In a spirited discourse with peers the other day, we delved into the foundations of patriarchy and the blissful equilibrium of a conservative marriage. I feel inclined to divulge our conclusions.
The crux of our conversation pivoted around the question: what is the indispensable element of a traditional marriage? The first notion presented was the concept of modest beauty. I found this proposition lacking, as not all women could, nor should they be required to, satisfy this criterion. Furthermore, it is the husband's prerogative to direct his wife's appearance, dictating whether she should be modest, alluring, or even provocative. Thus, the image of a wife is fluid, molded by her husband's desires.
Fertility emerged as the next candidate. Once more, the argument of universality was invoked, with the counterpoint that not all wives are capable of childbearing, and yet they can still maintain a traditional gender role in marriage.
The proposition of good etiquette was summarily dismissed; it merely attests to a wife's sound education. No doubt it is a desirable quality, just like the other features we discussed, but it's not the non-negotiable element we sought.
The concept of discipline brought us closer to the mark. Engaging in tasks that one may not relish or perceive as necessary is a facet of obedience. And there it was - the term we'd been groping for.
Thus, we reached a consensus that obedience is the fundamental trait upon which all others hinge. Absent obedience, a traditional gender role relationship would crumble; it would not be unequivocally established that the husband governs and the wife acquiesces. An obedient wife will unfailingly support her husband's decisions, from her personal aesthetics to the number of offspring.
Nonetheless, it's only the assertion of male authority that can foster obedience in a wife; he must earn it through capable and firm leadership. His guidance is as indispensable as her obedience; they are two halves of a whole, forming an impeccable union.
https://www.cia.gov/readingroom/docs/OPERATION%20CONDOR%5B15502891%5D.pdf
Yes the US government aid in removing key leaders of pinko groups. Btw you do know for most of condor dems had the main power in congress and the wh . but the fact during the cold war they killed pinkos seeking to put more people under the pinko flag when they lead groups to revolt and force people into pinko nations. failing to see how this is bad even dems where killing pinkos.
Do you have the slightest idea how many essential workers we would lose if every woman in the world decided to immediately quit their jobs and marry a man today? If jobs in healthcare, sanitation, education, et cetera suddenly become extremely popular amongst men, I will MAYBE consider giving the patriarchy a shot.
do you understand that if 85% of women the ones that polls show do not wish to work left the work force company's would have to more than raise pay by 225% since the pool of people to fill a job would be gone. also all the HR dept would be dead. we over night go back to the fact that 1 income could support a family. along with over 45% of mothers do not make money when in the work force due to the cost of day care and food that must be bought vs made due to time. over night kids would do better family would be better paid and women would be happier. do you know in 1919 right before women got the right to vote polls showed that over 85% of women did not ever want the right to vote.
“Should I dress for my husband?……”
The simple answer is yes!!! You should ALWAYS dress for your husband. I know being a housewife is super hard work and sometimes requires jobs that can’t be done in the proper dress (skirt, dresses, heels, makeup, etc) but unless you are gardening or making major messy repairs you should be dressed decently at all times! I am not saying every day has to be a skirt and heel day but at least get up and present yourself well! Look at it like this…
You roll out of bed in the morning and you decide not to change out of your pajamas and freshen up a bit. This makes you feel lethargic and unclean, you stroll into the kitchen already feeling languid and you “cook” a lazy breakfast of cereal and toast. Your husband, your lover, the one you have sworn to serve comes out of the bedroom ready for work expecting a nice hot breakfast and to see his beautiful wife and all he gets is bed head, morning breath, and cold uncaring cereal?!?! No way!! Not in my house!! Getting ready for your husband not only shows that you care about the way you appear in his eyes it gets you motivated to do other things! If you don’t get dressed for your husband you feel lazy, so you get lazy on breakfast, and you get lazy on chores, and you get lazy on dinner. Your hard working husband DOES NOT DESERVE THIS UNCARING ATTITUDE!!!!! He goes out all day and works hard and all he asks for is a hot meal, a clean house, and a wife who is obviously excited and awaiting his presence.
THE WAY YOU DRESS IS THE WAY YOU ACT
DRESS FOR YOUR MAN DRESS FOR YOUR HUSBAND DRESS FOR THE LIFE YOU WANNA BUILD FOR THE TWO OF YOU!!!!
Dress for him because you love him and care about what he thinks about you!!
Thank you all for reading and I hope you all find this helpful! I hope you are blessed with a happy home and a clean kitchen! :)
Sexy Handmaid’s Tale outfit.  If this isn’t an endorsement of the patriarchy, I don’t know what is.
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