Gorgeous Girls Don't Quit On Their Dreams

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: ¨·.·¨ : ‌ ` ·. if you’re reading this i hope November is good to you. i hope your days get better, brighter, happier and calmer. be kind to yourself & to others and watch how amazing things get. sending love, please accept

life feels more comfortable when it's cold and cloudy outside

next time if you ever feel like falling back to old habits just remember this

personally, there's no better motivation than remembering that there's probably many people out there who don't want me to succeed.

girls…..

bad habits that held me back for years

negative self talk: tune into your inner voice and turn mean thoughts into kind ones

prioritising comfort over progress: you have to actually do the work, then enjoy your rest and comfort (with less anxiety too)

hanging around the wrong people: you are the sum of the people you spend the most time with, choose your friends carefully

never taking responsibility: tough stuff happens to everybody, focus on what you can control (you) rather than blaming outside circumstances (not talking about trauma here obviously)

expecting praise for 'being yourself': you're good enough as you are in a spiritual sense, but if you want to be excellent at something you have to actually do the work, not just expect praise and reward for just showing up

liking the aesthetic more than the work: do you want to achieve that goal or do you just like how it looks on pinterest??? make sure you derive some level of pleasure and satisfaction from the pursuit

overthinking: seriously just tell your brain to shut up. stop over intellectualising and over thinking every single thing. find your heart to guide you and save your brain power for working on your passions...

fall in love with the process. see the beauty in the hours spent studying, the time spent learning new skills, the journaling, the beauty rituals and the motivation will come naturally to you. romanticise the journey of becoming your dream girl and it will become easier.