Things I've learned working with (for) some of the biggest names and elites in my field;
1. If you can Google it, don't ask it
2. If you don't know enough about it to be an expert don't talk about it
3. Your bachelor's means nothing. Most of those absolute gods haven't even studied this field and they're winning. Experience >>>> certification
4. Stay as far away from your fineeeeee specimen of a boss (there's a story here but the idea is FLEEE TEMPTATION)
5. Only narcissists like a flatterer. No one wants to be constantly told how awesome they are it's actually kind of embarrassing. Cut out the hero worship, find the balance between treating them as equals but knowing youre not.
6. Survival for the fittest. Only the strong survive
7. Leave your morals at home. In this world you do whatever it takes until the only option left is to sell your soul, then its better to go home.
8. Never outshine the masters. This intern was doing so good he got fired it's sad to watch but Robert Greene said what he said.
9. No oneeeeeeeeeeee cares about your accomplishments, leave past glory at home. 'I'm the smartest in my class' okay well so is everyone.
10. Let your competition stay comfortable and move in silence. Shoutout to my fineeeeeeeeee boss for this piece of advise btw. (Yall the man is so fine though )
11. Know your place. Learn the hierarchy and stick to your post, rise slowly in the background (I'll make a post about it)
12. The elite of the elite are some of the most insecure people in this planet. Due to the nature of my field I've met actual real life elites, News frequenters, heirs , business moguls (journalism major here) and my God what an insecure bunch.
13. Networking >>>> work. Working hard is great but all success is networking. Know who's who.
14. Just because someone is in a position of power doesn't mean they're the ones in power. I've seen bosses cave under employees. When you learn hierarchy,learn who ACTUALLY holds the power.
15. Workplace boundaries are everything. Matter of fact I think your workplace is the one place you need the most boundaries in. Either establish yourself or get used ( the other interns were telling me about how the bosses would call them at MIDNIGHT with work lol and there was me who doesn't even look at my phone after ten. Also, SEXUAL HARRASMENT gawd. Deeeesgoooosting. Boundaries, ladies. Boundaries)
16. Do not go above and beyond no one cares. Do whatever you're getting paid to do and go home.
17. Your workmates are NOT your friends. It's not a team nor a family. Look out for your best interests.
1. carry a plastic bag and pick up litter that you see 2. pay for the person behind you 3. put a cute anonymous note in a library book 4. send a kind anon ask to someone you’re following 5. tell your friends and family you love them 6. make cookies for your best friend 7. include someone who looks left out in a conversation 8. hug people tightly 9. say “thank you” to someone you appreciate 10. compliment your friend’s talents 11. have a checklist and challenge yourself to tick everything off 12. stand up, stretch, and drink a glass of water every hour 13. start jogging, don’t feel bad if you’re slow 14. wake up early so you have time for both hobbies and studying 15. look at things with your eyes more than you take photos 16. treat yourself how you would treat your best friend 17. learn how to bake a cake 18. give yourself some time alone 19. read a book 20. try a new hairstyle 21. learn a new language 22. look at things and appreciate their poetry and beauty 23. keep a journal for all the moments you want to remember 24. pay more attention to the good things than the bad things 25. have manners and don’t be aggressive or rude 26. if someone is rude, be the bigger person and walk away 27. but sugar-free chewing gum so you don’t have to give in to junk food cravings 28. write down your favourite quotes 29. if it’s raining, share your umbrella with someone who needs it 30. be nice to kids even if you dislike them 31. keep making your art, writing, and photography. keep doing things even if you think you suck 32. keep doing something you’re passionate about even though no one is being supportive 33. stop changing yourself to fit the standards of other people 34. plant a garden of fruits and flowers 35. stop sitting down so much and go out and see the world 36. be strong. don’t let people walk all over you 37. focus on your studying for 30 minutes and give yourself a 10 minute break 38. look at the moon and the stars 39. look at the clouds, sunrise and sunset 40. stop using your phone at dinner 41. have a bubble bath 42. message someone you haven’t talked to for a while 43. let go of toxic people who don’t deserve you 44. don’t be afraid to say that you were wrong 45. keep yourself busy so you stop overthinking so much 46. don’t assume things about someone you don’t know 47. say kind things behind someone’s back 48. be nice to others even if you feel angry, sad or bitter. it’s not their fault 49. remember that your emotions don’t have to rule your actions 50. stop caring so much about what other people might think 51. wear what you want 52. smile at a stranger 53. don’t worry. worrying about the future is useless. it will be a lot less scary than you imagined 54. stop not caring about important things. care about everything and everyone you love with all your heart. 55. stop checking your notifications every 2 minutes 56. don’t play mind games with people 57. make your resting face more happy 58. think happy thoughts even if it feels fake, and you will turn more positive 59. be confident. fake the confidence until you have natural confidence 60. make every morning a new beginning 61. try to understand people rather than be judgemental 62. educate yourself on societal issues 63. stop blaming other people for your own mistakes 64. swear less and don’t call people mean and derogatory terms 65. either learn or be inspired by everything you see 66. constantly find new ways to improve yourself 67. have little goals every day and feel great when you achieve them 68. your comfort zone is nice but don’t stay in it too much. be brave and try something new, even if you fail it’s not a failure 69. tidy your desk 70. watch all the best films 71. stop saying mean things to yourself 72. be happy for no reason 73. say hi to everyone you know 74. don’t dwell on your past 75. keep doing something you’re passionate about even if people criticise you 76. put your alarm away from your bed so you get out of bed as soon as the alarm goes off 77. let your emotions out, either by talking to someone or letting it out creatively 78. google everything you’re curious about 79. use a dictionary for words you don’t know 80. don’t feel sad about all the unanswerable questions 81. be kind to everyone, everything and yourself. 82. spread love and happiness constantly 83. help people who need it 84. don’t be afraid to cry 85. pick yourself up. you don’t need other people to save you 86. if you don’t have anything kind or constructive to say, don’t say it 87. breathe through your stomach, not your chest 88. sleep earlier!! 89. eat more fruits than chocolate 90. be there when your friend is sad, not just when everything is fine 91. make your bed every morning 92. observe everything and pay attention to what’s around you 93. quit any addictions you have 94. give more attention to all the great things 95. learn, accept your past, and move on 96. write things down to remember them 97. be proud of every little victory 98. be proud of who you are 99. remember that you’re loveable, important and worthy of happiness 100. don’t give up. you’re still young and you have a whole life ahead of you.
We back at it again! 2025 consistency is all I need.
🤍 5 minute everyday pilates back routine by lidia mera
🤍 8 minute fix for neck hump by yuuka sagwa
🤍 8 minute upper body stretch by mizi
🤍 10 minute fix forward head & neck posture by mizi
🤍 10 minute fix your posture pilates style stretch by eleni fit
🤍 10 minute workout & stretch for round back by pamela reif
🤍 10 minute slim back & better posture by emi wong
🤍 10 minute fix posture & reduce back pain by mady morrison
🤍 20 minute posture correction by akshaya agnes
🤍 25 minute workout for better posture by growingannanas
🤍 25 minute pilates for better posture by move with nicole
🤍 30 minute pilates for upper body & posture by move with nicole
decided to become a person i wanted to be so badly when i was younger :
happy, in love with life and my body, doing things I want to do and saying things I want to say, good at taking care of myself and someone who worries less and lives more, watch me
This my thinking on a daily. And yes tumblr has made a huge impact on woman I am currently becoming.
Is Tumblr becoming more positive or am I just liking myself more every day 🤔
Remember this words once you’re in America 🇺🇸.🙇🏽♀️🥹
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