I will never understand the hate for grey hairs. Your hair has sliver in it now. You have the color of stars on your hair. You have proof you survived and grew up. You have proof you are living. How is any of this bad?
Always feel bad when I see someone say something like "I don't have a disability but I have [something that is a disability but society doesn't treat like one]"
Migraines. Food allergies. GERD. Vision problems. Skin problems. For people that menstruate, conditions that cause irregular and painful cycles. Those are all disabling. Anything that impairs you from functioning or completing a basic life task without accommodation is a disability. Anything that makes you spend days in bed during a flare up is a disability! Not everyone experiences your symptoms and you're not being weak or whiny.
Mental illnesses that people treat as "mainstream" these days like anxiety, depression, or ADHD are still disabilities. Overcoming a massive struggle just to get out of bed, slow down your thoughts, or focus on what you need/want to do is disabling. Starting the day with less mental energy than most people is disabling.
For the migraine people: yes, everyone gets headaches, but no not everyone gets migraines. It's a condition that can be inherited in which our nerves are literally wired differently and more sensitive than someone who doesn't get migraines.
For the food allergy and digestive disorder people: if you eat something your body can't tolerate, you become sick. Doesn't matter if it's a trip to the ER or skin irritation for a few hours, that's a negative response in your body. Going hungry at social events because you can't eat anything, that's not something you just have to grin and bear. Prohibitively expensive or hard-to-find accessible food. Most people have the privilege of not worrying about eating.
For people with abnormal menstrual cycles: you don't have to suck it up because "lots of people get periods, no one likes them, but they all deal with it." Majority of people who get periods don't spend days in bed with debilitating pain or nausea. Your heightened struggle is real. Going months between cycles can increase your risk of health conditions down the line, and it's good to speak to a gynecologist if you have access to one.
If you are feeling discomfort on a regular basis in any part of your body, or if you usually feel unwell after eating, that isn't normal and you deserve medical attention and support
Ellis Reed
heads up for gays that don't use tiktok: you're gonna start hearing the words "demure" and "mindful" a lot more than you used to
You should be able to rot in bed for 2, maybe 3 hours after waking up before it starts affecting what time it is. If I wake up at 8:30 and lie in bed for 2hr it should still be 8:30 when I get up
"don't tell people what to draw"
no, fuck you. draw more fat people. coward.
(grabs you by the shoulders) you have to make room for new experiences in your life. you have to go through the unpleasant work of leaving your comfort zone, even if just for a few minutes at a time. because if you don't, your brain will trick you into stagnation. you will start to believe that the world can barely fit you in it. but that's not true. it's the opposite way around. you can fit the whole word inside of you. your task is only this: to welcome it with open arms
"kill them with kindness" WRONG run them over in your wheelchair 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽 👨🦼 👩🦼 🧑🦼 👨🦽 👩🦽 🧑🦽
There are still hundreds of thousands of people in Northern Gaza
• won’t get better
• are terminally ill
• can’t be adequately treated/treated at all
• can’t afford treatment
• will die soon
• considered/are considering MAiD
• have problems that aren’t temporary
• have diseases that aren’t being researched
• are angry about being disabled/sick
• are sad about being disabled/sick
• are bitter about disabled/sick
• don’t want to joke about their sickness or disability
we’re still deserving of community
Stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare