Pls Don’t Hide It From Me

Permanent Chastity

Permanent chastity is always a kinky idea at first. It’s quite interesting how people tend to have a love hate relationship with the idea. The more you think about it the sexier it gets, until the idea becomes scary. One day she’s telling him she’s thinking about locking him up forever, and that gets him all horny and wanting release. Then she lets him out and lets him cum, and it’s a great experience for both to share that level of passion.

However, as time goes on, the idea of permanent chastity becomes a more dominant idea. The spaces between unlock times get a little longer, and she teases him a little more often about it. Saying it’s permanent, and then making him wait an extra week or two. She knows exactly the effect this is having on his psyche. She is likely not yet comfortable with the idea of permanent chastity, so he gets a release eventually.

It is addicting. The more she keeps him locked, the more she wants to keep him locked. She notices the increased enthusiasm to serve her. She can feel it in his tongue as his eagerness to please her is overwhelming. She notices the increase in submissiveness, and how he is basically throwing himself at her feet. She notices how much his willingness to use his tongue in other places such as her ass, or feet, even if at one time he may have been hesitant to lick her ass, he is now begging for it. She notices his focus on her pleasure is far greater than his focus on his own pleasure, even though she can see his desperation for release, she enjoys his redirected energy into her pleasure only.

The addiction to chastity grows in both of them, and before long, the idea becomes scary, because it’s so close to being a reality. She loves having him chaste and at her whim, and he’s certainly not complaining about it. The idea of never entering her again with his uncaged penis is terrifying yet totally erotic. It’s like the worlds best drug. An idea both can play with, and make better with simple gestures and thoughts. Tapping the key on his cage while contemplating whether or not she should unlock him. Then deciding not tonight.

She learns to grow in that power, and she loses any kind of guilt about not giving him pleasure. It empowers her. Yet it is his sacrifice that turns her on, and gives her a sense of owning him completely. He wants to serve her so much, that he is willing to let go of intercourse with her, in order to earn his place at her feet forever. That’s a level of loyalty conventional relationships could only dream of having. She has the ability to make him pussy free at any time, and that’s why the idea is scary for him. Because he doesn’t know what she thinks about it. She can tease all she likes, but what if she’s serious?

It’s a cognitive dissonance idea. He wants to sacrifice for her, but he also wants to have intercourse with her because he is so deeply in love with her. It can be difficult for both partners to give up intercourse in favor of permanent chastity, because she is going to need to find a replacement if she enjoys penetration. Either with another partner, or with toys that he can use on her. It’s a different kind of sex. It’s a major psychological shift that he is going to have to undergo and realize his penis is no longer his dominant sexual organ.

When she finally does make the decision that his penis is to be forever caged, and intercourse is indeed a thing of the past for him, it can be very emotional, on top of enhanced desperation, for the first month or two. Letting the reality sink in and absorb the new life in real time is real surrender. He will be pushed to the breaking point, because there is no other place for him to go. He must let go of a lifetime of living sexually through his penis, and let go of all aspects of his old sex life. From that point forward, he obeys her, and only her. She decides all of it.

Once that breaking point is reached, and he has had that realization, that he’s never going back to the old way, he will cry tears of acceptance. He will surrender himself to her, and to the cage. This is when permanent chastity moves from being a scary idea, to his actual reality, and he can no longer fear it, because she has decided for him that this is the way it will be. He is surrendered to her. That’s when the cage becomes his home. That’s when he feels naked without the cage on. His desperation turns into dedication. He no longer fights the cage but embraces it. And she never goes back on her word, it’s permanent, full stop. Never to be questioned. That’s the sacrifice of permanent chastity.

It’s a beautiful relationship.

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2 days to get count. If it is too little I will add 50%

No problem mistress. Cage is on.

Oh that is a dream

Why you should lock up his cock.

1. He can’t masturbate whenever he wants. 

You now control when/how/if he cums. No more jacking off whenever he pleases. You give him permission to be unlocked and released. This makes him desire you so much more. He’ll want to fuck you every chance he gets. But you decide if he’s allowed to.

 2. You have all the control. 

You having all this power is sexy for the both of you. Make him your slave. He will do whatever you want, whenever you want. Make him fall to his knees when he gets home to go down on you before you even think about unlocking him.

 3. You come/cum first. 

He now lives to please you. The beautiful thing is that it’s all about you 24/7. Make him get you off 10 times before you unlock him. Or make him get you off 10 times and don’t unlock him. ;)

 4. It’s fun.

Make it a game. Have him flip a coin. Heads he gets to cum that night, tails he stays in his cage. Theres so many things you can do with this. Be creative. Make him wonder how or if he will cum. And what he’ll have to in order or be unlocked.

 5. Torture him.

Tell him when you’re masturbating. Send him pictures of you pleasing yourself while he’s at work, caged. Tell him what you’re getting off too. Suck his balls when he’s locked up. Make him think you’re going to unlock him but don’t. 

Chastity is an amazing thing. We are loving this lifestyle.

I have started locktober warmup, where it seemlessly go into locktober without any break. It is so natural to be in a cage. Let’s celebrate it. 💥

I cannot tell you this :|

Perfect mistress