It's Very Unproductive To Sit Around Waiting For People To Guess What You Want From Them Just To Then

It's very unproductive to sit around waiting for people to guess what you want from them just to then get upset when they don't guess it.

If you care a lot about your birthday being celebrated, let your friends know that it's happening a couple weeks in advance and make it clear that you would like to plan something fun with them.

If you want your friends to gush about your latest achievement, make sure to let them all know that you did this or that cool thing.

If someone's joke is hurting your feelings, you can and should go "hey, could you please not joke about my appearance? It's a bit hurtful and I'd rather you went at something else."

If you miss someone, don't be afraid to reach out and let them know you'd love to catch up with them when they have the time!

If you're upset about something, try to have a constructive conversation about it instead of holding a grudge in silence.

You will get so much further if you make a serious attempt to exchange hints and grudges with conversation and communication!

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1 year ago

the furby chart

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2 months ago

I feel like I should sell like half of my pullip collection.

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groovyblueworld

5 months ago

Some parents will never forgive you for how they failed you

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1 month ago

My Two Boxes Of Harolds Have Arrived! Shown: Only The First Box Lol. It Took Me All Afternoon To Sift

My two boxes of Harolds have arrived! Shown: only the first box lol. It took me all afternoon to sift through them and make sure they were okay. I have a few touches to add (my logos, wiring, sanding any egregious seam lines). I will next be checking whose blank orders are ready to be sent. Full-sets will be worked on next!

Really excited to be sending them out soon! I will keep you all updated.

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groovyblueworld

6 months ago

I have come up with a better metaphor than “you can’t pour from an empty cup” for burnout. You can’t boil an empty kettle. Pouring from an empty cup just gets you nowhere. Trying to boil an empty kettle can ruin the kettle, the stove, and burn down your house if you keep trying it.

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groovyblueworld

1 year ago

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groovyblueworld

8 months ago

this felt so targeted

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groovyblueworld

5 months ago

Fighting Art Block With Silly Little Projects Like This Teapot Animal, Sipping From Your Cup. I Finally

fighting art block with silly little projects like this Teapot Animal, sipping from your cup. i finally got to experiment with gold leaf on a bjd & that was a lot of fun.

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groovyblueworld

1 year ago

couple takes tax evasion to other level!! house won’t stop MOVING!!

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groovyblueworld

7 months ago

Thank you, Harold. And you look very charming in your plant. I hope that it was comfy!

🔮🎃Get your fortune read by Harold!🎃🔮

For any orders placed up until Halloween, please comment or message me, and I'll post a picture of Harold drawing a tarot card for you and tag you in it!

Take a look at the official page here to see options.

I will use this post as a thread to share these fortunes on an ongoing basis up till Halloween.

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