The Starting Rules

Chastity Rules

Basic Rules for beginners. The key is to be very strict and follow every rule.

1. Take control of his orgasms • He must wear a chastity device 24/7. • You should lock his chastity cage and only you should be the “KeyHolder”. You can also use a numeric padlock. • Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing. • Emphasize that he will never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm OR erection! without your permission. • He must experience ruined orgasms. This emphasizes your control and stimulates his frustration. • He may only cum when wearing a buttplug and your panties. You may also gag him. • Peg him, make him cum like a real sissy • Milk his prostate • Always restrain his hands(handcuffs or rope) when letting him out of his cage. Many guys will resist after an orgasm or take control when you edge/ruin them.

Everytime you let him cum, you must ruin him. After that you make him eat his cum. You can edge him and forbid him to orgasm. You have to learn him that he may not orgasm. If he does then you have to make him eat his cum.

Ruined -> Eat it Accidently -> Eat it

Only tease and edge! Edge every day!

2. Chastity devices • Make him buy secure permanent devices like the jailbird, holy trainer or metal cages with urethra plugs. Make sure you get the right size so he cannot escape. You can make many devices escape proof with medical glue. The best option is a PA. It is recommended to glue his foreskin with superglue so he won’t attempt to escape. This does not damage the skin but lays a sticky layer for 1 week. • The best devices can be worn 24/7 and only need cleaning every other day. He can clean it in the shower by putting soap in his cage and apply a full jet of the shower head right in the cage. it will clean his penis thoroughly. No need to take him out • Shaving can perfectly be done while wearing the device. Just move it a bit to reach the hard to reach spots. • If he has to clean his penis manually for a reason. Do it under supervision or tell him that only you may touch his penis. He is not allowed to play by himself. • Draw you name on his dick before putting him in the cage. That way you can check if he cheated or not! For him it is mind boggling not touching a body part for over a month when he used to touch it every hour.

3. Get into his head! • Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. • Tease him with his fantasies whenever possible. • Make him wear your panties all the time. Skirts, stockings, socks everything to make him remember he’s your slut at work or wherever he goes. • Make him sign these rules without letting him read it. He may experience the joy of chastity. • He must promise he will follow the rules strictly. You may threaten to leave him if he doesn’t. He will make up his mind soon enough. • Explain to him that he will only receive prostate orgasm. Sissies should cum like real girls. • Make him shave his WHOLE body! Nothing better then feeling a soft body next to you in bed at night. It will grow back so he has to maintain it.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible. • Taunt him. Dress sexy • Talk sexy and dirty to him. • Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating. • Fondle him or let him fondle you. • Make him wear a buttplug or prostate massager everytime you go out. • Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual. • Make him give you orgasms frequently. • Edge him • Milk his prostate

5. Make him do something humiliating and learn when he will do anything for you. • Tease him to the edge then command the most humiliating activities. He will do them. • Make him wear a butt-plug for a time. • Train him to submit to your strapon. • Make him be naked when you are not. • Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum after your ruin his orgasm no matter where it is deposited. Sit on his face after a creampie or feed him off your hand or french kiss him!

6. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to taunt him. • Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private). • Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear. • Make him shop for lingerie or toys for you. • Leave notes with instructions like: “I want to see you caged and plugged with these when I get home”

7. Control your own feelings of guilt.

• He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission. • If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it! • Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one. • Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

Extra sissy rules:

• A sissy must wear panties. He does not own any male underwear. Take away his underwear and replace it. • A sissy may wear a bra and pink or brightly colored tights or leggings. Leggings and nylon are mandatory! • A sissy must sleep in lingerie. If he does not have any, he must sleep naked. • When alone, a sissy must dress as a girl. Good sissies wear lipstick while alone. • A sissy always keeps himself free of facial hair, and is otherwise well groomed. He must always be presentable, ready to please. • Good sissies shave their legs • A sissy must never touch himself sexually without explicit permission from his Master or from his Muse • A sissy must wear as many lovely pink girly things as possible • Sissy must be in panties and a bra minimum at all times. • Sissy must keep shaved clean below the neck at all times. • Slave is not to masturbate with out permission, and when permission is given, it must be done in a slutty humiliating sissy way that reinforces my position.

Some text to make him horny:

‘I love thinking about your cock in that cage

I’m thinking about you inside me right now, maybe I’ll let you tonight

Fancy a blow job? He replies yes. Shame you’ve got that cage on.

How are you going to convince me to unlock you tonight honey?

I’m really horny. Come and give me an orgasm, at least one of might as well

a list of tasks with ‘unlock cock’ as the final one lol

Read and learn new stuff: http://chastitycouples.tumblr.com/

Why you should lock up his cock.

1. He can’t masturbate whenever he wants.

You now control when/how/if he cums. No more jacking off whenever he pleases. You give him permission to be unlocked and released. This makes him desire you so much more. He’ll want to fuck you every chance he gets. But you decide if he’s allowed to.

2. You have all the control.

You having all this power is sexy for the both of you. Make him your slave. He will do whatever you want, whenever you want. Make him fall to his knees when he gets home to go down on you before you even think about unlocking him.

3. You come/cum first.

He now lives to please you. The beautiful thing is that it’s all about you 24/7. Make him get you off 10 times before you unlock him. Or make him get you off 10 times and don’t unlock him. ;)

4. It’s fun.

Make it a game. Have him flip a coin. Heads he gets to cum that night, tails he stays in his cage. Theres so many things you can do with this. Be creative. Make him wonder how or if he will cum. And what he’ll have to in order or be unlocked.

5. Torture him.

Tell him when you’re masturbating. Send him pictures of you pleasing yourself while he’s at work, caged. Tell him what you’re getting off too. Suck his balls when he’s locked up. Make him think you’re going to unlock him but don’t.

Chastity is an amazing thing. We are loving this lifestyle.

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grasas12

2 years ago

No problem mistress. Cage is on.

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grasas12

3 years ago

That’s how it works. Cock is locked now. I hope for forever.

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grasas12

3 years ago

Wow. Looks hot. Is it my kink now? Maybe

Oh…My…fck…I just lost My shit over this video and I don’t post videos but this…this, is magnificence

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grasas12

2 years ago

Oh that was not expected.

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grasas12

2 years ago

Secret

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grasas12

2 years ago

Locktober

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grasas12

3 years ago

Permanent Chastity

Permanent chastity is always a kinky idea at first. It’s quite interesting how people tend to have a love hate relationship with the idea. The more you think about it the sexier it gets, until the idea becomes scary. One day she’s telling him she’s thinking about locking him up forever, and that gets him all horny and wanting release. Then she lets him out and lets him cum, and it’s a great experience for both to share that level of passion.

However, as time goes on, the idea of permanent chastity becomes a more dominant idea. The spaces between unlock times get a little longer, and she teases him a little more often about it. Saying it’s permanent, and then making him wait an extra week or two. She knows exactly the effect this is having on his psyche. She is likely not yet comfortable with the idea of permanent chastity, so he gets a release eventually.

It is addicting. The more she keeps him locked, the more she wants to keep him locked. She notices the increased enthusiasm to serve her. She can feel it in his tongue as his eagerness to please her is overwhelming. She notices the increase in submissiveness, and how he is basically throwing himself at her feet. She notices how much his willingness to use his tongue in other places such as her ass, or feet, even if at one time he may have been hesitant to lick her ass, he is now begging for it. She notices his focus on her pleasure is far greater than his focus on his own pleasure, even though she can see his desperation for release, she enjoys his redirected energy into her pleasure only.

The addiction to chastity grows in both of them, and before long, the idea becomes scary, because it’s so close to being a reality. She loves having him chaste and at her whim, and he’s certainly not complaining about it. The idea of never entering her again with his uncaged penis is terrifying yet totally erotic. It’s like the worlds best drug. An idea both can play with, and make better with simple gestures and thoughts. Tapping the key on his cage while contemplating whether or not she should unlock him. Then deciding not tonight.

She learns to grow in that power, and she loses any kind of guilt about not giving him pleasure. It empowers her. Yet it is his sacrifice that turns her on, and gives her a sense of owning him completely. He wants to serve her so much, that he is willing to let go of intercourse with her, in order to earn his place at her feet forever. That’s a level of loyalty conventional relationships could only dream of having. She has the ability to make him pussy free at any time, and that’s why the idea is scary for him. Because he doesn’t know what she thinks about it. She can tease all she likes, but what if she’s serious?

It’s a cognitive dissonance idea. He wants to sacrifice for her, but he also wants to have intercourse with her because he is so deeply in love with her. It can be difficult for both partners to give up intercourse in favor of permanent chastity, because she is going to need to find a replacement if she enjoys penetration. Either with another partner, or with toys that he can use on her. It’s a different kind of sex. It’s a major psychological shift that he is going to have to undergo and realize his penis is no longer his dominant sexual organ.

When she finally does make the decision that his penis is to be forever caged, and intercourse is indeed a thing of the past for him, it can be very emotional, on top of enhanced desperation, for the first month or two. Letting the reality sink in and absorb the new life in real time is real surrender. He will be pushed to the breaking point, because there is no other place for him to go. He must let go of a lifetime of living sexually through his penis, and let go of all aspects of his old sex life. From that point forward, he obeys her, and only her. She decides all of it.

Once that breaking point is reached, and he has had that realization, that he’s never going back to the old way, he will cry tears of acceptance. He will surrender himself to her, and to the cage. This is when permanent chastity moves from being a scary idea, to his actual reality, and he can no longer fear it, because she has decided for him that this is the way it will be. He is surrendered to her. That’s when the cage becomes his home. That’s when he feels naked without the cage on. His desperation turns into dedication. He no longer fights the cage but embraces it. And she never goes back on her word, it’s permanent, full stop. Never to be questioned. That’s the sacrifice of permanent chastity.

It’s a beautiful relationship.

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grasas12

2 years ago

Just reblog