy to see people spitefully urging others to cut off ties with their friends under the guise of “well, that person’s just inherently bad, so if you talk to them you’re bad too.” That is fucked up. You definitely have the right to let the friend know you don’t want to hear about whoever troubles you, but you do not at all have the right to decide who their friends should be. This includes guilt trips.

Anyway, just try to be more aware of others. Everyone else is a person like you. They might not have the same experiences as you. They might not understand how their words are harmful, or how what they’re doing is wrong. They certainly won’t if you never tell them.

Most people are trying to be good, but they’re going to mess it up sometimes. Try to keep that in mind. Even when people do really fucked up shit, sometimes they are trying to do good. “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and all that.

Nothing gets solved, no growth happens when you put people into a box from which you’ll never let them escape.

Yes, you absolutely must be careful about people who have tendencies and patterns that are harmful to you. Sometimes people try to overcome those patterns and they fail, and you have to distance yourself from them: that is the sad reality of life. Sometimes though, they can overcome it. But they certainly won’t if the first thing you do is write them off after a fuck up. 

Be sincere. Use your best judgment.

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I just realize that Gaston is Belle’s enemy not Beast/Adam. How in the fuck Gaston is Beast’s enemy? In Beauty and the Beast, they actually met (in person) fighting each other and Gaston broke into his home, attempting to kill him. While Belle was tormented by Gaston into marrying him since he thought she was pretty. And plus Beast just met Gaston, that isolated furry have no enemy beside the fairy who gave him the red rose, which is weird because red rose are considered for love relationship.

So in this consultation

Gaston is Belle’s enemy

Beast is Gaston’s enemy

No one is Beast’s enemy

Writing prompt

I want a disastrous and chaotic found family with Hero x Villain:

An adult Hero who has underlying traumas that they refuse to admit and acknowledge. They are so tried from fighting. They literally running on coffee, fear, and stress. Probably have white hairs and eye bags.

The small group of sidekicks who wants to be trains as an heroes but too chaotic and “share a single braincell” . Trying fight the villains but they only known how to self-defend themselves from Hero’s teaching because Hero doesn’t want them to suffer from a hero job. Hero has to stop them from going in danger or acting like an heroes. Probably calls Hero, “mom” and villain “dad”.

An adult Villain who has strong mortal code against children. They were suspect that Hero is putting these Sidekicks in danger, but only to realize that Sidekicks aren’t actually sidekicks and Hero is trying to protect them. Going easy on the kids during the fight before Hero drag them away from the fight. Probably falls in love with Hero.

so now there's a discussion of whether Mal deserves all the hate. And I think we should unite to love the character of the saga:

✨✨ Gil✨✨

ao3 turns 15 today

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They would have the sexiest genes ever!🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧

both Ben and Adam should have hair that grows crazy fast and messy, lil fangs and lil claws and this should be a permanent thing me thinks. Adam from being the Beast, Ben bc it was passed down to him

GIL LEGUME, son of gaston legume

Same, I literally waste all of my money on him

Joey Wheeler: AYY im walkin ere

Me: I would die for you.