@ninotbh

It is okay to take care of your needs.

Healing is like "Ah! I got that part of me back! How nice!" and then start crying because you shouldn't have lost that part in the first place

worrying is like worshipping the problem

You have to stop ruining things for yourself preemptively because you believe they’ll fail anyway. Give yourself a chance to succeed.

this reminder might be hard, but i need you to know that you have to be ok with people not liking you. in my mother tongue, we have a saying: “not even Jesus pleased everybody,” and the sooner you understand this, the less you’ll suffer for thinking you’re not enough. it’s impossible to be aligned with everybody.

“There is nothing wrong with second place. Your best effort is all that anyone’s asking for. And if you give your best and you come in second, you come in third, you come in last, it’s not about winning or losing. It’s about giving it everything you’ve got. Now, Sam has built a monument to devilry and chaos. I deserve second place. I came in second. The only crime here is that Oscar and Ally deserve first. We should be applauding them for getting more points. But in this sick rodeo, this bizarre fucked up clown festival that Sam’s put together we’re here celebrating what I can only describe as the sickness at the core of America. And uh…. I’m gonna get him I’m gonna get Sam.”

It’s crazy how low self-worth fucks with peoples lives